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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 4:34 pm Post subject: No more sending kids into the hall? |
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Apparently on the news last night a teacher in Gyeongsam Nam Do sent a student out into the hall for 20 days, so we got a note from the Vice-Principal saying that we are no longer allowed to send kids out into the hall when they've been misbehaving. Because those students have a 'right to an education'
I don't often do that, but for my 2nd graders in particular there is usually a group of about half a dozen students in one or two classes that make life hell for the class and we can't get through the material because I spend more time keeping students seated and the noise at reasonable level than I do teaching. I don't take it personal as apparently one class in partiular makes life hell for everybody, because surprise surprise their homeroom teacher is a nice, sweet first year teacher and those kids just walk all over her.
I've tried group punishments, but the guys that are making life miserable just don't seem to care. I've found that the borderline kids become a lot more agitated when the group punishments are in effect for these classes so I stopped them. I also never strike these kids, and can't keep them back much after class, nor can I give them a detention. Lines or extra homework just won't get done and leaving them at the back of the class causes more disruption than if they are in their seats because they now have freedom of movement.
Seems like the baby has been thrown out with the bath water. I struggle with discpline here because there are no real systems in place apart from kids getting the beat down when they step out of line. I would love for them to have dentition here but perish the thought that these kids might miss out on lunch (good) or a lesson at hagwon (even better). Thus their actions now have no consquences. Gotta love that.
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Wrench
Joined: 07 Apr 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:16 pm Post subject: Re: No more sending kids at into the hall? |
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crazylemongirl wrote: |
Apparently on the news last night a teacher in Gyeongsam Nam Do sent a student out into the hall for 20 days, so we got a note from the Vice-Principal saying that we are no longer allowed to send kids out into the hall when they've been misbehaving. Because those students have a 'right to an education'
I don't often do that, but for my 2nd graders in particular there is usually a group of about half a dozen students in one or two classes that make life hell for the class and we can't get through the material because I spend more time keeping students seated and the noise at reasonable level than I do teaching. I don't take it personal as apparently one class in partiular makes life hell for everybody, because surprise surprise their homeroom teacher is a nice, sweet first year teacher and those kids just walk all over her.
I've tried group punishments, but the guys that are making life miserable just don't seem to care. I've found that the borderline kids become a lot more agitated when the group punishments are in effect for these classes so I stopped them. I also never strike these kids, and can't keep them back much after class, nor can I give them a detention. Lines or extra homework just won't get done and leaving them at the back of the class causes more disruption than if they are in their seats because they now have freedom of movement.
Seems like the baby has been thrown out with the bath water. I struggle with discpline here because there are no real systems in place apart from kids getting the beat down when they step out of line. I would love for them to have dentition here but perish the thought that these kids might miss out on lunch (good) or a lesson at hagwon (even better). Thus their actions now have no consquences. Gotta love that. |
Did you try military punishment and redicule? My kids hate holding their hand out and standing for 15 minutes.. It really shuts them up especially if you have 2 or 3 of them doing it. If they are really bad they get pushups.
Any way I found that positive reinforcment just doesn't work with Korean kids but negative reinforcment works quite well. Although I see a distinctive difference in behaviour between priveledged rich children and the ones that are not so well off. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:34 pm Post subject: |
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I'm sure these regulation will just be disregarded like everything else. Thankfully I don't have to send my kids into the hall. Since my only real disciplinary problem is playing with handphones and toys the solution is almost too easy. |
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Demonicat

Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Location: Suwon
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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Be careful who you military punish. I had one brat (who is now one of my favourites) who I would always make do pushups, book holds, overheads, sqyuats, and all of that. None of it worked and the other kids would laugh as he flew though them, then they;d think it was easy and try to act up. A few weeks later I asked Brian why he wasn't at school the other day- national Judo championships. Turns out the kid spent all day everyday working out and my 20 pushups here and there were nothing. |
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mourningclam
Joined: 27 Jan 2004
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 6:02 pm Post subject: |
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This one boy flipped off a girl in class right infront of me. I made him hole his middle fingers in the air out in the hallway for 20 minutes. That worked pretty well. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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Turns out the kid spent all day everyday working out and my 20 pushups here and there were nothing.
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That's funny. Sometimes our best efforts go for naught for lack of one single bit of knowledge. |
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dulouz
Joined: 04 Feb 2003 Location: Uranus
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 7:07 pm Post subject: |
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I like to either smash unlawful toys with a stiff march from my jackboot or I simply sail said toys out the 3rd story window while everyone watches.
