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sheba
Joined: 16 May 2005 Location: Here there and everywhere!
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 3:26 am Post subject: |
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My TESOL trainer told me not to worry about meeting foreign people in Korea because experiences are so much richer with Koreans... I must agree... I have had some terrific exoeriences with my foreign friends, but having Korean friends opens a completely new door to their culture...
Im the only foreign teacher as well and have had no problems at all. The K-teachers are great and very helpful... Most of the foreigners I have met arent worth spending time with anyway - our interests are just different.... Im not interested in sleeping around and blowing my money on partying every weekend!!! |
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Summer Wine
Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Location: Next to a River
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 4:35 am Post subject: |
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| In my first year I was a little concerned, but I have no problem now with working by myself. It depends on different daily issues how much it can affect you, but it is the same for living in Korea. |
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TheUrbanMyth
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: Retired
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 4:53 am Post subject: |
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In my first year I was the only foreigner at my workplace, indeed in the whole town. However when I posted this, and admitted that it was rather pleasant, I was the target of numberous posts stating that I should leave and find another place with lots of foreigners. (Not a single person posted to say that they were the only foreigner) When I asked why most seemed to be along the lines of for moral support "in case WJN jerks you around". Strange to say that never happened. And now other people are learning the advantages of living and working alone.
I agree. Living and working alone is best, not because you are the resident English expert, but because you don't have any other people to reflect badly on you. My school has never had an English teacher before (which led to a few "hiccups" in the hiring process, but as a five-year veteran I was able to sort those out) thus I have no negative impressions to outlast. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 5:22 am Post subject: |
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| sheba wrote: |
| ...experiences are so much richer with Koreans... I must agree... I have had some terrific experiences with my foreign friends, but having Korean friends opens a completely new door to their culture... |
I think most people are well served in spending their first six months, at least, with Korean friends, and friendly co-workers, to get a footing in the culture and learn the wonders from insiders' perspectives (if one isn't unlucky enough to have a bad situation, perhaps ruined by an irresponsible past expat or whacky disrespectful director).
It takes two or three months to even feel apart from one's culture as long as one is immersing oneself in another. |
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baldrick

Joined: 03 Feb 2004 Location: Location, Location
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Posted: Thu Oct 13, 2005 9:28 pm Post subject: |
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If you're the type that doesn't thrive on a certain level of "me time", you might find it very isolating. I know many times during our teacher outings, I spend a good two hours contemplating a beer label while the rest of the teachers jabber away in Korean. The thing about being in Korea is everything is a novel experience on some level, even things that would normally be rather boring. I don't mind sitting back and observing. If I really wanted to be part of the conversation, I could bone up on my Korean skills. I'm getting exactly out of this what I wanted.
If you work with another foreigner you run the risk of getting stuck with a serious loser who can't function in western society. If the guy is the type who ham fistedly hits on his female coworkers or the students, yells at management, and acts like he wants Koreans to kiss his ass because he's white, you might find yourself walking into a situation where everyone prejudges you by the company you're expected to keep. |
Couldn't agree more this - articulated exactly what I would have said. I was sole teacher at my hagwon and its nice to play it out your own way and not have a loud obnoxious ignorant donkey (like some waygooks are) around to ruin the atmos you worked so hard to create! |
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butter808fly

Joined: 09 May 2004 Location: Northern California, USA
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 12:59 am Post subject: |
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An interesting read. Ive worked in both situations, and now currently work alone. I find it very isolating and times and when Im dying to just straight talk about my day or work or something, nobodys English is that good that I can just talk normally to them.
On the other hand, I also didnt like working with past co-workers to much. I mean, I liked them but having them and having to talk all the time about crap I didnt care about, well that was annoying too. Its nice to be so adored by the kids since Im the only white person. IM 'beautiful teacher' etc. Its nice.
I guess, depends your preference. |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 1:11 am Post subject: |
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I can't say I prefer one over the other because the situations are varied. Right now I have a foreign co-worker whose my age and has common sense. So we can talk. It helps she's the same age. I've worked with foreign teachers who were younger and they were intimidated and stand-offish. I'd been here longer than them. And they clustered with other foreigners.
After working as the only teacher I'm not into clustering with other foreigners. It feels lowest common denominator. Like the usual social blather is just too much waiting to get it over with. Especially after doing the lowest common denominator thing getting the Englishee across in class as a full time job. So I get used to having diversions that are disconnected with being dependent on other folks/foreigners.
Working as the only foreigner I was immersed in the Korean Way. When it came to disputes over duties and payment I was outnumbered. So it took some backbone and hard bargaining.
Once I got so bushed from being alone out in the boonies I started riding the motorbike ninety minutes to the nearest city where there was a foreigner hangout hof. Just to talk to other foreigners, because I'm not a drinker(though I drank alot of draft there anyway). I gotta say though being out in the country is flat out calm for the soul when you feel you need to gear down. And a year contract out there is a lot of soothing balm. The locals just take you in as a curiousity that's part of the neighbourhood. Saw every video in the video shop of that one horse town. Got to love the mist on the mountain. |
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Veronica

Joined: 29 Aug 2005
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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| I love being the only foreigner in my school. It is awesome. There are no politics, there are no 'covering up' issues, no complaints about anything issues, jusy nothing. I come. I work hard. I have the respect of nearly all my students and the teachers. The I go home again. What more could you ask for really? |
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