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[Skippy]

Nice guy generally means average looking or below average looking.

Men who are good looking usually have a sense of arrogance or are just plain mean at times. Simply put women will prefer good looking mean and

people with confidence and once again good looking men know they are good looking and are confident.

This is generally overall. I mean some nasty ugly guys can still get women with confidence and arrogance.

[Demonicat]

Not necesarily true, some guys like some girls have what I have learned to call the "ugly ducking" syndrome. Many people were fat, skinny, awkard, acne ridden, etc. during secondary school. As a result they make every effort in their adult hood to look better and be in better shape- however, they never see themselves as anything but the goofy kid. Many drop dead gorgeous people are incredibly nice as a result of this- in a sad way. Pay no attention to the fact that I'm a bodybuilder

[Gopher]

[Qinella]

[simone]

[brento1138]

Hot girls simply don't like boring guys. They want challenge...

[Gopher]

[fusionbarnone]

Nice guys run last on a Saturday nite. That's because they're not playing to win and have no idea where to start. This isn't considered as surprising since most guys may have been taught by their own mums how to "respect", women, by being nice; according to dating research.

Thus if women like a "challenge": they tend to call the losers, friends.

Friends "help" commiserate over the A@#$ guy (he's the ��challenge�� guy who gets some) the miffed/distressed/grieving lady in question, failed to help/change (bend to her will), etc. That job (being nice) is for real girl-friends (genetically female) not for guys. Want examples of successful bad guys? Study, Motley Crue.

The experts further state, the person who invests the most(money, time, thoughtful acts, etc) in a relationship has the most to lose while, the person who receives the most and contributes least, obviously, has the least to lose. The person who invests nothing or very little is predicted therefore to feels no qualms or emotional attachment about dumping the heavily indebted/invested entity (sucker who was too nice or over-accommodating). Be the Alpha male is the message.

In Korea, when K-gals refer to someone as a friend, that person is their nominated male-friend (waiter/gatherer male who buys the drinks, drives her around, etc, while she sits in the bar collecting digits and making eye contact). A very un-alpha title when you discover their other designations; lover (he's the guy they call for jollies after the friend has blown his money and his time getting her, ��ready��) and the boyfriend (husband-provider potential) for their, ubiquitous, "other", friends.

During my first month in ROK, almost had this one pulled (cultural differences; she said) and, to top it off, the sister was trying to bleed(empty my wallet?????) me too. Got rid of them, real fast. While it lasted I had rare and memorable experiences with them both. ��I may be slow, but I catch on real quick��, (Mohammad Ali)

There was also a saying that went, "a wife will either make you very happy or a, philosopher".(Marcus Aurelius)

Taking that jewel of advice one step further in the plasma screen age; beware of coercion through listening to sad/introspective pop songs which will only reinforce/delay/hinder an otherwise virile chap's ability to compete. Life's too short to appreciate some else's rendition of losing; leave that to when you celebrate your 190th birthday, I say.

It��s a serious competition after all therefore being confident/sure-of-oneself/persistent without being desperate is, everything. Followed up by "swiftly" seeing the lady home and safely (eliminate the chances of other attentive would-be suitors).

Have you ever dedicated a Fri/Sat nite to reversing everything thing you were told that constituted nice behavior, for the very opposite? Askmen.com provides a wealth of tactics.

Isn't it better to be a one-thump-chump rather than a no-thump-chump? One, after all, improves with study and hands-on practice. If a chap understands the needs of women, he will most surely receive their undiluted attention and requests for encores, and become a truly ��valued�� friend (ladies will spend/invest money in him).

Some male must be around to "appreciate" the Prom Queen after hours; it may as well be you. Cheers to all the ladies in the world who provide life with spice.

Simone offers excellent insight into the "scoring" reality everywhere. Viva positive selfishness.

[fusionbarnone]

Sorry, Socrates and not Marcus provided that snippet. Marcus was the guy married to a player wife for a queen and became quite a philosopher. The son Commodus, in the movie Gladiator, was rumored to have been the son of a gladiator.

[jajdude]

fusion, have you been reading captain kirk's posts?

you have a similar style

[Jensen]

[The Man known as The Man]