I prefer to send the kids to the hall rather than high maintenance punishments ie book holding or push ups. |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Location: $eoul
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 7:14 pm Post subject: |
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I immediately move the "crazy guys" to somewhere at the front with a bunch of girls. Totally backfires sometimes, but it's had decent consequences. When almost entire classes are ba5tards (we all have at least 1 class like that - class 3-6 in my case, nice kids personally but total tw_ts when it comes to study) you're really f_cked basically. Still not found a solution to that myself. |
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Beej
Joined: 05 Mar 2005 Location: Eungam Loop
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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Typical response here. A few weeks ago us teachers were told not to give the kids any candy ( I never did anyway) because a student somewhere in Seoul had choked on some candy the week before. |
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Hater Depot
Joined: 29 Mar 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 7:59 pm Post subject: Re: No more sending kids at into the hall? |
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crazylemongirl wrote: |
Apparently on the news last night a teacher in Gyeongsam Nam Do sent a student out into the hall for 20 days, so we got a note from the Vice-Principal saying that we are no longer allowed to send kids out into the hall when they've been misbehaving. Because those students have a 'right to an education'. |
Last semester one of our first grade classes spent a whole class hour kneeling on their desks holding their chairs. Then the next class, same thing.
Were they acting up or did teacher need an early vacation... |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 8:24 pm Post subject: |
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Did you try military punishment and redicule? My kids hate holding their hand out and standing for 15 minutes.. It really shuts them up especially if you have 2 or 3 of them doing it. If they are really bad they get pushups. |
If my boys get sent out they then spend their 10 minute breaks on their knees in the office with their arms up. That hurts on a concrete floor.
What I really wish was that was more of a team approach to behavior management, between the teachers, management and parents. I know that one of my trouble makers has turned over a new leaf after his mom visited his class every day for a week.
The parents really don't take much interest until the kid has been hurt or done something reallly bad. Personally I think that detentions will start getting some notice and then after 3 detentions the parents should be called in. Nothing like the beat down from mom to get them back into shape. |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 8:31 pm Post subject: |
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See, if I told my kids to do something like that (hold the chair over their head, stand in the corner, do push-ups, sit with the girls, etc) they would just say "no". I make them go out into the hall and by "make them" I mean I drag them and it's not easy. Often I have to remove desks, chairs, bookbags and pencilcases first. The kids fight me for the same reason they acted up in the first place, to get attention. They totally succeed for a while, but out in the hall is pure agony for them. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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joe_doufu wrote: |
See, if I told my kids to do something like that (hold the chair over their head, stand in the corner, do push-ups, sit with the girls, etc) they would just say "no". I make them go out into the hall and by "make them" I mean I drag them and it's not easy. Often I have to remove desks, chairs, bookbags and pencilcases first. The kids fight me for the same reason they acted up in the first place, to get attention. They totally succeed for a while, but out in the hall is pure agony for them. |
When I taught hogwan I had to drag a few kids out on their asses - and they learned very quickly that when I said 'out!' they were going out either the easy way or the hard way, and I wouldn't be too gentle about it, either. By the second time they figured out very quickly they should leave on their own power.
At high school, I haven't had the slightest urge to kick anyone out yet, even though here it would be perfectly acceptable whereas at hogwan it really wasn't. |
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riley
Joined: 08 Feb 2003 Location: where creditors can find me
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 10:06 pm Post subject: |
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I find that there is a serious lack of willingness on the teachers here to put extra effort into any serious discipline system. My wife shocked me when we were discussing this. Her attitude was that teachers would rather not have to spend the time on it.I think that is one of the explanations for why corporal punishment happens. It's the easiest thing to do.
Case in point, teachers here scurry off to the teacher's room leaving the students to rampage in the halls. It's a wonder why no one has been badly hurt. |
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ddeubel

Joined: 20 Jul 2005
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Posted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 11:13 pm Post subject: |
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Hey guys.....
I don't want to sound like a "know it all" and yeah of course I have the odd little problem in my large classes but...............
these still are kids for the most part. When I hear of dragging kids out of the classroom, chairs held up in the air, push ups and any kind of coercive punishment that isn't related to the problem....i kinda get the hairs on the back of my neck raised....
Kids should be respect, that's how you win their attention. Seems to me point blank that most discipline/behaviour problems are the result of the teacher. Yes, read teacher. Mostly in the language classroom, kids are being taught wrong -- either too high or too low or without it being student centered and active or the students having little or no input....
This is where the problem should be fixed if possible, --- NOT throwing kids out of the class, berating, sitting them out, dragging, chair holding or even push ups (but that doesn't seem too bad
My two cents.
DD
"when one teaches, two learn" |
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