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You see a foreigner in an empty restaurant. You...
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You and another foreigner are the only patrons in a restaurant. You...
Walk over, introduce yourself, and invite him/her to sit with you. Why not make a friend?
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Politely nod an acknowledgement and contemplate an introduction, pending how receptive the other person seems.
36%
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Politely nod and leave it at that, hoping they don't make any attempt to engage with you beyond that. Just because this person's a foreigner doesn't mean you'd like them any better than a Korean.
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Ignore the other person. You are shy/had a bad day/want to be alone.
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Ignore the other person, but secretly hope they come and talk to you instead.
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Other.
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Becka



Joined: 28 Sep 2005

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:21 am    Post subject: You see a foreigner in an empty restaurant. You... Reply with quote

Well?

And for the sake of argument, let's pretend you're not interested in trying to get this person into bed.
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Hater Depot



Joined: 29 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:29 am    Post subject: Re: You see a foreigner in an empty restaurant. You... Reply with quote

Becka wrote:
Well?


Well I know I would..

Quote:
And for the sake of argument, let's pretend you're not interested in trying to get this person into bed.


Oh.
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kangnam mafioso



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: Teheranno

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

1. Stop.
2. Avoid all eye contact.
3. Slowly back out of the restaurant
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caniff



Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Location: All over the map

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stare at them while contemplating what a wretched existence they must lead to have fallen so low as to eat in a restaurant alone.

Losers.


(Was that an option given by the OP? I didn't check)
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kangnam mafioso wrote:
1. Stop.
2. Avoid all eye contact.
3. Slowly back out of the restaurant


Laughing

Never been in the situation, Becka. I think it would really depend on if the person looked like someone I'd want to talk to. If not, I would give the standard smile and nod acknowledgement, but sit alone and pretend to be really interested in the side dishes.
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it's in my neighborhood, where I live or work, I might strike up a chat. Especially living in a smaller town: that makes a difference. Foreigners are generally less friendly in bigger cities, just like locals.
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HapKi



Joined: 10 Dec 2004
Location: TALL BUILDING-SEOUL

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'd wonder why we're both in a crappy restaurant with no other customers.
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Dev



Joined: 18 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 7:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, of course I'd say "Say good night to the bad guy! Make way for the bad guy. There's a bad guy coming through. You'd better get out of his way."
-Scarface


Actually, if he / she is alone, I'll make eye contact and smile. If I get the same back, maybe strike up a conversation.
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caniff



Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Location: All over the map

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

On second thought, I have been known to wink and make kissy-faces at them.
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JongnoGuru



Joined: 25 May 2004
Location: peeing on your doorstep

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I reach for my revolver.

(no, that's not a metaphor Mad)
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Satori



Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 8:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That would depend entirely on whether they look a) interesting to me and b) open to approach and c) my mood...

I'd be open to striking up a chat, but only when all the right planets are aligned...
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Xerxes



Joined: 10 Jan 2006
Location: Down a certain (rabbit) hole, apparently

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 9:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm usually not the chatty type (although I seem to post here like the Dickens! Must be my wanting to procrastinate).

I won't "reach for my revolver" or otherwise (that IS a metaphor Shocked ), but if he/she strikes up a conversation, I'll give it the ole college try and be civil.

Usually the bloke is a n00b, and I don't have the time for the grand tour or the guy is jaded and I don't feel like hearing an ear-full about this or that jerk k-guy. You can find a jerk k-guy, or whatever, any day of the week, is my opinion.
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xingyiman



Joined: 12 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
1. Stop.
2. Avoid all eye contact.
3. Slowly back out of the restaurant



Ha ha! Kangnam and I think alike! Seriously if the dude or dudette makes an effort to give me a nod or such I might strike up a a little conversation with them. Too often though its either some guy who's scowling at me cause he views me as competition against his efforts to sack the cute waitress, or some rabid feminist biitch that hates me to begin with cause I'm male and knows I think that the Korean waitress is way prettier than her.
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Barking Mad Lord Snapcase



Joined: 04 Nov 2003

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

caniff wrote:
Stare at them while contemplating what a wretched existence they must lead to have fallen so low as to eat in a restaurant alone.

Losers.


And what would you be doing in a restaurant alone?
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 5:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Barking Mad Lord Snapcase wrote:
caniff wrote:
Stare at them while contemplating what a wretched existence they must lead to have fallen so low as to eat in a restaurant alone.

Losers.


And what would you be doing in a restaurant alone?


Sarcasm detector broken?
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