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Adult classes - Never talk about religion!!!!
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Aussiekimchi



Joined: 21 Apr 2006
Location: SYDNEY

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:23 pm    Post subject: Adult classes - Never talk about religion!!!! Reply with quote

So I teach an adult class for a bit of fun each day.
This week all of my students were asked to watch the Da Vinci Code and we would then have a few class discussions on it. They all watched it at home. I had previously burned the movie on to enough CD's for everyone.
The classes Wednesday and Thursday involved each student putting in their two cents about some of the historical "truths" depicted in the movie.
I simply sat back and corrected grammar and asked open ended questions. I thought it was fantastic. Each and every student, though with limited English skills (advanced class but still....) engaged in the two days of discussion. It at times became heated and some students learned that in debating and discussing, someone, no matter if they are man or woman, younger or older, may have a different opinion than you. For a brief moment, my students forgot they were Korean and debated each other regardless of age and gender. I was mistaken.

Today I got to class finding that 4 students (3 adjumas and 1 older bloke) had left and asked the director for a refund.
Obviously I got the "please explain?"
I won't bring up religion in a discussion class again.
What are some other tabu subjects in Korean discussion classes?
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jacl



Joined: 31 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The adult classes are weird that way. Some little thing sets them off and they don't come back.

Probably doens't apply too much here, but I hate the rejection factor involved with private education.
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riley



Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: where creditors can find me

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you sure it's religion? It could be that the adults who quit (sounds like they were older) might have been offended by something like the debating style. They might have felt that you should have made it more formal, more of a lecture style, it might have been that they felt that they didn't get to talk enough. (sometimes that's most frustrating, the person is always quiet, won't talk when given a chance, and then complains that the teacher didn't let them talk) They might not have liked having to watch the movie at home. Basically, who knows? There are many reasons why. I got sick and tired of all of the stupid crap I had to deal with when I taught adults sometimes. (The age issue; "I am oldest, I should talk the most" embarrassment factor, etc.)
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

riley wrote:
Are you sure it's religion? It could be that the adults who quit (sounds like they were older) might have been offended by something like the debating style. They might have felt that you should have made it more formal, more of a lecture style, it might have been that they felt that they didn't get to talk enough. (sometimes that's most frustrating, the person is always quiet, won't talk when given a chance, and then complains that the teacher didn't let them talk)


Yeah I was thinking the same thing when I read the OP.

Aussiekimchi, you're saying that the director didn't talk to the people to find out why they had quit? That's who s/he should be asking, not you.
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schwa



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Yap

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:49 pm    Post subject: Re: Adult classes - Never talk about religion!!!! Reply with quote

Aussiekimchi wrote:
I simply sat back and corrected grammar and asked open ended questions.

Another possibility. Older learners are accustomed to teacher-centered classes & might have the attitude that they're not going to pay money just to talk to other Koreans.
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oldfatfarang



Joined: 19 May 2005
Location: On the road to somewhere.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I once had a businessmen walk out and cancel because we were discussing 'mixed flatting' from a picture in the conversation book. "It's not OUR custom".
Talk about conservative.
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dreaming_saturn



Joined: 26 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's hard. Although I don't teach in Korean adults yet (I'm coming over soon) I appreciate the advice! I've also have students complain a bit when given just free talking (typically older ones) because they don't see the value in it and feel they're not learning anything.

What I've found helps in this situation is clearly stating WHY we're having a a discussion, or playing a board game. One of my old favorites the ask and tell game (a board game with question prompts) becomes a complete grammar review with every tense in English, focusing on the question form.This helps students to accept it.

A final feedback session such writing a few key phrases under ""What this discussion has taught us today" or noting down 5 mistakes and five very good examples of English from the discussion at the end of the class that students need to correct also makes the students see some more value in a debate type lesson, in my experience.

Any more advice about teaching adults would be helpful because I have no idea what to expect Smile
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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: Hoke-y-gun

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rainbowtrout wrote:
I once had a businessmen walk out and cancel because we were discussing 'mixed flatting' from a picture in the conversation book. "It's not OUR custom".
Talk about conservative.

Um...that is not MY custom...or probably my lanuage. Can you explain what that means in American?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OiGirl wrote:
rainbowtrout wrote:
I once had a businessmen walk out and cancel because we were discussing 'mixed flatting' from a picture in the conversation book. "It's not OUR custom".
Talk about conservative.

Um...that is not MY custom...or probably my lanuage. Can you explain what that means in American?


Yeah what is mixed flatting??? Haha!
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jacl



Joined: 31 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Art, maybe?
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Aussiekimchi



Joined: 21 Apr 2006
Location: SYDNEY

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

no I kept it relatively formal. I stressed the rules before the class, one at a time, each student must talk etc etc.
There were no passives in the class...everyone was contributing. I kept feeding the discussions with open ended questions and corrected grammar but I was not leading in the tradtional sense.
I did ask the director why they quit and I got the classic line of "don't worry they are babo" with a giggle...you would never get the truth in this situation.
It could have been a number of things...but I could feel some of the more religous students getting really irritated when their faith was questioned. I did try to steer the discussion away from outright attacks on Christianity but it did get quite heated.
Funny thing was though, this was the first time the whole class was engage as a whole and contributing in English with quick fire responses. It seemed they were even thinking in English.
I am still happy and stand by my lesson. I would do it again, but just not with religion.
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xtchr



Joined: 23 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Flatting = living in a flat, i.e a rental house or apartment.
Mixed = with members of the opposite sex

Mixed flatting = (unmarried) males and females (= flatmates) sharing living quarters. i.e separate bedrooms (usually Wink ) but shared living room/kitchen/bathroom etc.


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OiGirl



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 12:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aha. I was suspecting that, but wasn't sure if it might mean mixed-income housing or other such things. Thanks!
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dreaming_saturn



Joined: 26 May 2004

PostPosted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 1:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aussiekimchi wrote:
no I kept it relatively formal. I stressed the rules before the class, one at a time, each student must talk etc etc.
There were no passives in the class...everyone was contributing. I kept feeding the discussions with open ended questions and corrected grammar but I was not leading in the tradtional sense.
I would do it again, but just not with religion.


Sounds like you were doing alright with it, so it must be the topic.
Well, it's one of the big taboos after all, even in our own culture, you might have the same experience with people offended in any western country if the topic came up in a debate in class.
It's a pity though, as they were effectively communicating. Maybe it's best to just show a scene of a film that's thought provoking and ask what the students think the main character should do, make it less personal - seperate the discussion from personal beliefs?
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igotthisguitar



Joined: 08 Apr 2003
Location: South Korea (Permanent Vacation)

PostPosted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 1:08 am    Post subject: Re: Adult classes - Never talk about religion!!!! Reply with quote

Aussiekimchi wrote:
For a brief moment, my students forgot they were Korean and debated each other regardless of age and gender. I was mistaken.

Today I got to class finding that 4 students (3 adjumas and 1 older bloke) had left and asked the director for a refund.

Obviously I got the "please explain?"

I won't bring up religion in a discussion class again.

What are some other tabu subjects in Korean discussion classes?


I'll talk about whatever i want, consequences be damned.

It's part of my religion.

Yes, when it comes to "seeking the truth", a lot of them are flakes w/ their heads in the sand ( choose whatever metaphor you like ).

While i hope you aren't scapegoated, fact is you likely will be.
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