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Please help!! Gift for leaving Korean co-teacher

 
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philthy



Joined: 02 Sep 2005
Location: Incheon

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 5:11 am    Post subject: Please help!! Gift for leaving Korean co-teacher Reply with quote

I am in a middle school for boys and have a female Korean co-teacher who has been wonderful for me ever since I arrived. I just found out she is being transferred to another school and want to buy her a gift showing my appreciation for what she has done for me. She is in her early fourties and has two young children. I am a male and have no concept of what would constitute a proper gift.
Please help me with some suggestions. The gift has to come from Korea, as I will not be going home until March, when she will be gone.

Peace.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 5:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't get her panties. Bring her in some goldfish bread on her last day. A selection of teas and instant coffees. Chocolates. Does she read? Does she read English? Books are nice. Korean/English version of the Davinci Code.... A scarf. Koreans sure don't dress warmly enough. Some of those hand stoves...
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 12:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It isn't the gift so much as it is the intent. Wander around the shops with an eye for something nice in your price range. A nice coffee cup. A scarf. Koreans (apparantly) like those cheesy figurines of cutesy kids.
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zappadelta



Joined: 31 Aug 2004

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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It isn't the gift so much as it is the intent.



For us, this is true. For Koreans, this is wrong. It's all about the gift.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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For us, this is true. For Koreans, this is wrong. It's all about the gift.


We have diametrically opposed views on this, Mr. zappadelta. 180 degrees.
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Hater Depot



Joined: 29 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 2:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Also, I would treat her to dinner if she doesn't already have plans. Why not invite the other English teachers as well.
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Ekuboko



Joined: 22 Dec 2004
Location: ex-Gyeonggi

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 3:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hater Depot wrote:
Also, I would treat her to dinner if she doesn't already have plans. Why not invite the other English teachers as well.

No, don't. Then they'll all just sit around speaking in Korean.
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 4:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think you should get her some fancy cookies or foreign chocolates from one of the swanky department stores. Remember to get them gift-wrapped etc. so they look all pretty, make sure you give the nicely-wrapped present in the shopping store bag so she knows where it comes from.

We've all forgotten that the apperance of the gift is the most important thing.
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zappadelta



Joined: 31 Aug 2004

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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We have diametrically opposed views on this, Mr. zappadelta. 180 degrees.


Yea, I guess there is no peaceful resolution to this. Let's meet in the school yard at 3:30.
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Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 6:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Yea, I guess there is no peaceful resolution to this. Let's meet in the school yard at 3:30.




Can we make that 4:10? [/code]
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bellum99



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: don't need to know

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How much money do you want to spend?
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Doutdes



Joined: 14 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 8:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
I think you should get her some fancy cookies or foreign chocolates from one of the swanky department stores. Remember to get them gift-wrapped etc. so they look all pretty, make sure you give the nicely-wrapped present in the shopping store bag so she knows where it comes from.

We've all forgotten that the apperance of the gift is the most important thing.


I suggest a small chocolate shop near Ewha called "Mannon". It has great, imported chocolates that look as good as they taste. They are a little expensive, but easily worth the price.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 9:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Doutdes wrote:
crazylemongirl wrote:
I think you should get her some fancy cookies or foreign chocolates from one of the swanky department stores. Remember to get them gift-wrapped etc. so they look all pretty, make sure you give the nicely-wrapped present in the shopping store bag so she knows where it comes from.

We've all forgotten that the apperance of the gift is the most important thing.


I suggest a small chocolate shop near Ewha called "Mannon". It has great, imported chocolates that look as good as they taste. They are a little expensive, but easily worth the price.


Long time ago Laura Secord, Canada's mainstay chocolate maker, had a great Christmas campaign. "90% of people love chocolate and you're wondering what to get for a Christmas present?"
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I_Am_Wrong



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: whatever

PostPosted: Wed Dec 14, 2005 1:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

$$CASH$$
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