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desultude
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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| What's it like when you get old in terms of finding people hot? You didn't find 58 year old guys hot when you were 30, presumably, so do you now? Do the objects of sexual desire get older with you? I can't ever imagine finding a 65 year old woman attractive. I've got a feeling I'll be one of those guys who still likes 22 year old girls when he's 70. That's hardly rare, mind you. |
hey, EVERYONE likes 22 year old girls:) Ive always found 40 something milf types super attractive. i mean, who doesnt? That was the case when I was 17, 22, 26 and now when Im 30. But no, the age cut off isnt going up. Id say mid 40s is pretty much the cutoff for me. 22 year olds? Hell yeah! |
So you wouldn't do Sharon Stone or Susan Sarandon?  |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 11:44 pm Post subject: |
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| desultude wrote: |
| jinju wrote: |
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| What's it like when you get old in terms of finding people hot? You didn't find 58 year old guys hot when you were 30, presumably, so do you now? Do the objects of sexual desire get older with you? I can't ever imagine finding a 65 year old woman attractive. I've got a feeling I'll be one of those guys who still likes 22 year old girls when he's 70. That's hardly rare, mind you. |
hey, EVERYONE likes 22 year old girls:) Ive always found 40 something milf types super attractive. i mean, who doesnt? That was the case when I was 17, 22, 26 and now when Im 30. But no, the age cut off isnt going up. Id say mid 40s is pretty much the cutoff for me. 22 year olds? Hell yeah! |
So you wouldn't do Sharon Stone or Susan Sarandon? |
There are always exceptions though neither Stone (saw her pics without the make up, and she hasnt aged well) nor Sarandon (never found her attractive) are not them. But ofcourse there are exceptions to the cut off, Id go into 50s with women like Pfeiffer (how old is she) or basinger (age?) |
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desultude
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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| Posted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 11:48 pm Post subject: |
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| jinju wrote: |
| desultude wrote: |
| jinju wrote: |
| SPINOZA wrote: |
| What's it like when you get old in terms of finding people hot? You didn't find 58 year old guys hot when you were 30, presumably, so do you now? Do the objects of sexual desire get older with you? I can't ever imagine finding a 65 year old woman attractive. I've got a feeling I'll be one of those guys who still likes 22 year old girls when he's 70. That's hardly rare, mind you. |
hey, EVERYONE likes 22 year old girls:) Ive always found 40 something milf types super attractive. i mean, who doesnt? That was the case when I was 17, 22, 26 and now when Im 30. But no, the age cut off isnt going up. Id say mid 40s is pretty much the cutoff for me. 22 year olds? Hell yeah! |
So you wouldn't do Sharon Stone or Susan Sarandon? |
There are always exceptions though neither Stone (saw her pics without the make up, and she hasnt aged well) nor Sarandon (never found her attractive) are not them. But ofcourse there are exceptions to the cut off, Id go into 50s with women like Pfeiffer (how old is she) or basinger (age?) |
Yes, well, I do have to agree that Pfeiffer and Basinger are hotties. Most older female actresses get too much surgery, and end up looking awful. Hell, so do the younger ones! |
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brighter than white
Joined: 14 Jun 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 1:49 am Post subject: |
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| desultude wrote: |
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| How can you make a mature woman love you when they don't? |
Yeah, right! The nice thing about my life these days is that I cannot even imagine compromising my most interesting trajectory by getting involved with someone in a serious way.
Most mature women don't need a relationship with a younger man who has very different priorities than she does. Do her, learn something, and move on. |
Why do mature women only like gettin shagged once in a while? |
Well, handsome, I am surprised that I even get shagged once in a while! Don't judge everyone by my disappointing experiences.
By the way, if I did manage to get a mercy shag out of some kind older woman, be grateful. I am sure after once she was just too bored. |
Don't be so hard on yourself, Dee. 
Why do older women get angry so quickly and refuse to put out even when they are dying for it and are clearly mistaken?
and, what's up with menopause and all the hype? Have you ever hurt somebody you loved while flashing, Dee, huh?  |
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Plume D'ella Plumeria
Joined: 10 Jan 2005
Location: The Lost Horizon
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 7:32 am Post subject: |
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Interesting plans of yours, Des. I have to admit that some of your posts have annoyed me a bit, but I do applaud you for being upfront about your age and inviting questions about the female ageing process. You have gotten some interesting responses from the male segment, some trollish bits and some legitimate questions. In terms of ageing women's sexual feelings (cue in Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing") and some interest in such matters, yes I would imagine that what you say is true.
Good on you and keep on keeping on. |
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desultude
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:01 am Post subject: |
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| Plume D'ella Plumeria wrote: |
Interesting plans of yours, Des. I have to admit that some of your posts have annoyed me a bit, but I do applaud you for being upfront about your age and inviting questions about the female ageing process. You have gotten some interesting responses from the male segment, some trollish bits and some legitimate questions. In terms of ageing women's sexual feelings (cue in Marvin Gaye's "Sexual Healing") and some interest in such matters, yes I would imagine that what you say is true.
