Site Search:
 
Speak Korean Now!
Teach English Abroad and Get Paid to see the World!
Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index Korean Job Discussion Forums
"The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Teachers from Around the World!"
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

Two lawyers give advice to expat English teachers
Goto page 1, 2  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Job-related Discussion Forum
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
weatherman



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 9:34 pm    Post subject: Two lawyers give advice to expat English teachers Reply with quote

Found these, well worth your time to read articles in some of the more popular Korean blogs. I'm sure some of you have already read them, but I think they are worth posting here to, for they offer good advice:

First up is Ruminations in Korea:

http://www.jsharrison.com/korea/2006/03/21/the-plight-of-english-institute-teachers-in-korea/

Lots of good advice such as:
Quote:
Another part of foreign teachers bringing problems onto themselves is the inability/unwillingness to do what is expected and know their role in society and to conform with societal and cultural norms.


The second article is from the Marmot's hole, written by a guest blogger:

http://www.rjkoehler.com/?p=2589

Advice here too:
Quote:
Here��s my advice for would-be English teachers: (1) Don��t come here! (2) Since you��re going to come here anyway, dummy, make sure that you have six months�� living expenses (a single young person can live in Korea on about $1000 a month) and cash for return transportation home. Odds are good that you��ll be cheated. At least if you take steps to make sure you��re not helpless, it will be a mitigated disaster instead of an unmitigated disaster.


Both are great reading and filled with lots of comments at the end.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
spliff



Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand

PostPosted: Tue Mar 21, 2006 10:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

And here I thought this was gonna be a joke... Laughing
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Send e-mail
UncleAlex



Joined: 04 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 1:58 am    Post subject: Conform? Reply with quote

By all means, conform to cultural and societal norms: Accept being
cheated by your boss, live in a shabby little room with intermittent
hot water and no heating system, and don't grumble if you have to
work 12 hour days at a busy hagwon or be paid late all the time. If
you're denied your severance pay at the end of the year, then take
it like a man by refusing to notify the Korea Labor Board. Chances
are you'll be well-liked and respected by your employer who will then
not give you any more trouble. Cool
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Homer
Guest




PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 3:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unclealex..perhaps there is a difference between adapting to societal norms and sitting there while you get cheated on...those are two very different issues.


As for the advice given...it makes sense. I do think that most of us, when we arrived here did not have 6 months living expenses in the bank Laughing

That seems like a good idea but not a very pratical one for most newbies just out of university.

A good rule of thumb however is to have enough cash for a flight home and perhaps a 1000 bucks over that. Just in case something happens.
Back to top
Ya-ta Boy



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Established in 1994

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, fooey on you!

I disagree (sort of) with both blogs. I didn't read either one. Maybe I'll read the first one, but the second one has no clue. None whatsoever.

Briefly, my experience is that you need to make a good-faith effort to know the local customs and adapt SOMEWHAT to them. But no need to compromise yourself in the process. As long as you make a sincere effort to act with some manners and courtesy, the locals will welcome you with open arms and not give a lick if you don't follow their local rules to the letter. They are not rubes here. They enjoy meeting people from outside as much as we enjoy meeting them.

The chances of getting ripped off here by your boss are far higher than they should be. I can agree with that. But the quote does not mention that employers here are ripped off at least as often as they do the ripping. Chicken and the egg.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Homer
Guest




PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 4:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

But the quote does not mention that employers here are ripped off at least as often as they do the ripping. Chicken and the egg.

Shhhh...you are talking common sense again...that just won't fly...remember employers are all part of some evil organization out to pillage and enslave poor innocent waeguks...
Back to top
Karabeara



Joined: 05 Nov 2005
Location: The right public school beats a university/unikwon job any day!

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 6:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A successful relative of mine, and a lawyer, is working on a new blog. His first entry will be, "Why some lawyers can't make it at home, and have to work overseas."

I've heard there are a lot of starving/poor lawyers out there. Surely, Korea doesn't draw the cream of the lawyer crop either. Lawyers can be here because they are crazy about asian girls, or pervs, or even chasing after easy money (gosh, imagine that).

There are also respectable lawyers here.

