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Tiny_Tibbo



Joined: 21 Apr 2005
Location: In My Skin

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:27 am    Post subject: Ahjuma Status? Reply with quote

Does anyone know when ahjuma status starts? What exactly defines this term?
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ChimpumCallao



Joined: 17 May 2005
Location: your mom

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:44 am    Post subject: Re: Ahjuma Status? Reply with quote

Tiny_Tibbo wrote:
Does anyone know when ahjuma status starts? What exactly defines this term?


when the curls set in....

and the pushin' begins.
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I believe it's age 30 or marriage- whichever comes first, as far as Koreans are concerned
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uberscheisse



Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Location: japan is better than korea.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my good friend just got married. she blanched when i said i couldn't call her 'agashi' anymore and that i'd have to call her 'ajumma'.

she says "hmm. i don't want to be ajumma, what should we do?"

i replied that my coworkers and i have a term for the more attractive mothers that come to our school with their kids.

my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA".
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waterbaby



Joined: 01 Feb 2003
Location: Baking Gord a Cheescake pie

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

uberscheisse wrote:
my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA".


What happened to good old fashioned MILF? Razz
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uberscheisse



Joined: 02 Dec 2003
Location: japan is better than korea.

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 3:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

waterbaby wrote:
uberscheisse wrote:
my friend was very comfortable with being called "HOTJUMMA".


What happened to good old fashioned MILF? Razz


gotta be culturally specific.
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Tiny_Tibbo



Joined: 21 Apr 2005
Location: In My Skin

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 4:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

well i heard its 27 in Japan...can anyone confirm this?
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

After I got married, I was still called Agassi...

Then when I became pregnant, I was elevated to Ajumma Sad

I don't want to be called ajumma Crying or Very sad
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Ekuboko



Joined: 22 Dec 2004
Location: ex-Gyeonggi

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I get random Koreans trying to flag me down in the street (usually to ask me directions or about buses)(why ME? I'm not even Korean!! and I really don't think I look Korean either!)(don't dress like one anyway), it takes me a while to register that they are talking to me, cos they are usually shouting "Ajumma" at me.

Does anyone else think that "ajumma" has too broad a meaning? (age-wise I mean)
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I always feel that ajumma is to refer to a woman in her 40s, at least. Just sounds that way.
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pet lover



Joined: 02 Jan 2004
Location: not in Seoul

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 5:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I refuse to be ajumma, EVER. Since I don't plan to become a Korean citizen, I don't see why I have to become an ajumma. I'm putting my foot down on this one.
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DRAMA OVERKILL



Joined: 12 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2005 8:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:
I believe it's age 30 or marriage- whichever comes first, as far as Koreans are concerned


Would this apply to men as well? The adjosshi? The logic suggests so, although I had never really thought about it...

If so, I'm gonna be an adjosshi relatively soon, and that's scary and fu