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Will ignoring A GUY get his attention?
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Babayaga



Joined: 28 May 2005

PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 2:20 pm    Post subject: Will ignoring A GUY get his attention? Reply with quote

In response to the topic" will ignoring a girl get her attention?"---does ignoring a guy work?



What actually works if you're interested in a guy who only seems to want to be friends with you?


It seems sometimes that not even looks and talents/education combined work. Rolling Eyes

Is it really all about SEX??!! Wink

And:why don't looks always work(slim/great hair) to get a guy sexually interested in you? Is there a type that guys prefer or a type that signals to them that they'll be great in bed??


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Imbroglio



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
--does ignoring a guy work?


It always worked with me. Razz


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joe_doufu



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

God, women are stupid.
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Babayaga



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:50 pm    Post subject: For Imbroglio Reply with quote

What worked with you? Ignoring the guy or having sex with him? Uhmm,what is your gender?

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mindmetoo



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe it works like this. If you're a woman and you like a guy, you only have to give him the merest indication that he might have a snowballs chance in hell with you. The end. He'll do all the rest. I mean how many guys turn into love sick puppy dogs because you borrow a pencil and they think "OH BABY SHE WANTS ME!"

All in all, if a man is not attracted to you, he simply won't be. Men tend to be the great black and white thinkers. We invented the digital computer, after all. We generally categorize women into two categories: hotties or bush pigs. If you're in the bush pig category, short of breast implants, you're not getting out of that category. If you're in the hotty category, we'll hit on you and walk 8 miles in snow to buy you tampons. Initially.

However, male psychology also changes when he thinks he can have you. Suddenly he thinks "Oh if I can get her, maybe I can trade up? Get something better." Here in comes the reason why you should not be too easy. Men in relationships are like fruit trees. If they think they have all the time in the world for love to bloom, the relationship will never bear fruit. So you have to prune men back. Let them know they're job is to keep wooing you.
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Babayaga



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 4:04 pm    Post subject: For joe_doufu Reply with quote

Why are women stupid?
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bignate



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 4:17 pm    Post subject: Re: For joe_doufu Reply with quote

Babayaga wrote:
Why are women stupid?


That is a question men have been asking themselves for ages......... Cool
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peppermint



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 5:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

BEing unavailable, particularly if you're dating a friend of the guy's seems to work.
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JongnoGuru



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:
BEing unavailable, particularly if you're dating a friend of the guy's seems to work.

That's a new one. Seems like a lot of bother and risk, though. But if you say it works, who are we to question your technique! Smile
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Swiss James



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would never ever go out with someone who's been with a friend of mine. The thought of going where he's been is just grim.
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peemil



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is why I don't understand women. Ignoring someone= He'll like me.

Just imagine you're in the supermarket. The woman at the counter ignores you. What do you feel? Love?

No. You want to take out a can of peaches and beat them over the head with it repeatedly.
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peemil



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Peppermint.

Quote:
BEing unavailable, particularly if you're dating a friend of the guy's seems to work


So you'd go out and date a mate to get with someone else? The person you want in the first place?

That is just not right.
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kermo



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

peemil wrote:
This is why I don't understand women. Ignoring someone= He'll like me.

Just imagine you're in the supermarket. The woman at the counter ignores you. What do you feel? Love?

No. You want to take out a can of peaches and beat them over the head with it repeatedly.


Laughing Laughing Laughing
Maybe eating an entire watermelon in under 10 seconds might make a better impression.
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kermo



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'll let you know how this one works out; I've got this technique on the go at the moment.

I recently met a guy-- first glance made me weak in the knees, and he seemed eager to start up conversations all over the place. I realized that responding in kind would probably dampen things, so I've consciously dialled down my usual warmth and gregariousness (gregariosity?). I'm not hostile, but just a little shy. I see him most days, and I've noticed that he'll stop and wait to talk to me, and has given me a little nickname.

So far so good, I think.
However, Mindmetoo makes a good point: "However, male psychology also changes when he thinks he can have you. Suddenly he thinks "Oh if I can get her, maybe I can trade up? Get something better." " I have no idea what's supposed to come after this part.
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Corporal



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 7:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
I believe it works like this. If you're a woman and you like a guy, you only have to give him the merest indication that he might have a snowballs chance in hell with you. The end. He'll do all the rest. I mean how many guys turn into love sick puppy dogs because you borrow a pencil and they think "OH BABY SHE WANTS ME!"

All in all, if a man is not attracted to you, he simply won't be. Men tend to be the great black and white thinkers. We invented the digital computer, after all. We generally categorize women into two categories: hotties or bush pigs. If you're in the bush pig category, short of breast implants, you're not getting out of that category. If you're in the hotty category, we'll hit on you and walk 8 miles in snow to buy you tampons. Initially.

However, male psychology also changes when he thinks he can have you. Suddenly he thinks "Oh if I can get her, maybe I can trade up? Get something better." Here in comes the reason why you should not be too easy. Men in relationships are like fruit trees. If they think they have all the time in the world for love to bloom, the relationship will never bear fruit. So you have to prune men back. Let them know they're job is to keep wooing you.


Damn, some men are stupid.
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