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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005
Location: $eoul
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 Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 5:47 am Post subject: |
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| Are Korean girls that much attractive? I don't even have a concrete idea about who I'd seen on the street and met when I was in Seoul since back then I wasn't really much interested in meeting the opposite sex and relationship stuff. In Toronto, I have seen a few attractive Korean girls but they were never single. The pool's small. I almost feel like going back to Korea now. he he.. just being silly.. |
The girl with her fingers spread out in your pic makes me want it. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 6:37 am Post subject: |
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Joyfulgirl
You are suffereing by comparison. It probably won't improve your feelings on this matter but this article
http://www.modelminority.com/printout548.html
explains lots. I have observed many Canadian women locally who are dating Western men. Far fewer that are dating Korean men. I think that everywhere everyone deserves to have relationship success. Life is too short to miss out on precious time with someone who you love and that loves you. Life is not kind however. In America and the West it is generally not kind to us males and in the East it is assuredly not kind to you females. Men are going to be inclined to pass you up for a Korean and that is not going to change. An average Korean woman's novelty will give her the edge over even an attractive Western gal as I've noticed. I think also that the revenge factor may be kicking in as well. I see lots of guys view the semi to moderately attractive Western gals here as women who, if they were Stateside would reject them in a heartbeat and make no bones about "returning the favor". Unattractive women will have a hard time all around because nobody wants them to begin with. It always blows mind when I meet an obese Western gal who's complaining because guys wont give her the time of day here.  |
wow, thanks for the great response. yea, it's not easy here, but i didn't come to meet someone, unlike the OP, so i'm fine. sorry to have been 'woe is me' earlier...mood swings..lordie.. i actually have a fuller social life here than i did at home, great friends and fun times. i love it here. it'd be nice to meet someone, but, hey...i'm sure if it's meant to happen, it will. any man i'd be interested in would be open to dating western girls and korean girls, and er, just a girl they liked, not just stuck on the novelty and excitement of 'getting a hot korean girlfriend.' |
I dont know what kind of guy wouldnt be open to dating western girls. I saw plenty of really attractive western women today at the Buddha Day celebrations. People are people. I dont think I would ever make distinctions and decide I wouldnt date a whole demographic of women. But I also know there are plenty of pathetic little boys who call themselves men, who bring a lot of baggage from back home..like xyngyiman for example. But I would expect those losers would be in the minority. |
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joyfulgirl
Joined: 05 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:12 am Post subject: |
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| oh, i know most men are open to dating anyone. people are people, yes. it's just a little different here, as a western girl. and i have no idea who xyngyiman is, or why you'd call him a loser...we're all a bit loser-ish, in our own way. silly to call people that. and it was a good parade, wasn't it...i saw lotsa cute western girls and guys there as well. and when those floats would explode in fireworks...ye gads..shame i suck at taking pics. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:31 am Post subject: |
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| But I also know there are plenty of pathetic little boys who call themselves men, who bring a lot of baggage from back home..like xyngyiman for example. |
So whats stuck up your ass jinju? I'll assume its from some of my previous comments on other threads. Joyful girl didn't seem to be in any way offended by my response. I have said and will say that I don't do Western gals as far as dating goes. The reason is twofold.
1. Most every Western chick I meet here is packing attitude, which I and any other guy doesn't deserve.
2. I can most assuredly get a way better looking Korean girl for less effort.
Thats not to say that if the right one came along that I would just piss her away. I just deem it highly unlikely based upon the pool of expats I currently know of and the odds with the Koreans are way better in my opinion. I would say that joyfulgirl could be one of those exceptions that you often read about but never meet. But I can't base my entire life on exceptions when the rules pass in front of my face daily. To recklessly quote joyfulgirl "...if it happens it happens" but I'm not gonna pursue it. And as far as me bringing any baggage from back home..you don't know shiit about my life or any other person's on this forum besides your own so don't flail us with your own insecurities. |
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Yu_Bum_suk
Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:23 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm not going to read all five pages of this, so sorry if it's already been asked, but do you have a handphone yet? Text messaging is by far K-girls' favourite form of communication and contacting guys they're interested in. Before I came to Korea I had never sent a text message, and now I find myself deleting ten or twenty every week, or even in one day if I've been chatting away with a K-girl killing time in transit or in a boring class. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:49 pm Post subject: |
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| But I also know there are plenty of pathetic little boys who call themselves men, who bring a lot of baggage from back home..like xyngyiman for example. |
So whats stuck up your ass jinju? I'll assume its from some of my previous comments on other threads. Joyful girl didn't seem to be in any way offended by my response. I have said and will say that I don't do Western gals as far as dating goes. The reason is twofold.
