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desultude



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 4:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Howard Roark wrote:
I'm 26 and I can already feel effects of aging. The most notable change is definitely how my body handles alcohol. In university, and even 2 years ago, I could drink (and smoke) ALL NIGHT and wake up the next day feeling like a million dollars!

Nowadays however, as someone else described, a solid night or two of drinking takes days to get over. If I spend a weekend in Seoul, forget about it! I don't feel "normal" again until Wednesday.

And it's not just the hangovers either. I used to be able to drink, as I said, quite a bit and always keep my wits about me and I never "blacked out". But now, I find my drinking memory is getting worse and worse. Which actually, is alarming.

I eat healthy and I go to the gym 5 days a week - I'm probably in better shape than 5 years ago. So that has nothing to do with it. What else could it be but age?

It was really amazing how quickly it happened too. It was like as soon as I hit 25 !BOOM! Can't drink anymore!

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According to an ad I saw recently, up to 50% of men over forty get erectile dysfunction. Cool
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ella



Joined: 17 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 6:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good grief... if you guys feel old in your 20s and 30s, you're in for a rude awakening.
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VirginIslander



Joined: 24 May 2006
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My dad's twin brother is 57 and he runs 12 miles every other day, and runs several marathons a year. He does not drink beer, just wine on the weekends. He only eats fruits, vegetables and white meats. Several of my other uncles are also marathon runners.

My dad, on the other hand, drinks both beer, wine and gin, and eats whatever he likes, whenever he likes. Plus, he smokes cigars He weighs 25 pounds more than is twin brother, and probably can only run 4-5 miles at a time.

Age is a factor--but not as much as your life style.

My uncle is not an exception; you are just fat and lazy.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Wed Jun 21, 2006 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

VirginIslander wrote:
My dad's twin brother is 57 and he runs 12 miles every other day,... does not drink beer...only eats fruits, vegetables and white meats. My dad, on the other hand, drinks both beer, wine and gin, and eats whatever he likes, whenever he likes. Plus, he smokes cigars.

Your dad sounds like he has as good a life as his twin brother.

And they'll still die at about the same time (stats show with twins, regardless of lifestyle differences).

On that note: my dad turns a healthy 75 years old this coming Monday. Cheers to genetics!
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Howard Roark



Joined: 02 Feb 2003
Location: Canada

PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

desultude wrote:
Howard Roark wrote:
I'm 26 and I can already feel effects of aging. The most notable change is definitely how my body handles alcohol. In university, and even 2 years ago, I could drink (and smoke) ALL NIGHT and wake up the next day feeling like a million dollars!

Nowadays however, as someone else described, a solid night or two of drinking takes days to get over. If I spend a weekend in Seoul, forget about it! I don't feel "normal" again until Wednesday.

And it's not just the hangovers either. I used to be able to drink, as I said, quite a bit and always keep my wits about me and I never "blacked out". But now, I find my drinking memory is getting worse and worse. Which actually, is alarming.

I eat healthy and I go to the gym 5 days a week - I'm probably in better shape than 5 years ago. So that has nothing to do with it. What else could it be but age?

It was really amazing how quickly it happened too. It was like as soon as I hit 25 !BOOM! Can't drink anymore!

What's next?


According to an ad I saw recently, up to 50% of men over forty get erectile dysfunction. Cool


Well, it's lucky for me I'm not a man...although I guess I have a 50% chance of ending up with a dysfunctional dude, which sucks almost as much Confused
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jun 22, 2006 4:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am turning 30 this year, too.

I think that if I hadn't had a daughter (I would never NOT have her, though), I would have a lot more energy than I do now.. but as it is now, I have a lot of energy for my daughter but I feel tired at the same time (and boy, some days I look it).

All in all though, I feel great, don't feel one bit that I am turing 30 at the end of the year at all - I also don't look like I am about to turn 30 either, which is bonus.
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The Bobster



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 11:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have been 28 and I have been 48, and I know which one I like better. Those who have only been 28, of course, have no basis for comparison ...

Sounds like a cliche and you won't believe it until it happens, but getting older usually means getting better. Don't be so afraid, and look forward to it. It really IS a good place to be. You'll find out.
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mole



Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III

PostPosted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 12:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bobster:
Have you re-claimed your position as the board's LIFER?
If so, good.
I can tell these kids it's all great. 20's, 30's, all progressively better every hour of the way.
They won't believe it, as I never did. But they will get it eventually. Wink

No one talks about the 40's. Semi-annual colonoscopies? What do I have to look forward to?
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The Bobster



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 12:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mole wrote:
No one talks about the 40's. Semi-annual colonoscopies? What do I have to look forward to?

Well, one thing you have to look forward to is talking to friends in their 20s and even 30s and smiling inwardly to yourself and thinking, yeah, I remember I also had dumb ideas about a lot of things when I was that age - the other thing you can look forward (I suppose) is the sure knowledge that in your 60s you will feel the same way about the opinions you hold so dearly at this time on your life ...
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WorldWide



Joined: 28 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 12:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My biggest fear about getting older is that I won't be able to find a good looking woman when I'm 35+. As it is now, I'm not attracted to real life women over 30. When I'm old, and if I don't get rich, I doubt I'll be able to meet the kind of women I like. I'd rather die than settle for some chunky over the hill type. It is depressing when I go out and see all these working class guys stuck with plain women. I don't want to end up that way!
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Sun Jul 02, 2006 1:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

WorldWide, you sound like a superficial, shallow American! blech!!

As for Bobster, I can understand what you're saying. I'm 25. Aside from the necessary teenage years where your brain experiences significant growth and you think you therefore have all the answers, I've always considered older people to be considerably more wise. Sure, this must be tempered with the fact that they grew up in a different era and possibly esteem different values, but certain things in life remain true. There have been so many time in my life where I've talked my crazy young person talk to my sagacious grandmother, and she'd just smile and nod, with a gleam in her eye.

I don't fear getting old. I don't fear death. We have one life, and each moment is something to savor. Okay, that's hyperbole. I don't savor the times that I'm scrubbing my ass in the shower. But you know what I mean, I'm sure.

Now, that doesn't mean you can say anything you want to me. For example, if you tell me I'm naive and simplistic, I'll punch you in the gut and run away. That'll show you.
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mole



Joined: 06 Feb 2003
Location: Act III

PostPosted: Mon Jul 03, 2006 9:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
. I'm 25... if you tell me I'm naive and simplistic...

25? Are you sharting us? Anyway, I doubt anyone's accused you of either.
Keep on Truckin'
(from the tie-dye T-shirt I wore in middle school)
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