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winnie

Joined: 08 May 2005 Location: the forest
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:26 pm Post subject: Guys: How does a woman keep you interested in her? |
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Just wondering.....conducting some research.
Conversely, how does she make you uninterested? |
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victim of love
Joined: 12 Sep 2005 Location: might as well be on mars because that's how far away i feel from you.
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:28 pm Post subject: |
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she loves football, hockey and beer.
conversely, it's all about her... |
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Newbie

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:43 pm Post subject: |
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Independence is great.
Clingy, needy, "let's spend all our time together" girls are no good. |
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jayjayjay

Joined: 27 Aug 2005
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:48 pm Post subject: |
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To make a woman happy: flowers, fine wine & dining, a listening ear, diamonds, commitment, support and security
To make a man happy: Show up naked, bring beer |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 11:36 pm Post subject: |
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| jayjayjay wrote: |
To make a man happy: Show up naked, bring beer |
That be true. Change the beer to pizza and I've done that.
Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'
Keep a guy happy is reasonably happy. Don't be clingy or relationshipy too fast (as girls often do) and put out on a regular basis. |
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Tiger Beer

Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 1:27 am Post subject: |
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| Newbie wrote: |
Independence is great.
Clingy, needy, "let's spend all our time together" girls are no good. |
That sums it up right there. |
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stat
Joined: 22 Apr 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 3:00 am Post subject: |
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how to keep me interested: speak freely and naturally about things she's interested in or randomly thinking of that day
how to get me uninterested: be nervous about what to say; say what they think i want to hear; be moody/sullen/grumpy (works as a short-term attention grabber only).
Ultimately, if she's not interesting, there's no way she's going to keep me interested. I used to get worried when I was a kid about whether or not I was 'funny' or 'interesting' but then I realised that whoever you are, some will find you interesting/funny while others never will. |
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hack

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 4:55 am Post subject: |
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How a woman keeps me interested:
-She��s not past her expiry date (30-35 in most women)
-She is totally not interested in getting married or having children and she certainly is not a single mom.
-She uses at least 2 kinds of birth control and will never ask me to not use a condom.
-The bulge she is interested in is not the one in my wallet
-If I don��t call her for a few days she never asks why
-The only kind of call she gives me is a booty call
-She doesn��t ask me where I have been or what I have been doing since I saw her last. She knows it��s none of her business unless I want to tell her
-The only time the word god comes out of her mouth is in bed
-She is smoking hot, and works out all the time
-She always offers to pay at least �� of any bill we incur together and sometimes the whole bill and is not at all upset if I let her pay �� or all
-She loves going to Las Vegas and again, is fully prepared to pay her own way and knows she may not see me for a couple of days if I get on a roll.
-She drives a car that is worth at least $50k
-She owns, not rents
-She has an investment banker on her speed dial
If this sounds as though it is 1 sided , yeah it is and that��s what women love about this approach. They love a man to be in control. Trust me, this works, big time. And for any women who disagree, I��m willing to bet that you��re at least 1 of the following: fat, whiny, clingy, uninformed, poor, fugly, a single mom, religious or perhaps you bat for the other team. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:10 am Post subject: |
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My biggest pet peeve with any girl: timidness. If she's afraid to speak her mind, insecure about her body, worried about what people think, afraid to let loose, etc., I'm not interested at all.
The biggest turn-on is a girl that challenges me intellectually. The rest is negotiable.
I used to date a really hot girl who had rocks for brains and was clingy. I almost killed her after about two months.
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spidey112233
Joined: 21 Jul 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:20 am Post subject: |
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| crazylemongirl wrote: |
Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'
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earlobe and inner thighs??? what kind of a line is that???  |
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winnie

Joined: 08 May 2005 Location: the forest
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:34 am Post subject: Re: Guys: How does a woman keep you interested in her? |
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| spidey112233 wrote: |
| winnie wrote: |
Just wondering.....conducting some research.
Conversely, how does she make you uninterested? |
i got two things to help you out on.
1. YOU DONT CONDUCT RESEARCH TO FIND OUT WHAT WOMEN ARE LIKE.
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2. START BY LOSIN THAT AVATAR!!!! SHE'D PROBABLY THINK YOURE
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Too much soju tonight???
I am asking GUYS.....to learn how a WOMAN can keep a MAN interested. So that should tip you off to the following:
A) I'm not trying to find out what women are like....I wanna know about guys....from the guys.
B) If I want to know this stuff....it's highly likely I'm female....and my avatar is just fine..........Thanks! |
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plato's republic
Joined: 07 Dec 2004 Location: Ancient Greece
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:44 am Post subject: |
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She's gotta put out on a regular basis, no questions asked. And none of this insecurity with her body, feelings etc...basically someone who has a fun to be with personality and a modicum of intellect. A nice set of melons wouldn't hurt either  |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 6:08 am Post subject: |
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Guys want to feel "powerful" when they're with their women. I put that in quotes because it's not exactly right... what I mean is we want to dispel our insecurities and feel "strong" or something. The biggest turn-off for me has been after a relationship progressed to the point where the girlfriend thought it was okay to nitpick and criticize things I was insecure about... my weight, for instance, or the... um... positions that I liked that weren't so great for her.
I'm not saying that a girlfriend shouldn't try to mold her man into what she desires, but I think there are much more subtle and powerful ways to do so than directly criticizing him. There is always... good old-fashioned... reward and punishment...
Also, give lots of blowjobs. Can I say that on Daves? |
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Bo Peabody
Joined: 25 Aug 2005
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Bo Peabody
Joined: 25 Aug 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 12:45 pm Post subject: |
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| crazylemongirl wrote: |
Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'
Keep a guy happy is reasonably happy. Don't be clingy or relationshipy too fast (as girls often do) and put out on a regular basis. |
True!!!!!!
CLG why can't girls figure this out?!!! It's so..... simple. |
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