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gotokorea



Joined: 18 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 10:44 am    Post subject: I am freaking out !!! Someone please help... Reply with quote

Okay, I begin teaching kindergarden and elementry students at the beginning of the month. This is my first ESL job. I am freaking out inside. I have never taught .... I am confident that after I get the hang of things, I will do great.... but what am I to do my first day getting thrown in a class with no idea of whats going on... did anyone else feel overwhelmed right before their frst big day???? Someone please help me to feel at ease and give me any advice you may have for a new teacher... THANKS.!!!
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chronicpride



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 11:01 am    Post subject: Re: I am freaking out !!! Someone please help... Reply with quote

gotokorea wrote:
Okay, I begin teaching kindergarden and elementry students at the beginning of the month. This is my first ESL job. I am freaking out inside. I have never taught .... I am confident that after I get the hang of things, I will do great.... but what am I to do my first day getting thrown in a class with no idea of whats going on... did anyone else feel overwhelmed right before their frst big day???? Someone please help me to feel at ease and give me any advice you may have for a new teacher... THANKS.!!!


I know EXACTLY what you are going through, as I had no idea what to expect. I was thrown into the first class with no prep and told to just teach. 5 pairs of young Korean eyes staring up at me, while the asst. director looked on from the door. I opened up the book and winged it. And I also made a point of getting the kids laughing and having fun while learning. I got a big smile from the asst. director after the class was over, and have since never had any jitters in front of the hundreds of classrooms that I've been in front of.

The first one is always the toughest, as you don't know what to expect. But don't plan and think too much about it beforehand. Your first class should be about orientation. Getting to know the students and them getting to know you. Teaching kindy or early elementary on your first day should only involve you acting a little goofy and writing your name on the board, your home country and your age. Then try to extract the same out of the kids. That's about 10-30 minutes depending on the amount of students and their english levels. And 10-30 minutes is all it takes to get over your first day jitters and to get into a groove. Don't sweat it.
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Grotto



Joined: 21 Mar 2004

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 1:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first day is the toughest.

Have a get to know you question period. Tell them a little about yourself...where you are from...your family...what you like. Ask them some of the same questions too.

Be confident in your own English speaking abilities....remember you are an English speaking expert so you really dont have to worry about mastering the material....so relax and take it easy.

So basically what Chronic said. Relax and you'll do fine.
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 1:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Grotto wrote:
The first day is the toughest.

Have a get to know you question period. Tell them a little about yourself...where you are from...your family...what you like. Ask them some of the same questions too.

Be confident in your own English speaking abilities....remember you are an English speaking expert so you really dont have to worry about mastering the material....so relax and take it easy.

So basically what Chronic said. Relax and you'll do fine.


Set up a reward system right away. I bring stickers. They love stickers. If they do something well or follow instructions well, give them a sticker. Also, you should be happy and easygoing, but remain firm on any problems (to be honest, all I ever have to do is count down from 5 and 95% of the time they get into line)

Just my two cents
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 3:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They'll be very excited and happy to see a new foreigner. Don't mistake this for genuine enthusiasm, attentiveness, or respect. Whatever you do, don't take negative feedback personally - chances are good that the person giving it to you has no idea what he / she's talking about, in any event.

Good luck!
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cruisemonkey



Joined: 04 Jul 2005
Location: Hopefully, the same place as my luggage.

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had less than ten minutes notice before 'teaching' my first class (the boss lead me to believe we were going to Immigration to get my ARC). I was given a book (piece of crap) and told I would "do a good job". The first day is all a blur... can't remember anything except that I didn't use the book.

You'll be OK... just have fun with the kids and 'introductions' to find out how much they know. Your learning curve will be steep! Wink
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 4:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It would be nice if they'll let you arrive a few days early and watch the old teacher with his class. Of course you can't really be an innocuous observer as all the kids will be fascinated with you... but at least you won't have to be the leader. This was my sole method of "training" in Taiwan, but in Korea I didn't even get this much.
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Prince Frog



Joined: 03 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2005 10:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm still new at this gig after two months but I will give you what little advice I can.

You will probably be so tired and overwhelmed from the long journey that you couldn't care less about your performance. This is what happened to me. After 24 hours of travel and little sleep after two days, they put me in front of the kids. I don't hardly remember any of it. It's all a blur. Just smile, dress appropriately (which is what many of the Koreans will be looking at), strike a cool and collective demeanor. Don't show the kids you are aftraid, otherwise they will eat you alive.

After a few days you will recover from the jet lag and find your groove. Good luck!!
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Fri Dec 23, 2005 6:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hello, Go to Korea!

