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khyber



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Compunction Junction

PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 11:16 am    Post subject: Please...never do this in your class Reply with quote

I have a korean coworker who really doesn't think before she speaks. That in conjunction with knowing VERY little about ho to teach and how to inspire children makes her a prime candidate for stupid sheeet to pull.

So I had my class make commercials. The way the groups feel, three of the poorer performing students happen to be together. But i sweetenned the pot (as at least ONE of them worked really well for reward) and found the first half of the first class, they worked quite well. Almost finished their whole script while most kids only got about half way.
In the second (full) class, they got disheartenned, "that group has ji hoon and brian and the girls are doing a dance. we can't do anything".
So i tried to help them out; i checked their script (which was almost 100% bang on! ); then gave them some ideas. Over the course of that class the other two groups finished their scripts AND made props AND planned what they were going to do.
This group, despite my constant (literally every 5 minutes i was with them) affirmations would pick up a pen and scribble, then look dejected and forlorn. I kept reassuring them that, of COURSE they could do it but they had to try...i could help them. They were making a commercial for a bike, i showed them some hand gestures....heck i even carried this behomoth of a bike INTO the school for them to use as a prop (cause "none of them could draw pictures" :cry: wah wah!) They were making me tired.
And not speaking enough korean, i can't really convince them that they CAN do it, even though, of COURSE they could.
Anyways, as that class continued they started to goof around and tried to join/pester/spy on the other groups.

The third day (recording day), they had half a class to practice, and "perfect" their commercial. Again, they threw their arms up in despair, not ONCE even thinking about working. I reassured them at first, then i defaulted to simply "listen, you want to join the party? you must try."
and they understood. But they sulked more.
Anyways, they don't record a commercial.

Then, party/judging day. Since they didn't make a commercial they got no prize and they got no party. But, it being peppero day (and every day being their "candy day") they were a little more than ornary in the middle of a sugar crash and all.
So i tell them that they have to move away from the rest of the table and can't play a game. There's a crossword for them to work on and they get no treats.
They don't move...this comes and goes in waves at this school. WE had an assembly over it which improved the situation slightly but temporarily.
anyways, i'm not gonna keep up with this waste of time (while the rest of the kids get impatient)...old me woulda yelled but i was tired and not really into being angry that day.

So i got the korean teacher to come in.
They have a talk. These kids, (gr 5boys) who are inexplicably prone to crying, cried again "apparently frustrated" because they "couldn't do the work" in my view an utterly blatant lie.

and now...the point:
After more korean talking, she (the teacher) turns to me and says,
"they are angry because they don't understand you [they did].....i think...that they are stupid and their english is very poor... why don't you let them join the party?"
I was ALSO in no mood to be confrontational right then (And this attitude is ALL too prevelent at the school) so i just gave it the old "whatever".

So basically, she was saying "their stupidity and their lack of english are a REASON for them NOT to work hard instead of, say THE OPPOSITE!!!
that really pissed me off.

So NEVER let your korean teachers (or you yourself maybe..) tell you that kids lacking english ability have permission NOT to work as hard as other students.

i'm gonna talk to her tomorrow, and the other korean teacher and set them straight... MAN did that burn my chaps.

also, don't force them to apologize. The two boys were "forced" to apologize, then didn't; makes them feel like they can get away with it when something important comes. funny though really, for cocky little jerks, they cried at the drop of a hat. Doesn't really make sense does it? Can someone explain that one?

Now wonder this woman's child (whom i also teacher) literally throws herself on the floor and flails her legs if she doesn't get a "corn-cheese".
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SPINOZA



Joined: 10 Jun 2005
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 4:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Blimey, that was boring.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was doing commercials with my students last week too. It did seem to go better in the classes I teach solo, though that may have been because those are the better students. Getting Koreans to come up with anything original on their own, though - plan to give them a *lot* of time.
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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 11:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

SPINOZA wrote:
Blimey, that was boring.


