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Lemonade



Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2006 1:59 am    Post subject: Watch OUT for those "quiet, intelligent and friendly .. Reply with quote

Stories like this make me sure glad I'm not married or in a relationship:

Doctor throws 2 kids, self off balcony By DAVID FISCHER, Associated Press Writer

MIAMI BEACH, Fla. - Qinuo Van Dyk heard one of her children screaming from an adjacent room at a landmark South Beach hotel, walked into the room and saw her husband jump off the 15th-floor balcony, police said.

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She looked over the railing and saw her husband and two young children lying on a mezzanine roof at the Loews Hotel about two floors above the ground.

Dr. Edward Van Dyk, 43, tossed his 4- and 8-year-old sons to their deaths Saturday morning, Miami Beach Police spokesman Bobby Hernandez said. Authorities did not release the boys' names.

Qinuo Van Dyk, 40, told police she and her husband had been having marital problems for the past six months, but hadn't argued right before the incident, Hernandez said.

Despite the marital problems, he said, the Alton, Ill., family had been celebrating the couple's 10th wedding anniversary.

"It's unfortunate that this gentleman was so selfish and in an effort to get back at his wife he took the two most loved people in the world away from her," Hernandez said.

He said the woman did not know why her husband, a radiation oncologist at Alton Memorial Hospital, killed the children and himself.

Edward Van Dyk became head of the hospital's cancer center 18 months ago after the family moved from New Mexico, hospital officials said.

"We are shocked and saddened by this tragedy and we offer our deepest sympathy to Mrs. Van Dyk and her family," hospital spokesman Rob Shelton said.

Other doctors at the hospital described Edward Van Dyk as quiet, intelligent and friendly.

Dr. Ed Ragsdale said Van Dyk dealt with patients who had severe forms of cancer and their subsequent therapy.

"It's a very stressful job," Ragsdale, chairman of the hospital's department of medical imaging, told The (Alton) Telegraph on Saturday. "It takes a strong person to deal with that kind of disease all the time."

Ragsdale told the newspaper he spoke with Van Dyk on Friday afternoon and that his colleague was not acting unusual but did not mention his trip to Florida.

A Loews Hotel spokeswoman in Miami declined comment.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20060528/ap_on_re_us/children_killed
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crystal



Joined: 04 May 2006

PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2006 2:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

that's terrible, if you are going to kill yourself fine but why kill the kids as well, those poor boys had their whole lives ahead of them. That poor mother, she's got to live with this for the rest of her life. I will never understand people who kill their kids, disgusting
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Sun May 28, 2006 2:17 am    Post subject: Re: Watch OUT for those "quiet, intelligent and friendl Reply with quote

Lemonade wrote:
Dr. Ed Ragsdale said Van Dyk dealt with patients who had severe forms of cancer and their subsequent therapy.

"It's a very stressful job," Ragsdale, chairman of the hospital's department of medical imaging, told The (Alton) Telegraph on Saturday. "It takes a strong person to deal with that kind of disease all the time."

More relevant don't you think?

So let's not be too hasty and prefer loud, dumb unfriendly guys, eh?
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EFLtrainer



Joined: 04 May 2005

PostPosted: Mon May 29, 2006 9:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dang... at least goph and I have an honest disagreement going....

Come to think of it, can't say the same for some of the idiots I work with...

...so carry on.
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