1. Most every Western chick I meet here is packing attitude, which I and any other guy doesn't deserve.
2. I can most assuredly get a way better looking Korean girl for less effort.
Thats not to say that if the right one came along that I would just piss her away. I just deem it highly unlikely based upon the pool of expats I currently know of and the odds with the Koreans are way better in my opinion. I would say that joyfulgirl could be one of those exceptions that you often read about but never meet. But I can't base my entire life on exceptions when the rules pass in front of my face daily. To recklessly quote joyfulgirl "...if it happens it happens" but I'm not gonna pursue it. And as far as me bringing any baggage from back home..you don't know shiit about my life or any other person's on this forum besides your own so don't flail us with your own insecurities. |
Whats stuck up my ass? Your attitude, and not only towards western women but also Korean women. Whenever I read your posts about your korean girlfriends I get the feeling she isnt a person but your loyal pet. You have a real "nice" way of reducing women to objects. I guess though I shouldnt expect more from someone who goes to room salons, pays for sex and brags about it on Daves. Werent you dating your loyal Korean girl at the time you paid for those services? I know plenty about your life, straight from you. I sure as hell know about your baggage. You've put it on display on this board in a shameless way. Look at your sig. if thats not a sign of SERIOUS baggage, I dont know what is.
Joyfulgirl sounds nice and I dont think she should worry. Im sure she will find someone. Hell, if I was single Id invite her out for coffee. |
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mindmetoo
Joined: 02 Feb 2004
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 3:54 pm Post subject: |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
| I'm not going to read all five pages of this, so sorry if it's already been asked, but do you have a handphone yet? Text messaging is by far K-girls' favourite form of communication and contacting guys they're interested in. Before I came to Korea I had never sent a text message, and now I find myself deleting ten or twenty every week, or even in one day if I've been chatting away with a K-girl killing time in transit or in a boring class. |
I did wade thru all 5 pages
Summary:
white chicks: you white men are losers here in Korea that's why you can't find slender hot k-chicks!
white dudes: you white chicks are fat and have a mile of attitude... it's chicks like you that drove me here!
OP, go home. Make a lot of money as an engineer. Buy a hot car and a nice house. Meet a woman or get a Russian mail order bride and set her up in your cozy life. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 4:35 pm Post subject: |
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| So I went to a room salon once....big deal. And as for bragging about it I never did. I only posted that I went to one and then I was bombarded by other posters demanding I tell everything that happened. When I did I was bashed all around by guys claiming that they had gotten a better deal than I. And no I didn't have a Korean GF at the time I went there. I hooked up with mine about a week after. My GF has no complaints about the way I treat her. As for women being objects...a lot of the Western women I know have reduced themselves to objects. And not very good ones. I know expat guys here that would make me look like a saint in your eyes in compare but I don't hate them because it's their life. They can do what they want - it doesn't afftect me one way or another. Why should my attitude matter to you unless you are a Western gal who I won't date, or a Korean gal that I would? As for my sig...call it baggage if you want but in my observation gals back home are interested in the cash and thats about it. You can defend Western gals with all your might or you can rip them to shreds - doesn't affect me either way cause it's your life and you'll be the one subject to your choices. I could sit down and have a beer with either individual. |
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peppermint
Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 5:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Not all gals( ugh how I hate that word!) just the ones who aspire to be trophy wives. Unfortunately for you, those seem to be the types you're attracted to. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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| Not all gals( ugh how I hate that word!) just the ones who aspire to be trophy wives. Unfortunately for you, those seem to be the types you're attracted to. |
Good looking women back home know what they're worth and they will exploit the opportunities. I could play the game and saddle myself with debt and put up the fascade like everyone else does and then have some chick make off with everything on her way to the next sap. I am not attracted to unattractive women. That's what I love about Asia - plenty to go around. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 6:30 pm Post subject: |