I keep an ongoing list of threads started by people saying "Help! I have to teach kindergarten and I don't know the first thing!"

http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/posting.php?mode=editpost&p=673757
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=39139&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=34653&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=4422&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=15
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=29953&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=16204&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=14162&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=11817&highlight=
http://www.eslcafe.com/forums/korea/viewtopic.php?t=5804&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=15


I hope this helps!
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cdn_guy7610



Joined: 30 Mar 2005
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 9:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had 2 days of watching the teacher who was leaving before i started my first contract, but it no where near prepared me for starting. My first day alone was pure hell. I thought i made a huge mistake. After a month, which most people say is the adjustment period i felt better, but since I was the only foreigner and given no instruction, I never felt truly confident abotu what I was doing. Now that I just finished my second contract today, I know stay away from the hell of teaching kids. I absolutely loved teaching adlutls this past year and look foward to teaching nother 3 months before I go home.

The stress of one kid class = the stress of a week of teaching adult classes and i taught and got paid for 44 hours a week the las few months teaching adults.

My biggest advice is not to look to far into the future, take it one day at a time at the start until you get the hang of things. Korea can be a lot of fun, so enjoy, teaching is just a small part of your true experience.
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Bee Positive



Joined: 27 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 10:06 am    Post subject: Cheer up, mate! Reply with quote

My first job here made me physically and mentally ill.

Five years later, and about as many jobs later, I'm doing fine.

That may sound like cold comfort. Find a moment, if you will though, when you're all alone, to take a deep breath, relax, calm down, destress, and consider the big picture.

Take a long, long hot shower, drain away all those cares, and then just look at yourself in the mirror for a bit, as you wipe the condensation away.

You've come so far already, in so many ways.

And this job, this apartment, this city, this town, this country--none of it is likely your final destination. Or if by some chance Korea IS your final destination, then it definitely WILL NOT be in a job you hate. There are great jobs to be found here, hard as it may be to believe.

You'll get through it. A year from now, five years from now, ten years from now, you may or may not be in Korea. You may or may not be teaching. But I can GUARANTEE you that there will be many, many moments of looking back on what you're going through now and thinking something like, "Ha ha ha!"

Just take my word for it.

You'll be fine.

I don't mean to sound patronizing. As it happens, I went up the ladder a few rungs, careerwise, before coming back down it a year or so ago. Once again, for reasons which I won't elaborate upon, I was back in a room full of screaming, snot-nosed little kids. Once again, I thought that I couldn't take it, couldn't hold on, thought that my life had ended.

In fact, I didn't make it. Had to drop that last job. Went back "home" to Mom and Dad in the States, tail between my legs at the ripe old age of, well, over 30. But now I'm back in Korea, capitalizing on prior experience, in what I can only call a GREAT job. I've never been happier. Life is so, so sweet.

All this can happen to you too. So step back, consider the big picture, and CHEER UP!



BEE POSITIVE


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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Wed Dec 28, 2005 9:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My way of preparing was doing open mic stand up comedy in Seattle. If you can get up in front of a drunk and semi hostile crowd and make them laugh, you'll survive in front of unmotivated Korean kids.
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Shooter McGavin



Joined: 22 Nov 2005
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 9:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first day was a joke. I was told to come in at 1 to check out the school. OK, a tour, intros, etc I thought. I had to sit through a 45 min staff meeting that was conducted entirely in Korean (in fact, I got shushed for talking to one of the K-teachers in English, when I wanted to know what was going on). Then I was given a class schedule at 2:25, with my first class at 2:30. So I had 5 mins to find the books and classes.
Naturally, after 2 weeks, I got a note informing me of "problems" with my teaching. I wasn't reading the books at the proper speed apparently (I was "too fast," then again the books suck). What a day that was...
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Shooter McGavin



Joined: 22 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first day was a joke. I was told to come in at 1 to check out the school. OK, a tour, intros, etc I thought. I had to sit through a 45 min staff meeting that was conducted entirely in Korean (in fact, I got shushed for talking to one of the K-teachers in English, when I wanted to know what was going on). Then I was given a class schedule at 2:25, with my first class at 2:30. So I had 5 mins to find the books and classes.
Naturally, after 2 weeks, I got a note informing me of "problems" with my teaching. I wasn't reading the books at the proper speed apparently (I was "too fast," then again the books suck). What a day that was...
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Shooter McGavin



Joined: 22 Nov 2005
Location: ROK

PostPosted: Thu Dec 29, 2005 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first day was a joke. I was told to come in at 1 to check out the school. OK, a tour, intros, etc I thought. I had to sit through a 45 min staff meeting that was conducted entirely in Korean (in fact, I got shushed for talking to one of the K-teachers in English, when I wanted to know what was going on). Then I was given a class schedule at 2:25, with my first class at 2:30. So I had 5 mins to find the books and classes.
Naturally, after 2 weeks, I got a note informing me of "problems" with my teaching. I wasn't reading the books at the proper speed apparently (I was "too fast," then again the books suck). What a day that was...
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