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Tiny_Tibbo
Joined: 21 Apr 2005 Location: In My Skin
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:27 am Post subject: Ahjuma Status? |
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Does anyone know when ahjuma status starts? What exactly defines this term? |
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ChimpumCallao

Joined: 17 May 2005 Location: your mom
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:44 am Post subject: Re: Ahjuma Status? |
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Tiny_Tibbo wrote: |
Does anyone know when ahjuma status starts? What exactly defines this term? |
when the curls set in....
and the pushin' begins. |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:45 am Post subject: |
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I believe it's age 30 or marriage- whichever comes first, as far as Koreans are concerned |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003 Location: japan is better than korea.
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:34 am Post subject: |
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my good friend just got married. she blanched when i said i couldn't call her 'agashi' anymore and that i'd have to call her 'ajumma'.
she says "hmm. i don't want to be ajumma, what should we do?"
i replied that my coworkers and i have a term for the more attractive mothers that come to our school with their kids.
my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA". |
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waterbaby

Joined: 01 Feb 2003 Location: Baking Gord a Cheescake pie
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:52 am Post subject: |
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uberscheisse wrote: |
my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA". |
What happened to good old fashioned MILF?  |
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uberscheisse
Joined: 02 Dec 2003 Location: japan is better than korea.
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:55 am Post subject: |
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waterbaby wrote: |
uberscheisse wrote: |
my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA". |
What happened to good old fashioned MILF?  |
gotta be culturally specific. |
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Tiny_Tibbo
Joined: 21 Apr 2005 Location: In My Skin
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 4:55 am Post subject: |
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well i heard its 27 in Japan...can anyone confirm this? |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:02 am Post subject: |
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After I got married, I was still called Agassi...
Then when I became pregnant, I was elevated to Ajumma
I don't want to be called ajumma  |
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Ekuboko
Joined: 22 Dec 2004 Location: ex-Gyeonggi
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:09 am Post subject: |
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When I get random Koreans trying to flag me down in the street (usually to ask me directions or about buses)(why ME? I'm not even Korean!! and I really don't think I look Korean either!)(don't dress like one anyway), it takes me a while to register that they are talking to me, cos they are usually shouting "Ajumma" at me.
Does anyone else think that "ajumma" has too broad a meaning? (age-wise I mean) |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:15 am Post subject: |
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I always feel that ajumma is to refer to a woman in her 40s, at least. Just sounds that way. |
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pet lover
Joined: 02 Jan 2004 Location: not in Seoul
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:49 am Post subject: |
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I refuse to be ajumma, EVER. Since I don't plan to become a Korean citizen, I don't see why I have to become an ajumma. I'm putting my foot down on this one. |
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DRAMA OVERKILL
Joined: 12 Apr 2005
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Posted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 8:11 am Post subject: |
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peppermint wrote: |
I believe it's age 30 or marriage- whichever comes first, as far as Koreans are concerned |
Would this apply to men as well? The adjosshi? The logic suggests so, although I had never really thought about it...
If so, I'm gonna be an adjosshi relatively soon, and that's scary and fu | |