Although much of what this guy said holds true, I felt it was almost more of an attempt to boast that he's not an English teacher than much else.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Otus



Joined: 09 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 7:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I thought what both writers had to say was both good and original. But the good parts were not original and the original parts were not good.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Smee



Joined: 24 Dec 2004
Location: Jeollanam-do

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 10:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

So if the foreign lawyers are so dismissive of foreigners, what exactly are they doing here?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message Visit poster's website
JongnoGuru



Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 11:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Smee wrote:
So if the foreign lawyers are so dismissive of foreigners, what exactly are they doing here?

Selling their time to Koreans or foreigners (companies) who don't live here.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
UncleAlex



Joined: 04 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 11:47 pm    Post subject: The Difference Between... Reply with quote

Homer, I'm perfectly aware of the difference between societal/cultural norms
and the practices of a crooked employer. I'm alluding to the above quote of how
we bring problems onto ourselves and twisting it a little. By the way, I have
been criticised by Koreans, notably colleagues of mine, for complaining about
being given an apartment with sparse hot water and no heating system; Korean
friends of mine once tried to discourage me from taking a crooked boss to
the Korea Labor Board for holding back pay and denying me my rightful severance pay.
I had the impression on those occasions that it would be the Korean thing to do
if I were to ignore my plight and forget about dealing with my employer. By my
passivity I would certainly be left with unsolved problems. Cool
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Homer
Guest




PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ok Unclealex...thanks for clarifying that.

You are right about having to take things into your own hands here...then again that is kind of a universal law if you want things done anywhere!
Back to top
BigBlackEquus



Joined: 05 Jul 2005
Location: Lotte controls Asia with bad chocolate!

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 4:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My friend has that heat issue with water in his apartment. He has the typical electric water heater set-up. The thing will only put out so much hot water at a time, and it's not enough to make for a very powerful shower. What he was doing wrong was opening the valve too much, and allowing the hot water to flow too quickly through the heating unit before enough could get hot. To get a nice hot stream of water, he has to reduce the flow coming out of the shower head by closing off the valve a bit.

Of course, this means his shower isn't too powerful, which sucks. It's liveable though, and at least the water is hot enough for a shower.

The weird thing is that it's boiling hot for 10 seconds when he first turns it on. Ouch.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
ontheway



Joined: 24 Aug 2005
Location: Somewhere under the rainbow...

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 8:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

BBE,

Your friend's hot water is "typical" it is probably gas and not electric. His problem probably comes from a control valve on the water pipe at the input to the water heater unit.

Try this test. Turn on the water on cold, all the way on. Check the water flow. Now turn the water on hot, all the way on. Check the water flow. (do not worry about the temperature of the water coming out, just compare the flow levels.) If there is a lot less water coming out on "hot", then there is a water control valve on the system. You might be able to adust this valve to get a greater flow of water, or have a plumber remove it.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
buymybook



Joined: 21 Feb 2005
Location: Telluride

PostPosted: Thu Mar 23, 2006 9:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya-ta Boy wrote:
Well, fooey on you!

I disagree (sort of) with both blogs. I didn't read either one. Maybe I'll read the first one, but the second one has no clue. None whatsoever.

Briefly, my experience is that you need to make a good-faith effort to know the local customs and adapt SOMEWHAT to them. But no need to compromise yourself in the process. As long as you make a sincere effort to act with some manners and courtesy, the locals will welcome you with open arms and not give a lick if you don't follow their local rules to the letter. They are not rubes here. They enjoy meeting people from outside as much as we enjoy meeting them.

The chances of getting ripped off here by your boss are far higher than they should be. I can agree with that. But the quote does not mention that employers here are ripped off at least as often as they do the ripping. Chicken and the egg.


You must mean that they are ripped off as often by their fellow Koreans?

For example : Ajumas who don't pay full tuition/bookstores who charge too much/building owners who kick them out the last month of the lease contact etc...

If you mean Hakwon owners are ripped off by Foreign Teachers equal to vice versa, then you must have momentarily lost touch with reality.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Job-related Discussion Forum All times are GMT - 8 Hours
Goto page 1, 2  Next
Page 1 of 2

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


This page is maintained by the one and only Dave Sperling.
Contact Dave's ESL Cafe
Copyright © 2018 Dave Sperling. All Rights Reserved.

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group

TEFL International Supports Dave's ESL Cafe
TEFL Courses, TESOL Course, English Teaching Jobs - TEFL International