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I agree with almost everything you have all said.

I know sometimes I should shut up or make a white lie when talking with my wife instead of blurting out the truth without thinking about it first.

just a bad habit I have.

I will never be violent in any way to my wife or any woman ever;
mostly because that's how I was taught to live, and I believe in karma.

faught is a word, right?

to those with loved ones, you gotta admit that make up sex is great,
isn't it?

[desultude]

[Tiberious aka Sparkles]

[kermo]

Joyfulgirl and Natalia: some cultural context is in order. While I agree that this kind of territorial behaviour/jealousy should be dealt with more reasonably, a male/female hug means something really different in Korea.

To gauge how you might feel, replace hug with brief kiss on the lips. Male/female hugs are just not done over here. When one of my students went to America to study, I counselled him about how to touch men (don't, other than a handshake or a brief, crotchless hug) and told him that we don't consider male/female hugs a big deal. He practically did a little dance on the spot.

[JongnoGuru]

In my kingdom, one is either a born hugger and does it without much thinking, major preparation or a running start -- or one is not. A natural-born hugger does it constantly, indiscriminately, all over the place. It's just part of who they are. They neither need prior permission, nor do they time their hugs. They can pull it off; others looks stupid or lecherous for trying.

This checking-it-with-the-wife-beforehand thing just makes it too odd, too unnatural, and too obvious that the OP isn't really a "hugger" like those found in nature.

"She looks hot. This is gonna be hot. But I'll limit it to 2 seconds. That suit you, honey?"

[Satori]

She looked good and it would feel good for both of us? Are you kidding? I take it you were sleeping through women 101 then?

You can't change people. You can't force them to be comfortable with what they are not comfortable with. You don't do anything to make your wife jealous no matter what. Good luck with your marriage,you need it.

[Mashimaro]

moral of the story: avoid insecure women at all costs.

[Bulsajo]

[Mashimaro]

[Satori]

[rawiri]

[quote="ed"]it began a few days ago. I gave a woman a hug and when my wife saw it she got really angry.

this woman has been a friend of ours for a long time now and has been single for a long time, so months ago when she visited us I asked my wife and her if I could give her a hug and they both said yes so I did.

my wife has been angry for days now and says her friendship with the lady is ruined and occasionally she uses violence with me when her anger really flares.

now I'm wondering if I don't understand her reaction because she is Korean and I am Canadian or because I am man and she is woman.

what do you think?[/quote]







I think you are a troll, a korean one at that. You have to be a little more convincing to get past this lot buddy!

[ChimpumCallao]

i completely agree.


faught

it felt good...


you're a korean troll...and if not you and your crazy wife deserve each other.


TAKASHIMA FOREVER!

[Hollywoodaction]

[Hollywoodaction]

[peemil]

Divorce her.

You don't need women. They are an encumbrance.