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eleruen
Joined: 18 Dec 2004 Location: Bundang, South Korea
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:04 am Post subject: fired unfairly from a 'reputable' hagwon |
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fired unfairly from a 'reputable' hagwon, is there any chance of getting another job in Korea? Boss has given me two months to find another job (which is suprisingly generous), after that, I am out.
Boss is sticking to contract nor commiting any crimes but is a nutcase in other ways...so there is no way to prove that I am being treated unfairly
His grounds are:
claiming that I complain more than anyone else. In fact I complain less.
claiming I don't connect well with the kids. Most of my kids love me.
claims there is not much output from me. I have contributed resources and most of my students are getting high grades.
Gives me less preparation time than the other teachers.
Demands that teachers are not allowed to use any kind of negative reinforcement. I follow this because he is my boss, while the other teachers do not. However, he says I don't follow his instructions, therefore I am not supporting him in his 'vision' about his hagwon.
claims that I am too emotional. I am very calm in the classroom, and with my colleagues. but I have tolerated this confusion for so long that I spent 5 minutes crying in the office (my first time). The next day he fired me because of the above 'reasons'.
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I have demonstrated with examples in a private meeting with him how his perception is not true. My colleagues also believe that it is not true.
How can I explain this to a new employer?
Thankyou,
confused.....
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rawiri

Joined: 01 Jun 2003 Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:11 am Post subject: |
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| How many months in are you, if its more than 8 then he's probably shafting you for your severence. Less than six and his reasons may be somewhat valid. |
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eleruen
Joined: 18 Dec 2004 Location: Bundang, South Korea
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:23 am Post subject: |
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i have been contracted since middle december, so it has been 5 1/2 months. The extra two months makes it 71/2 months.
I have experience in another hagwon where I was very successful...boss begged to have me back! but I wanted to move to and experience life in a big city, so i turned his offer down.
I find this all very shocking and confusing, and my colleagues do not understand his reasons. They say none of it is true.
I really do not know what to think. |
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eleruen
Joined: 18 Dec 2004 Location: Bundang, South Korea
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:32 am Post subject: |
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i forgot to mention that the hagwon has a good rep with parents, in general a bad rep with foreign staff. Each branch has a different wonjangnim, and a lot of them have made it to the hagwon blacklist. However, this is a new branch and he is a new wonjangnim....his sister is wonjangnim at another branch.
also i have heard from a male colleague that when he was helping his sister at the other branch, he did not get along very well with some of his female staff, one of which he dismissed under grounds that were equally grey.
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bellum99

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: don't need to know
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:41 am Post subject: |
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| He is right to fire you. He doesn't want you to work for him and he is following the law. Seems fair to me. You get 2 months notice and he is being reasonable. I would not whine about it and just get another job. You could have had my first boss (SATAN) and watch him shaft you in every possible way for no reason. |
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captain kirk
Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:51 am Post subject: |
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Ask your boss, when employers call him for a reference, that you were on a six month contract and that he needed you to stay an extra six weeks. Or some seemingly reasonable 'looks good' excuse why you worked with him 7.5 months. Put it down as 'a six month contract' on your resume.
If you're female, and young, no matter what 'your story' (re; leaving at month 7.5) is you should have no problem getting another job with the letter of release. Young, female foreign teachers all look like Britney Spears to hagwon directors. |
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rawiri

Joined: 01 Jun 2003 Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 5:58 am Post subject: |
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| Way to go bellum. share the love aye! |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 6:26 am Post subject: |
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| bellum99 wrote: |
| He is right to fire you. He doesn't want you to work for him and he is following the law. Seems fair to me. You get 2 months notice and he is being reasonable. I would not whine about it and just get another job. You could have had my first boss (SATAN) and watch him shaft you in every possible way for no reason. |
He is right to fire the OP or he HAS THE right to fire the OP?
I am just curious. If the former, how have you come to that conclusion? |
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bellum99

Joined: 23 Jan 2003 Location: don't need to know
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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Well, it seems to me that it is the bosses school and he can choose to do what he wants. YOU work for him, not the other way around. If he doesn't want you to work for him then it seems fair....doesn't it? If he tells you why and doesn't cheat you then it is right.
Of course the teacher isn't telling everything to us..no boss wants to lose money and time by hiring another teacher and giving the students a new teacher and have to talk to all the mothers again. At least the OP will get a notice, money and a release letter. This all seems fair to me.
The boss is reasonable. There are many jobs and the OP will easily find a new job in two months and the OP will be fine. |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| bellum99...can you clarify? He is right, or it's his right? One way i agree with you, the other, I don't understand.... |
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seoulsista
Joined: 31 Aug 2005
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