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paperbag princess

Joined: 07 Mar 2004 Location: veggie hell
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 2:50 am Post subject: what to do when you're feeling blue? |
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| i've been feeling blah lately and was wondering what cheers your dudes up when your feeling down. two years in korea is starting to feel like a long time... |
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sheba
Joined: 16 May 2005 Location: Here there and everywhere!
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 3:35 am Post subject: |
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Go and do something different with another person. Small trips can change my whole weekend. Go to Everland. Go to a city youve never been to. Go to yet another temple.
I find just getting out of the house helps, and its even better to go somewhere unfamiliar with some company. |
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Demonicat

Joined: 18 Nov 2004 Location: Suwon
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 3:36 am Post subject: |
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| I watch Josey and the pussycats or The Messenger, makes me happy everytime. |
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Kimchi Cha Cha

Joined: 15 May 2003 Location: was Suncheon, now Brisbane
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 5:14 am Post subject: |
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| Best thing I usually find is to get out and do something active. I often find hiking really good if I'm feeling a bit low, getting out of the city and exercising at the same time. Unfortunately, it's starting to get a bit chilly for too much hiking at the moment. Like sheba mentioned, small trips away from your hometown to somewhere different can be great for lifting your mood a bit. |
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The Hammer
Joined: 18 Jan 2003 Location: Ullungdo 37.5 N, 130.9 E, altitude : 223 m
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 5:22 am Post subject: |
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| Buy several bunches of flowers and put them in every room of your house. Try it! It's cool! It's inexpensive! |
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Homer Guest
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 5:51 am Post subject: |
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Take a trip (in or out of Korea).
Try something different (new activity).
Take classes.
Read new books.
As for me, I have several activities that keep me from having the blues. I stay active and my son is what I would call the ultimate anti-blues element! He keeps me smiling.
I also got involved in the community here. I play korean chess on sundays with the old guys at the park. I take classes (Korean and other topics) and read up on new things. |
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itaewonguy

Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 6:17 am Post subject: |
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look in the mirror and ask yourself!! where am I going? what are my goals? once you answer those questions you wont feel blue!
now feeling bored.. thats another story...
weekend trips, which sound great but I never do wish I did.. Ive owned a car for 5 years too hahahaha well I worked weekends for 3 of them and the last two years was to tired from drinking.. and now.. I just cant be bothered..
watch movies., take short trips around town. thats what I do.. end up being more boring than staying home hahahaha
call up some of your old friends from high school or a few years ago..
that will cheer you up!!! |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 6:18 am Post subject: |
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| watch bad movies and eat bad food. |
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JongnoGuru

Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: peeing on your doorstep
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 6:19 am Post subject: |
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| sheba wrote: |
| Go and do something different with another person. |
I recommend binge drinking with strangers at bars, followed by mindless, non-committal sex. Then full and detailed postings about it all, right here on this thread.
No, it might not help you deal with the blues, but it's guaranteed to bring happiness to countless thousands of others. |
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joe_doufu

Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 7:21 am Post subject: Re: what to do when you're feeling blue? |
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| paperbag princess wrote: |
| i've been feeling blah lately and was wondering what cheers your dudes up when your feeling down. two years in korea is starting to feel like a long time... |
This is what one-night stands were made for! |
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ChimpumCallao

Joined: 17 May 2005 Location: your mom
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 7:39 am Post subject: |
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| JongnoGuru wrote: |
| sheba wrote: |
| Go and do something different with another person. |
I recommend binge drinking with strangers at bars, followed by mindless, non-committal sex. Then full and detailed postings about it all, right here on this thread.
No, it might not help you deal with the blues, but it's guaranteed to bring happiness to countless thousands of others. |
i second that.
and when you're done go to dongdaemun stadium on a sunday afternoon for some nice shopping ... make sure you listen to a lot of nirvana and REM...while looking at pictures of back home...(Let me guess.....Quebec??) |
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tacon101

Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Location: seoul
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 7:51 am Post subject: |
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loud music to sing and dance around to at home (definitely NOT the kind you find in the loops in the bars and clubs)
shopping
good deeds, random gift giving
alcohol and chocolate
yes, once again, one night stands
lots of sleeping |
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Maugrim
Joined: 10 Nov 2003
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 8:06 am Post subject: |
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I recommend trying out all sorts of wacky prescription medication.
It'll cure what ails ya. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 8:09 am Post subject: |
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| Maugrim wrote: |
I recommend trying out all sorts of wacky prescription medication.
It'll cure what ails ya. |
I recommend you tell us how to get that here. |
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JongnoGuru

Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: peeing on your doorstep
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2005 11:00 am Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| Maugrim wrote: |
I recommend trying out all sorts of wacky prescription medication.
It'll cure what ails ya. |
I recommend you tell us how to get that here. |
You ask people who are on prescription medication to share. |
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