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Did you get a Chuseok gift from the boss?
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Did you get a Chuseok gift from your boss?
Yes, just like all my co-workers
60%
 60%  [ 32 ]
Yes, an extra special gift
0%
 0%  [ 0 ]
Yes, but my co-workers got better gifts
1%
 1%  [ 1 ]
The boss? No. But somebody else gave me a gift
11%
 11%  [ 6 ]
No
26%
 26%  [ 14 ]
Total Votes : 53

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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:14 pm    Post subject: Did you get a Chuseok gift from the boss? Reply with quote

Somebody posted about being overlooked for a Chuseok gift from the hagwon, which had provided all its Korean staff with gifts. I myself got a nice bakery product (sort of half-cake half-bread) just like my Korean coworker. It's a small hagwon.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I didn't but never expect it, since I don't celebrate their holiday.

And I work at a good hagwon.

Don't feel bad if you didn't get one.
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander wrote:
I didn't but never expect it, since I don't celebrate their holiday.
And I work at a good hagwon.
Don't feel bad if you didn't get one.

And what if you give others traditional gifts? And, what about some Korean co-workers you give Chuseok gifts, they refuse the gifts or return them to you with a nasty word (or expression)? Should you feel bad?
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Real Reality wrote:
...what about some Korean co-workers you give Chuseok gifts, refuse the gifts or return them to you with a nasty word (or expression)

Huh? I don't understand this.

But with you RR, who regularly spouts negativity after negativity after negativity on these boards, with no sense of balance or even offsetting appreciation of other aspects of Korea and Koreans,...

I wouldn't be surprised if some Koreans sense your attitude and don't treat you as well. Seriously. In person, what attitude do you convey RR?

Most ESL teachers in Korea don't have an axe to grind like RR does. So his experience needn't be generalized.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander wrote:
I didn't but never expect it, since I don't celebrate their holiday.


I don't know man. I celebrate their silly customs when I pour drinks for everybody with my left hand touching my upper arm, or when I pay for girls drinks out on a date, or when I ignore jerks that call me "little brother" and expect me to follow their lead. If I can observe their culture, I don't think they get excused from including me. A little gift can go a long way toward building a relationship, that's why gift-giving was invented.
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livinginkorea



Joined: 11 Jun 2004
Location: Korea, South of the border

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I got absolutely nothing. Over 35 teachers in my school and I got nothing! Bastardos Mad
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Real Reality



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VanIslander,
I am the bubbly, happy, supportive co-worker. I believe in giving gifts on or near holidays. I also try to give gifts to co-workers on their important days if I know (or remember). It is important that each person in the work environment be positive and supportive for all.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've said my piece.

See the related thread: http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=44768&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0

I'll leave these "no gifts on Chuseok" threads to others now.
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Dan The Chainsawman



Joined: 05 May 2005

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 6:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I brought my school a gift one of those 15k Maxim coffee sets. I brought it in and put it on the staff room table, and wandered off. I told my boss that I got them all a little present as they have been pretty good to me, and I wanted to say thank you. Later just as I left I was given a Dove soap set along with everyone else who worked at the place. Soap sets that did not see to occupy the premises until the boss lady sent someone out to buy 7 of them. My guess is she went out and did that not to be out done, but on the other hand I am not complaining as it's Dove soap, and I like the smell.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One way to ensure a gift would have been to give one myself, but frankly I didn't realize Chuseok was a gift-giving holiday. Once in Taiwan I gave a Christmas card to my school's owner. He was stunned, maybe didn't know it was Christmas, and he promptly picked up and gave me a brand new "wimbledon" windbreaker he'd just bought for himself, unwrapped, apparently to save face. It's a nice jacket.
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 8:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I scored 2 of these Dove soap sets...I love Dove and soap is always needed



Also got 100 000 won...was told to drink as much as i can and have a good time Very Happy
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pdxsteve



Joined: 29 Sep 2004
Location: Bundang

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

3 pairs of BYC socks, in a nice yellow box. Woo hoo.
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Son Deureo!



Joined: 30 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

None of the 100+ teachers, Korean or otherwise, got a gift from the boss. Our boss is just a cheap bastard.

I did get a Dove gift pack from a student though, which I thought was particularly nice considering that he's only been my student for about two weeks.
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DRAMA OVERKILL



Joined: 12 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Socks and tea... Socks I'll never wear, and tea I'll never drink... Anyway, I appreciate the gesture...
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Draven



Joined: 03 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

All 60+ teachers at my school got Maxim instant coffee gift sets from the parents association. I'm not big on that coffee, so re-gifting that s.o.b. is my plan.
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