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| That's what I love about Asia - plenty to go around. |
This is what I hate about your posts. Plenty to go around? You make it sound like some sexual wonderland where your little fantasies can come true. You really are a creepy one. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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| This is what I hate about your posts. |
I am boggled by your emotion concerning this issue. You may be a man but you come off as a spurned woman. You are not affected by this. You aren't a woman that has been denied my affections nor are you one that is competing for them. Why should you have any feelings toward the matter at all? So there are guys (I am not one of them by the way) who treat this place like a sexual fantasyland. So what? You aren't suffereing because of it. Let them have their fantasies. Guys do this back home all the time with our women who are all too eager to put out out for a guy who "appears" to have his game together in the financial department. Do you look with such distaste on them as well? I simply feel liberated here in Asia where I can date women without faking I am someone I am not (and everyone back home does it). It's not about looks (I am good looking), it's not about character (I always make my GF laugh and feel warm), its about playing a god damn game all the time for a bunch of gals who are left over from being passed over by guys who went for the better deals. Maybe I would look a little different on the matter if I were in my early 20's again but the pool of eligibles for us guys in our 30's is pretty bleak looking. The good ones are gone. They're good and thats why. I am not going to sit and make up reasons why I should accept someone who obviously is below my standards just because there is nothing else available. I just drove out of the slums and into "Brentwood Hills" so to speak. And I have had it with everyone who comes off like Western gals are some sort of standard that we failed to achieve. Have you looked at whats left ito date in the 30's category back home? GEEEEZ! And how many people on this forum have honestly ever dated an American "Angelina Joile" - yeah sure. Yes, I will agree that American women (the beautiful ones) are really beautiful(I dated a couple in my 20's). But as such they get swept away quickly and by the time we reach our 30's we are left with what nobody wanted. I like to date women my own age and here I can find someone who still has it happening well into her 30's. |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Do you remember the playboy fiasco no so long ago? THATS why it pissess me off. Idiots who act like that make it tough for all of us. Plus, I just dont like STUPID generalizations about anybody. It gets on my nerves. Ypu write some pretty offemsive stuff about Asian women as well. |
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xingyiman
Joined: 12 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 7:31 pm Post subject: |
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| Do you remember the playboy fiasco no so long ago? |
No, but would youcare to enlighten me?
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| Ypu write some pretty offemsive stuff about Asian women as well. |
As far as my comments towards Korean women they have all been rather complimentary I think. I would think that a Korean women would be flattered to know that I, an American thinks so highly of her compared to my opinion of Western women who's "beauty"(our models anyway) seems to be idolized among the local populous. All women have brains and intelligence to some degree. I don't care how intelligent a gal is if she's a biitch. Even less if she's a goldigger. And generalizations and stereotypes exist because there is some truth in them. You are championing the exceptions. Ever come across a four leaf clover? They're the exceptions too.  |
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StAxX SOuL
Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: London
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| Posted: Sun Apr 30, 2006 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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Really, this is easy as hell�� I mean I��ve even seen ginger guys get lucky out here
All you��ve got to do is go out. I spend most of my time at the Hyatt on Friday and Saturday nights and I��ll take down 3 or 4 phone numbers on each visit. Some I��ll call others I won��t. The Hyatt is a little more difficult a stomping ground however because a number of the rich business folk in there object to you ��stealing�� their women and will try to shut you down but its worth it because you get the higher class of Korean women. But generally you do get a lot of dapper folk there so you need to have something to offer too if you want attention.
But seriously, go to any bar in Itaewon on a Thursday – Saturday night and its easy street. You��ve got to search through the girls a little more than you have to at the Hyatt but so many girls there lust after a foreigner that you can forget the ��conservative�� image that Korean women were purported to have. |
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