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Gollum



Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 7:13 am    Post subject: Koreans virtually owning filipino women Reply with quote

Myself and another Daves poster were out in Songtan recently. It was my first time to hit one of these filipino bars where you can buy the girls drinks for 10,000 won a shot. I thought it would be off-limits to military people, like many bars in Itaewon are, but it's not. They don't have "private room" or do things for money, so we figured the place wasn't all that bad.

Things around the Songtan area seem quite a bit more relaxed (fewer CP/MP troops checking around). I'm sure there are some "naughtier" bars around the area, but we didn't see that sort of thing around there. We were curious to see what Songtan was all about, and just explored.

We had a fun time drinking and talking with the filipina girls at one bar, who I might add, are a refreshing breath of fresh personality when compared to talking to Korean girls at places like Limelight. We bought them a few drinks, and they hung out with us for a good hour or more, in between dancing on stage (fully clothed). Yes, we were "customers" for buying them drinks, but they were such fun to chat with, and they hung out with us for so long, it didn't bother us. Heck, if we had been with non-working girls, we would have spent nearly as much on their drinks in that length of time, anyway.

My friend and I left that evening, questioning whether or not something must be going on "behind the scenes." It took us another night of watching and chatting (the following week) with the girls to figure it out.

Before I get to my second night there, let me tell you what I learned about these girls' lives. They come here on a 1 year contract. Their boss takes their passports and won't give them back until the end of the contract (would the labor board care about that?). The girls work 7 days -- Monday to Monday -- a week from 6pm until 1am (nearly all bars close at curfew around Songtan). They get one day off a month. For every 10,000 won drink, they keep about 3,000 of that. Their base pay is around 800,000 won a month, and they live in one big apartment with all the other girls in the bar.

Now on to our 2nd night, a week later....

We went there and ended up chatting with the same gals. We paid for a few more drinks and talked another good hour or more. Of course, the halmony/ajumma running the place was REALLY pushy about us buying more and more for the girls. She was a rag, to say the least!

As we near 1am, my friend and I start noticing lots of soldier-looking guys eyeing us and the girls we were with. They were obviously trying to get the attention of the girls we were with, but they were being ignored. Another girl across the bar was approached by a guy, and they appeared to be leaving together. This seemed odd, because the owner of the bar took his ID and what looked like money. So I asked the girl sitting next to me if he was bar-fining her.

NO NO NO! That's her boyfriend!

What? Her boyfriend? He has to pay money to take her out? That's a bar-fine.

No, it's her boyfriend. She won't go with anyone but her boyfriend. But he must pay 200,000 for her to leave our house for the night.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm...... ok... not a bar-fine. So will she see any of that money?

Yes, but only 60,000. It's not fair!

The end of the night came, and the girls said nothing to us about "going home" with them. They just went on their way. We walked out of the place with them for some distance, and went our separate ways.

So, there you have it.... these girls go all evening and don't "bar-fine" but their "boyfriend" pays the korean owner of the bar money to stay elsewhere that evening. If the girl goes somewhere other than home that night, she is in big trouble. They check to make sure they're home.

They seem to have a fairly well thought-out scheme going on to skirt the anti-prostitution and human-trafficking laws that the US Army has.

The girls working at this bar said they didn't have to go home with guys if they didn't want. This seemed correct. But the holding of their passport, and virtual "lock" on their after-hours lives made their jobs seem a lot like slavery to me.

The girls we spoke to took great interest in us when we started mentioning topics like the Labor Board, getting a 2nd passport made, etc. We also mentioned that we had no idea if the labor board would be of any help to them at all (probably not, since it's about contract disputes). They were obviously not happy with their situation.

What do you think... could these girls easily make a 2nd passport at their embassy and just go home? Or are they stuck? What are their options if they want to just leave?
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Ya-ta Boy



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 2:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The women are probably also held under control by things like debt for the ticket here and back home, presentable clothes for working, food and rent, not to mention any financial needs the family back home might have.
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Gopher



Joined: 04 Jun 2005

PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 4:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korea can be a freakin' harsh place, man. Mamasan also takes attendence at the pad right after work, by the way.

"Democratic society" is so much more than presidential elections...
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mindmetoo



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gopher wrote:
Korea can be a freakin' harsh place, man. Mamasan also takes attendence at the pad right after work, by the way.

"Democratic society" is so much more than presidential elections...


Young Asian and Eastern European immigrant women in Canada and the USA brought over to be "entertainers" live much the same kind of lives.
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Gopher



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am aware of the Asians who are running other Asians in the Bay Area sex industry, and there are also Asian-run, "Asian massage" parlours in Las Vegas, but I know nothing of Eastern Europeans working in mamasan-run hostess bars in the United States, working in the above-described conditions, for example. And I don't know how much money the Asian massage people are making, or what their living conditions are like, or whether they are held in bondage like they are here in Korea. I also didn't even know there were Korean-style hostess bars in the United States. Your post seems to imply that there are.

There are many, many topless bars, however, where, in Las Vegas anyway, women can make up to $5,000 in a single night, but they are not usually related to prostitution, indeed they rarely are. There are also "escort services," but my understanding is that they are voluntarily working in this very, very profitable industry, at least in Southern California and Las Vegas. There is an influx of Eastern Europeans -- Czechs and Polish, mostly -- as nude models and porn stars, lately, but that, too, is voluntary, and very profitable, I understand.

So, who exactly is importing these Asian and Eastern European girls into North America and holding them in bondage, and what are the exact conditions they live and work in?

Please be specific.
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Derrek



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 7:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
Gopher wrote:
Korea can be a freakin' harsh place, man. Mamasan also takes attendence at the pad right after work, by the way.

