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[Troll_Bait]

little mixed girl:

Is that BoA in your avatar?

(Mine is, by the way, taken from this commercial.)

[Mashimaro]

[cameron.mayo]

Roger that Mashimaro, very high school, I agree.
Back to your playstation son (little mixed girl).

Availability of local women to date would be one thing into THUH mix as to choosing a destination. For example I would count out Middle East, being a red blooded male, who enjoys women, for all intents and purposes its not gonna happen there.

McChristophermsw: Agreed, staying in shape is a HUGE part of it. 98% of women love fit, strong, healthy masculine men. Little mixed girl; trade in your x-box for a few sessions at the gym and see ur stock rise, then you wont be so intimidated when topics like this feed the thread.

Thuh end.

[stevemcgarrett]

[stevemcgarrett]

On a more important note,

I'd like to congratulate you, Troll Man for a most excellent avatar. The boys in Aurora, Illinois public access television are most pleased. Jenny, file this for Chin Ho, please.

[cameron.mayo]

Hawaii 50: You raised some good points. Western women dating a Korean man, yup who gives a toss, jump right in I say.

The original post was a simple question, which as usual was rail-roaded into some weird SH^T about fetishism, white dudes not being able to score at home etc...

Yellow Fever, jungle fever, white lightening fever; as a hot-blooded male I've got 'em all 'nuff said.

[krisinkorea]

Honestly, to each his own. Nonetheless, most had interesting replies.

And on the note of Korean boyfriends or oriental boyfriends. Just wanted an opinion as I've seen many foreign men get confused....faces contorting....struggling...and staring when my foreign female friends are out with their Korean boyfriends. From what I've seen....and I'm not an expert by any means...but there are a few men out there who seem to have a hard time accepting a white woman with a Korean boyfriend. I think men are territorial and it's very entertaining.

[Homer]

I think men are territorial and it's very entertaining.

As are women in many cases...

They even vocalize it sometimes with comments such as:

I see you got yourself a token girlfriend.

Whats the matter can't handle a "real" woman?

Oh you just like submissive women.

She is out to get a ticket out of here thats why she dates you.

These were all heard over the years here, some directed at me, others at couples we hang out with or ar passing comments...

Very entertaining as well.

[cameron.mayo]

Kris: I agree with Homer, women are extremely territorial its just more subtle. For example, from what I've witnessed from 98% of women, under no circumstances are their boyfriends to engage in chatter with other women, it will simply be kyboshed by the girlfriend. The gf will usually give dagger eyes to the offending women and in most cases the boyfriend will be unawares as to why a seemingly innocent conversation was abruptly terminated. Also for example if I'm chatting to a women I work with and another sees it, they will coming running over and try to 'get the attention' away from their competitor...I find this desparation very boring, they are playing some game amongst themselves that Iam aware of (tho excluded from) but the irony is I have no interest in either women...fags (sorry to be blunt) play the same game. F^gs (not sorry to be blunt) I believe learn these tricks and take their cues from seeing women interact. Often I would just like to have a normal conversation but there is always an under-current of subtext going on that feels wierd to me....

Personally I was never into Asian women untill I went to Thailand. And now you could say pretty much Asian women turn my head big time. I like exploring the differences, I like the mystery behind the eyes. They hold alot of them selves back and sometimes you never know what they're thinking.

[mindmetoo]

[krisinkorea]

Wow, I know this conversation could go around in circles.

I know first hand how catty women can be. Women are bred to dislike each other and compete for male attention. Sad but, true. What's that old saying...men solve problems by throwing a couple of fists and then buy each other a beer. Then there are women who can be passive aggressive. This wiser ones fight that urge or pretend it's not there. Age and security probably plays a huge roll. Not all women, like that attention from men when it's given. It can turn from flattering to plain annoying. Good looking women, good looking men they have to deal with that. Then they become headcases in more ways than one.

What's also sad is that the woman who is the "only woman" in the department probably struggles with both sides. Trying to do her job.....in places that many women don't venture, dominated by male coworkers. And trying to be the woman's friend who is still learning her job. That's a simple way of putting it.

[merlot]

[SirFink]

[cameron.mayo]

I admire that (those) women who are able to venture into male dominated terrain. I worked @ Microsoft for years and my boss was a young women incharge of 28 males, talk about skewed stats! Hats of too her...as I said earlier in the thread you'd never see men venture into female dominated terrain, they just dont like the feeling of being disempowered by being inthe minority.

[Big_Bird]