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Moral Ambiguity

 
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 5:46 pm    Post subject: Moral Ambiguity Reply with quote

Last Thursday, Friday and today (Monday) has been test day for Grades 1 & 2, so I haven't had to teach them. I did have two Grade 3 classes last Friday. That's it. Tomorrow, as a reward for taking tests, Grades 1 & 2 are going to Bugok Hawaii for 'a picnic' all day and all Grade 3 classes are cancelled for the day. (Since I started work here Sept. 1 there hasn't been one single full week of classes. And it's almost pay day again. What a deal!)

Mr. Lee just came over and told me the plan and said I have a choice. I can go swimming with the boys or I can stay home all day. (No school at all.) Or I can come to part of the 'picnic' if I want. On picnic days everyone can go home at 2 or 3 o'clock. What to do? What to do?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 6:47 pm    Post subject: Re: Moral Ambiguity Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
Last Thursday, Friday and today (Monday) has been test day for Grades 1 & 2, so I haven't had to teach them. I did have two Grade 3 classes last Friday. That's it. Tomorrow, as a reward for taking tests, Grades 1 & 2 are going to Bugok Hawaii for 'a picnic' all day and all Grade 3 classes are cancelled for the day. (Since I started work here Sept. 1 there hasn't been one single full week of classes. And it's almost pay day again. What a deal!)

Mr. Lee just came over and told me the plan and said I have a choice. I can go swimming with the boys or I can stay home all day. (No school at all.) Or I can come to part of the 'picnic' if I want. On picnic days everyone can go home at 2 or 3 o'clock. What to do? What to do?



I wouldn't go swimming with a bunch of little boys, that's just me. I'd go to the picnic. You should participate in school events because in Korea, it's expected people show "team spirit" and be an active part of their organization. Sure, they sometimes make allowances for our western culture differences, but I'd rather not put people in a position where they must justify my actions to maintain a positive opinion about me. When in Rome...
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go on the picnic. I went on a school trip to Ilsan with the grade 3s and had a blast.
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manlyboy



Joined: 01 Aug 2004
Location: Darwin, Northern Territory, Australia

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 7:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Mr. Lee just came over and told me the plan and said I have a choice. I can go swimming with the boys or I can stay home all day. (No school at all.)


That's VERY understanding of your boss. No one at my school has any experience living abroad or working with foreigners, so they just expect me to participate in anything and everything like a Korean teacher would.
I've got picnics and hiking trips up the ying yang for the next two weeks. Tuesday - 5th grade, Thursday - 4th grade, next Monday - 6th grade. I'm not complaining. It beats sitting around in the office all day.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 8:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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That's VERY understanding of your boss.



No kidding! I'm delighted that I'm not ordered to go on MT trips or these picnic things. And we've been getting off at noon during the testing time. I'm rooting for two or three days of tests a week.

PS: I teach in a high school. I wouldn't be swimming with 'little' boys.
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steroidmaximus



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: GangWon-Do

PostPosted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 9:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

take the day to yourself; do something fun that would normally be very popular i.e. go to Everland. The place will be empty and you'll be first in line for all the rides.

To answer the bit about moral ambiguity, think of it this way: you're on a renewable 1 year contract. you'll never get the pay raises your colleagues do, nor will you ever get the desk near the window. You'll never receive the same benefits or acknowledgements they do. Part of your pay package are at least 15 "get out of work" free cards. Use them at your discretion.
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