"Democratic society" is so much more than presidential elections...


Young Asian and Eastern European immigrant women in Canada and the USA brought over to be "entertainers" live much the same kind of lives.



Run by Koreans/Chinese/Asians. And when they are found out, they are prosecuted.

Here, it's business as usual, as long as the local police get free sex as a kickback (in some areas).

Prostitution is culturally accepted here. Where in the USA or Canada (other than the rare odd are like Las Vegas) could you place a symbol of sex-for-sale (barbershop pole, here) out in the open, and not expect police knocking on your door with a warrant? The closest thing we have back home are classified ads, but those get busted in semi-yearly sweeps.

(don't know much about Canada's sex industry, but I'm guessing it's similar to the US -- only with more plump snowbunnies). Laughing

Where I'm from, the TV News shows set cameras up in front of hidden brothel places that crop up for a short time, and they broadcast the faces of the men going in there.


Is this common in Korea?? No... it's an accepted way of life.
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Pyongshin Sangja



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 8:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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(don't know much about Canada's sex industry, but I'm guessing it's similar to the US -- only with more plump snowbunnies).


Sure, they're plump. Just don't think that the, umm, plus-sized girls you see in Itaewon are representative of all the girls in Canada. They're here because they couldn't get boyfriends at home, the good-looking ones don't need to go to Asia.

Ummm, don't you see a connection between renting them for a few minutes, as you did, and someone else owning them the rest of the time?

How about the culpability of the GI's? Are they innocent in all this?

Why blame only the Koreans?

Gopher, tell me more about your experiences with prostitutes. Please be specific.
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Derrek



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 8:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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FUBAR



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 9:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derrek wrote:
Pyongshin Sangja wrote:

Ummm, don't you see a connection between renting them for a few minutes, as you did, and someone else owning them the rest of the time?

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Nope. Apples and oranges.

If the girls didn't want to talk to me and let them buy them a drink, they could have avoided me.

Actually, one of the girls did just that to a drunk guy across the table from us.


Don't you think the reason that she ignored the drunk guy across the table and the reason she talked to you, one and the same? She was talking to you because she saw you as a potential bf. (ie. customer)

Regular guys don't go into juicy bars just to make conversation with the women.
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Gollum



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 9:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

FUBAR wrote:
Derrek wrote:
Pyongshin Sangja wrote:

Ummm, don't you see a connection between renting them for a few minutes, as you did, and someone else owning them the rest of the time?

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Nope. Apples and oranges.

If the girls didn't want to talk to me and let them buy them a drink, they could have avoided me.

Actually, one of the girls did just that to a drunk guy across the table from us.


Don't you think the reason that she ignored the drunk guy across the table and the reason she talked to you, one and the same? She was talking to you because she saw you as a potential bf. (ie. customer)

Regular guys don't go into juicy bars just to make conversation with the women.



But is it a crime for a regular guy to go into a bar, not sure what it is, and to buy a drink for a pretty girl when asked? So what? We would have gone in there out of curiousity, anyway. It wasn't posted as "off-limits."

How many "regular guys" do you suppose have gone to a juicy bar? Or a strip club?

So you've never been to one?

My female friends went to see male strippers at Limelight last year.

Is that equal or worse?



These girls were fully-clothed. They weren't having sex with people there. There were no private rooms. It didn't cost 500,000 won to sit and rent a table and have a drink. Heck, my beer was less than a regular beer in Itaewon. A drink for her cost 10,000 won. She talked to me for 1/2 hour on that. I figured it was worth it. Been some time since I had a long discussion with a filipina, and I found it quite interesting.
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itaewonguy



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 9:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

maybe 800.000 won base pay and then 3000 a drink and 60 for sex is good money for them!... I dont know.. what would they make back in the phillipines??
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Gopher



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 9:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derrek wrote:
other than the rare odd are like Las Vegas


Just to clarify: prostitution is illegal in the city limits. It's legal in the rest of the State, however, they have health insurance and everything else. There've been many stories in the local news in Las Vegas on this issue.

The IRS actually repo'd a Reno brothel a few years ago, for tax issues. The government was then in the uncomfortable position of running a brothel for several months until they could reach a decision on what to do about it.
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Gopher



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2005 10:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pyongshin Sangja wrote:
Gopher, tell me more about your experiences with prostitutes. Please be specific.


Respectfully decline. I'm afraid it's not at all what you might be imagining, however...

and topless dancers aren't hookers.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 6:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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So, who exactly is importing these Asian and Eastern European girls into North America and holding them in bondage, and what are the exact conditions they live and work in?


It is a similar deal then here Gopher and you know it.

These girls who end up in North America are usually brought in by a middle man who holds a debt for them. He then transfers that debt to a club owner (usually org. crime related) and the girl basically becomes club property until she pays off that debt. This can take years as the girls do not see the books or get what you pay them to dance or whatever you ask for.

This happens all over the place in the US and Canada. It sure happened in Toronto with Thai girls being basically bought and kept as prostitutes for over 12 years. The ring was busted by cops a few years back but they admitted there were dozens of other such rings operating in the TO are alone.

Open your eyes fellas and try not to use tunnel vision with this situation. This type of behaviour happens everywhere, including lovely Canada and the US.
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poddubny



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2005 6:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derrek (note that it was Gollum who made the OP) wrote:
Pyongshin Sangja wrote:

Ummm, don't you see a connection between renting them for a few minutes, as you did, and someone else owning them the rest of the time?

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Nope. Apples and oranges.

If the girls didn't want to talk to me and let them buy them a drink, they could have avoided me.

Actually, one of the girls did just that to a drunk guy across the table from us.


not too bright, are you derrek/gollum?
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