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Demonicat

Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Location: Suwon
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Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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| conversly, dressing nice is a heart breaker if you teach the young kids who have a propensity for spilling things. I used to dress nice, until my khaki slacks had paint stains, my white shirts had kimchi marks, and mt ties were covered in glue and sparkles. |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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I often get comments such as "you dress so well, I didn't think you were an American". We have a reputation for being too sloppy and casual in our dress. All these things do matter, especially in Korea. I would think it would be even more important the younger you are, as respect is much harder to come by when you are young here.
I also think that dressing well is a sign of both self-respect and respect for your job. |
I think you can dress well and still dress casual. For instance today I'm wearing a navy checkered skirt with matching blouse, but I've dressed it down with a demin jacket. I think that perhaps part of it is finding several good quality outfits that can be mixed and matched but also keeping them in good order. I know at the moment some of my clothes are looking a bit shabby just because of the wear and tear from the washing machine. |
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desultude

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 10:15 pm Post subject: |
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I think if I taught small children, I would wear plastic clothes! I got stains on a brand new suede skirt last winter at camp.
There is nothing wrong with nice casual- too dressed up can be stiff and intimidating. But tee shirts and jeans, mismatched hanging out clothes, etc., give a bad impression.
A person can be casual and really well turned out, or dressed sloppily in a suit and tie. How you wear the clothes matters, too. |
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gotokorea
Joined: 18 Oct 2005
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 8:18 am Post subject: |
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| ok... I think I will try to take the proffesional yet casual approach. I'm just worried cucause most of my clothes now are Calvin Klein OR Abercrombie of Armani Exchange. I just don't want to destroy them. Should I buy some less expensive clothes for teaching? I always want to look fabolous, but I don't want to ruin anything from the lovely little ones..... |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 10:00 am Post subject: |
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gotokorea, if you're teaching at a hagwon, what you have is perfect. I brought over a bunch of button-up shirt and ties when I moved here, and constantly kick myself for not bringing more A&F, Polo type clothes over. The tie thing gets in the way, and didn't last a single day at the hagwon. Button-up shirts are just too uncomfortable and sweat-inducing during the summer. I wore them only occasionaly, but never tuck them in. Tuck in is too formal for the hagwon environment.
FYI, the Korean teachers at my school dress like they are at home. I can't imagine people in Korea even going out in public looking the way they do sometimes, but they sure do it! I mean, beat up tennis shoes, saggy pants and a t-shirt? Wtf?
Basically, dress casual is a great place to be, in my opinion. If you're a guy, collared shirts and decent pants with comfortable, but dressy shoes. If you're a girl, I'd go with pants and blouses. Skirts... don't think so. Not at a hagwon (refer to crazylemongirl's post about boys). People here are ultra-sensitive to female bodies aka sexuality.
Cheers,
Qinella |
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gotokorea
Joined: 18 Oct 2005
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 2:16 pm Post subject: |
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| alright, sounds good to me. So the object is to try and look alittle better than the Korean national teachers for respect for ourselves and our country where they see us as a sloppy dressing nation... but don't over-do it. OK |
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the_beaver

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 4:15 pm Post subject: |
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| gotokorea wrote: |
| alright, sounds good to me. So the object is to try and look alittle better than the Korean national teachers for respect for ourselves and our country where they see us as a sloppy dressing nation... but don't over-do it. OK |
Naw. Overdo it.
I usually wear a double-breasted suit. |
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gotokorea
Joined: 18 Oct 2005
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 8:02 am Post subject: |
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| So then, what are you all wearing to school for Halloween??? I'm thinking of being a sexy vampire with a shot gun. Would that be aloud ?? |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Corporal, this thread is in dire need of a spelling and grammatical nerd |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 2:02 pm Post subject: |
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Tie and dress shirt and no jeans.
A professional dress code by my own choice.
Though I do roll up the sleaves, unbutton the top and loosen the tie, and often wear casual slacks. |
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mysteriousdeltarays

Joined: 07 Feb 2003 Location: Food Pyramid Bldg. 5F, 77 Sunset Strip, Alphaville
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 10:35 pm Post subject: |
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| I usually wear a thrift shop suit with a polyester tie, but then I am a much revered leader of the neo nazi movement. |
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