Good on you and keep on keeping on. |
Well, I have to admit that some of my posts annoy me, too. 
Thanks for the kind words. |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
Location: Above it all
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 9:35 am Post subject: |
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Do you think I'm too old to wear a thong? Could I possibly pull this off, or would I be committing a fashion faux pas.
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37? You're a slow learner aren't you! It should be your wife that's pulling it off mate... |
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mole
Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 9:43 am Post subject: |
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I'd tell anyone in their 20's that the 30's only get better and don't fret.
But at 40 (ish) I'm feeling some wear and tear. Excluding a major event, like a heart attack,
when will I have the revelation that I need to exercise and tone down my lifestyle?
Silly, simple, but sincere question. |
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Satori
Joined: 09 Dec 2005
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 9:56 am Post subject: |
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| I had a liason with a 50 year old woman when I was 30. She was pettite, so there wasn't much that could "go south", a keen exerciser and gardener all her life, so surprisingly firm. I have to say, at that time, it was the best shag of my life. She was incredibly uninhibited and sensual, with a monsterous appetite... |
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otis
Joined: 02 Jun 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 10:07 am Post subject: |
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Grandmother
Would you please get in the kitchen and bake me some cookies.
I prefer chocolate chip. |
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mole
Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 10:13 am Post subject: |
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Satori:
I think I can one-up you there. No details. She may still be frequenting this board.  |
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kermo
Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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| I assume that when I'm older, people will look at me in a less sexual way. I find it hard to imagine what it would be like to interact with people without that vibe going on. Qualities like kindness, intelligence, and humour aren't physically apparent, so I wonder what it will be like without having the immediate appeal of being young(ish) and female. Scares me, actually. |
Oh no! It's happening already! People are ignoring me because I'm getting old! |
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jinju
Joined: 22 Jan 2006
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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| I had a liason with a 50 year old woman when I was 30. She was pettite, so there wasn't much that could "go south", a keen exerciser and gardener all her life, so surprisingly firm. I have to say, at that time, it was the best shag of my life. She was incredibly uninhibited and sensual, with a monsterous appetite... |
I would imagine older women would be a great shag. 50 might be pushing it but as I said there are exceptions and Ive seen women around 50 who were still knockouts..or maybe not still, that would imply that they were on the downswing. Perhaps it is that age factor, when it comes with a smoking physical package, that elevates things. But I admit Ive always been intrigued by older women. |
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desultude
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:04 pm Post subject: |
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I'd tell anyone in their 20's that the 30's only get better and don't fret.
But at 40 (ish) I'm feeling some wear and tear. Excluding a major event, like a heart attack,
when will I have the revelation that I need to exercise and tone down my lifestyle?
Silly, simple, but sincere question. |
Don't wait for the "revelation"- it could come in the form of the first heart attack. I have a friend in Seattle who was barely 40 when she had a stroke- a bad one. She was a great partier and smoked like an ajoshi. I think it was probably the smoking (and birth control pills- a bad combination) that did it.
Look at your family history. If you chose your parents well, you can party on, but if there is a history of things like heart disease or diabetes, think hard about some changes.
Here is a quick family story of mine: My father was raised by his mother and sister. It was the depression, so when my grandparents were broke, he was taken in by my aunt. Anyway, my grandmother, fat and a smoker, had a stroke at 92. Not bad, you may say. But she had a bad stroke and couldn't even speak or barely move after that- she died in the nursing home bed at 99. Seven years in a bed unable to even speak.
Her sister, my great aunt, stayed slim and active. She lived in a third floor walkup till she was 98, rarely going to the doctor. She spent her last year in a nursing home, rather pleasantly, and passed quietly at. . . 99.
I used to tell my father that if he didn't change his diet and bad habits, he would die like his mother (maybe unkind, but too true). He's 88 now, he still lives on his own, but he can't do much due to a stroke two years ago. Six years ago he had a quadruple bypass operation. He will probably live to 99 himself. But his life is not fun, to say the least.
My great grandfather was over 100. He got up one morning, mowed the lawn, went inside and turned on the television, sat down and died.
This has turned into more than a simple answer- but, to bring it to a point, how long you live is mostly in your genes, how you die is mostly there also. In my family there are people who live long and well, and those who live long and suffer, and the difference has been completely lifestyle choices. |
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desultude
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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| Posted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:06 pm Post subject: |
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Grandmother
Would you please get in the kitchen and bake me some cookies.
I prefer chocolate chip. |
Ah, I guarantee they would be delicious, but you need a diet and to learn some manners. No cookies for you. |
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