Then why did you read it? Rolling Eyes Do you ever have anything positive to say to other posters?
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Keepongoing



Joined: 13 Feb 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 4:31 am    Post subject: really Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
I was doing commercials with my students last week too. It did seem to go better in the classes I teach solo, though that may have been because those are the better students. Getting Koreans to come up with anything original on their own, though - plan to give them a *lot* of time.


hmmm, the Koreans I teach at uni have always surprised me with their creativity and originality. I think the teachers who have worked in my university would say the same. One difference might be the fact that the English course is a choice and not forced on them by the school.

I found the writing by the OP very interesting and well written. I am curious how the groups were formed. It seems like that group had a few negative ones that brought the others down?
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skconqueror



Joined: 31 Jul 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 4:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

periwinkle wrote:
SPINOZA wrote:
Blimey, that was boring.


Then why did you read it? Rolling Eyes Do you ever have anything positive to say to other posters?


My guess is that his life is more boring than that story. I feel sorry for him, he chases teenagers you know. Truly a pathetic individual.
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jacl



Joined: 31 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 6:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

periwinkle wrote:
SPINOZA wrote:
Blimey, that was boring.


Then why did you read it? Rolling Eyes Do you ever have anything positive to say to other posters?


He likes to point out these things. Just a second. I'll try.


Do what I do. Tell them that they can go to the other hagwon if they don't like it. I don't put up with kids like that. They just hamper other kids' and parents' time and money. When they leave, everthing runs much more smoothly. Then there's room for more suitable students to join. These kids are only costing people money and an education.

Maybe the Korean teacher was just trying to be nice. I don't know her. I don't really think wasting time disciplining kids is such a viable option. Grade 5 students crying is just stupid. I also wouldn't want students to apologize to me. I don't want anyone to apologize to me. "Shape up or ship out" is my motto. I would've just kicked them out of the class. There are other methods to get them involved, but I'm not sure on all the details. Plus I've never done a commercial thing before. Guess it would also depend on their levels.

I wouldn't get on the K-teacher's case.
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Red



Joined: 05 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 8:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

skconqueror wrote:
periwinkle wrote:
SPINOZA wrote:
Blimey, that was boring.


Then why did you read it? Rolling Eyes Do you ever have anything positive to say to other posters?


My guess is that his life is more boring than that story. I feel sorry for him, he chases teenagers you know. Truly a pathetic individual.

Really? What a sleaze.
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Marcilla



Joined: 24 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 11:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Red wrote:
skconqueror wrote:
periwinkle wrote:
SPINOZA wrote:
Blimey, that was boring.


Then why did you read it? Rolling Eyes Do you ever have anything positive to say to other posters?


My guess is that his life is more boring than that story. I feel sorry for him, he chases teenagers you know. Truly a pathetic individual.

Really? What a sleaze.


blimey!

Also, to the OP: You should just be like Great Teacher Onizuka

Except now it's Great Teacher Khyber

You'll instill all of your students with the drive and energy to persevere despite the exhaustion and demoralization of their normal school day
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EFLtrainer



Joined: 04 May 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a frightening thread. I can only suggest the OP look into the Zone of Proximal Development. Well, I can also suggest the OP study English. Or edit... whichever is relevant.

Seriously, if your own writing is so riddled with mistakes, I find it hard to believe you would have a clear idea of what your students can or can't accomplish. I'm hoping this is a case of not editing.

