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brento1138
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| peppermint wrote: |
| ( maybe set flowers floating in the hot water to make it look pretty) |
Peppermint is officially full of amazing wisdom!  |
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sheba
Joined: 16 May 2005
Location: Here there and everywhere!
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 5:06 am Post subject: |
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You're NZer right? Nice to see all the NZ guys arent 'too wanabe manly' to actually give a crap about Valentines day.... let alone ask for advice!
An perfect valentines day for me would be....
To wake up with a bunch of flowers beside me so its the first thing I see.
Breakfast in bed (like pancakes with bacon and maple syrup)
Something simple for the day to do together - movie and lunch, a walk at the beach, or staying at home with a big blanket and lots of junk food watching dvds.
Then have a cooked dinner including wine and dessert (the thought, time and effort more than makes up for the fact that it MIGHT taste like crap!)
Then run a big bubble bath with candles, followed by a massage (with scented oil and candles).
The rest of the night would be for my b/f......
Of course you may not have the time for a full day plan... and this is my ideal day - may not be anyone elses! |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 7:37 am Post subject: |
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| I'm in the opposite predicament as the OP poster. My interest for the girl I'm dating is waning and I'm hoping to become rapidly more distant before I leave the country next month. I asked her if she thinks I should buy her something for V Day, which was intended as a hint that I didn't want to, and she laughed hysterically and told me I'm cute. What to do... |
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Mashimaro
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: location, location
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 3:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| I'm in the opposite predicament as the OP poster. My interest for the girl I'm dating is waning and I'm hoping to become rapidly more distant before I leave the country next month. I asked her if she thinks I should buy her something for V Day, which was intended as a hint that I didn't want to, and she laughed hysterically and told me I'm cute. What to do... |
Be honest with her, and let her move on and find someone else |
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hack
Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 5:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| I'm in the opposite predicament as the OP poster. My interest for the girl I'm dating is waning and I'm hoping to become rapidly more distant before I leave the country next month. I asked her if she thinks I should buy her something for V Day, which was intended as a hint that I didn't want to, and she laughed hysterically and told me I'm cute. What to do... |
DUMP HER IMMEDIATELY. Why spend $ on someone who won't be in your future? Actually, the week before VD is the best time because it makes you take stock on whether or not you really care for someone. And unless you can see yourself spending forever with her, then dump her. And if you are really confident in yourself, dump her anyway-she'll want you even more in a couple of weeks and you'll save all that money and angst about what to buy. Try it-you'll be surprised how well this works. |
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Tiberious aka Sparkles
Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 6:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| I'm in the opposite predicament as the OP poster. My interest for the girl I'm dating is waning and I'm hoping to become rapidly more distant before I leave the country next month. I asked her if she thinks I should buy her something for V Day, which was intended as a hint that I didn't want to, and she laughed hysterically and told me I'm cute. What to do... |
What until she turns her back, then nail her with a 2X4.
It always seemed to work for me, anyway.
Sparkles*_* |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 7:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Qinella wrote: |
| I'm in the opposite predicament as the OP poster. My interest for the girl I'm dating is waning and I'm hoping to become rapidly more distant before I leave the country next month. I asked her if she thinks I should buy her something for V Day, which was intended as a hint that I didn't want to, and she laughed hysterically and told me I'm cute. What to do... |
You're not expected to buy her anything- if she's Korean. Guys get chocolate or whatever on valentines day, and girls get candy on white day. (I'm campaigning to give the guys beer on v-day and let the girls have the chocolate but anyway)
If you know you're leaving soon, and you don't really want to be with her, let her down gently, but do it NOW! She might be planning to drop a ton of money on your gift, and that will only lead to guilt trips and headaches. It's like tearing off a bandaid, sucks but its got to be done. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib
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| Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 7:42 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah I'm gonna have to dump her. You all are right.
The really cool thing is she starts at my hagwon in a few weeks.  |
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