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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 8:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I realize that the poster who said "woo her with teaching anectodes" was being ironic... but that said, it can be to your benefit to mention offhand how much you enjoyed working with the littlest kids back when you were teaching kindy in Taiwan. Some girls seem to have a favorable bio-chemical reaction to a man saying that he'd kinda like to have children of his own someday.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 5:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

joe_doufu wrote:
I realize that the poster who said "woo her with teaching anectodes" was being ironic... but that said, it can be to your benefit to mention offhand how much you enjoyed working with the littlest kids back when you were teaching kindy in Taiwan. Some girls seem to have a favorable bio-chemical reaction to a man saying that he'd kinda like to have children of his own someday.


You have a poor irony detector. It's showing false positives. I wasn't being ironic at all. At the end of my first date with my GF she said "I've never laughed so much on a date. My mouth is hurting." I mostly just yapped about teaching.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Fri Dec 16, 2005 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rapier wrote:

haha Laughing but you miss the point. Women want what they can't have, regardless of its financial bonus. her ideal dish is the one thats out of her reach. Not a sashaying shimmying piece of fruit salad trying to be a performing comedian, extolling the virtues of Korean brats.


Given your bitter and acrimonious postings about women, I can see this method has resulted in a successful time with women...

No. A guy with nothing to offer other than a lack of an offer isn't as tantalizing as you think.
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Paji eh Wong



Joined: 03 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 2:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

And Winnie?

How was it?
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Satori



Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all

PostPosted: Sat Dec 17, 2005 7:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
rapier wrote:

haha Laughing but you miss the point. Women want what they can't have, regardless of its financial bonus. her ideal dish is the one thats out of her reach. Not a sashaying shimmying piece of fruit salad trying to be a performing comedian, extolling the virtues of Korean brats.


Given your bitter and acrimonious postings about women, I can see this method has resulted in a successful time with women...

No. A guy with nothing to offer other than a lack of an offer isn't as tantalizing as you think.

Rapier's right on this one I'm afraid. Think of the market, when commodities are scarece the price goes up. The idea is not to be totally unavailable, but to be scarce, ie you have other companies interested in buying you, and the window of oportunity is small. The buyer becomes more interested and more accomodating and more hasty. That's just how it is. I don't practice this myself, cause I don't feel the need, but I have seen it in action with guys I know time and time again.
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malysahhh



Joined: 22 Nov 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 5:43 am    Post subject: whatevah - just go and enjoy Reply with quote

This is hilarious! I think the dating game is so fun here!......its superb.
Okay, im female and i think dressing up is not so good. i mean, look as usual.. cuz then you can just relax every time... you know if you start with the best outfit, then you feel like a let down every other time! ha ha.. so, I just go with some average stuff....but try keep your average pretty hot - jk.
ya know, there are 10 gazillion fish in the sea. don't sweat it.
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 6:22 am    Post subject: Re: whatevah - just go and enjoy Reply with quote

malysahhh wrote:
ya know, there are 10 gazillion fish in the sea. don't sweat it.


Actually I think there are fewer than three billion.
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 7:15 am    Post subject: Re: whatevah - just go and enjoy Reply with quote

malysahhh wrote:
This is hilarious! I think the dating game is so fun here!......its superb.
Okay, im female and i think dressing up is not so good. i mean, look as usual.. cuz then you can just relax every time... you know if you start with the best outfit, then you feel like a let down every other time! ha ha.. so, I just go with some average stuff....but try keep your average pretty hot - jk.
ya know, there are 10 gazillion fish in the sea. don't sweat it.


ya know I just like 2 go in pants and easy stuff, like a casual. Not toooo sexxxy Embarassed
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 7:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Satori wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:
rapier wrote:

haha Laughing but you miss the point. Women want what they can't have, regardless of its financial bonus. her ideal dish is the one thats out of her reach. Not a sashaying shimmying piece of fruit salad trying to be a performing comedian, extolling the virtues of Korean brats.


Given your bitter and acrimonious postings about women, I can see this method has resulted in a successful time with women...

No. A guy with nothing to offer other than a lack of an offer isn't as tantalizing as you think.

Rapier's right on this one I'm afraid. Think of the market, when commodities are scarece the price goes up. The idea is not to be totally unavailable, but to be scarce, ie you have other companies interested in buying you, and the window of oportunity is small. The buyer becomes more interested and more accomodating and more hasty. That's just how it is. I don't practice this myself, cause I don't feel the need, but I have seen it in action with guys I know time and time again.


Satori..�Ф� hahaahaaa!!! Rubbish, ya know I just walk away from guys who pretend like that, too funny Laughing mindmetoo, why you not try to be more scarce? Rapier, what is your favorite dish?? Laughing Laughing
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