You do bring up a good point about how Korean teachers handle things, though. I have often had to tell them to not engage in conversation for me when they are translating. Repeat exactly what I say and what the students say. Nothing more, nothing less. It is virtually impossible to accomplish, however, because they seem to almost universally assume *you just don't get it.* Aigooo...
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mishlert



Joined: 13 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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The two boys were "forced" to apologize, then didn't; makes them feel like they can get away with it when something important comes


It does not stop there. My university students think that if they apologize for sleeping in class, talking, not doing homework, ect. they will not, or should not have points deducted. Of course, when I tell them that it will not work they keep apologizing to no avail.
Most of the students understand and shape up, but there are always those who keep slacking and apologizing and then wondering why it does not work.
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jacl



Joined: 31 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 7:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mishlert wrote:
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The two boys were "forced" to apologize, then didn't; makes them feel like they can get away with it when something important comes


It does not stop there. My university students think that if they apologize for sleeping in class, talking, not doing homework, ect. they will not, or should not have points deducted. Of course, when I tell them that it will not work they keep apologizing to no avail.
Most of the students understand and shape up, but there are always those who keep slacking and apologizing and then wondering why it does not work.


You do this with univeristy students? They sound quite immature.
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mishlert



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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2005 7:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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They sound quite immature

It's always the first year students who act like this, by mid-terms most of them get their wake up call (test score) and by the end of the semester they are fine. But there will always be the few immature students who just don't get it, or don't care; the ones who think that they can do anything and as long as they apologize it's fine.
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khyber



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Anyone who has a picture of someone who rocks as hard as spinoza can say ANYthing they want...cause their the coolest.

I did that activitiy with my class. The groups were formed, basically at random. For the most part, each group of students was with their friends.

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You'll instill all of your students with the drive and energy to persevere despite the exhaustion and demoralization of their normal school day

Please guy. I have no illusions of trying to make all my students super. All i want is for them to realize that self percieved inability is NOT a reason for laziness.

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Seriously, if your own writing is so riddled with mistakes, I find it hard to believe you would have a clear idea of what your students can or can't accomplish. I'm hoping this is a case of not editing.
oh geez...
no, i'm not an accomplished writer....no i don't take the time to really think about what i'm writing especially if it's anecdotal...and no i didn't edit it... yes i realize this is atrocious english.... and undoubtedly the most difficult one to to believe....no, i don't really care if you approve of how i post...(without due attention to grammatical rules).

I wonder when it became a logical conclusion that someone who doesn't take the time to edit their posts is obviously a horrid ESL teacher.

Fact is guy, you haven't seen the workings of my class, you know very little about me: Why is it you feel a need extend a comment about my poorly written post into an "otherwise" baseless insult?


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Privateer



Joined: 31 Aug 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2005 4:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

EFLtrainer wrote:
This is a frightening thread. I can only suggest the OP look into the Zone of Proximal Development. Well, I can also suggest the OP study English. Or edit... whichever is relevant.

Seriously, if your own writing is so riddled with mistakes, I find it hard to believe you would have a clear idea of what your students can or can't accomplish. I'm hoping this is a case of not editing.


And you would have done...?

Deploring the OP or even the entire state of EFL in Korea isn't so difficult but it isn't very constructive either.

Maybe I'm missing something but the OP said they were 'bang on' when they tried so maybe it's less about their 'zone of proximal development' than their attitude. It's hard to judge based only on someone else's post. So what would be a good way to have proceeded? Give them something a bit less challenging? Give them extra help? Break it down into stages and motivate them by rewarding them for each stage? I don't know but if it was clear from the start that these prizes were for completing the project I'd say the OP was right to deny them. Better to avoid the situation but once in it, better to be fair but firm. Maybe make them do something to earn the prize even at the last minute - and if they refuse, too bad for them.

EFLtrainer wrote:
You do bring up a good point about how Korean teachers handle things, though. I have often had to tell them to not engage in conversation for me when they are translating. Repeat exactly what I say and what the students say. Nothing more, nothing less. It is virtually impossible to accomplish, however, because they seem to almost universally assume *you just don't get it.* Aigooo...


I think maybe this is the same principle on which they translate English movie lines into Korean subtitles? Not, "What did they say?" but "What would a Korean say in this situation?". Wink It's not just a free translation but a cultural translation! It kind of makes sense that they do it that way but it can lead to some surprises.
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