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Dan The Chainsawman

Joined: 05 May 2005
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:48 pm Post subject: Re: Dating |
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Mole
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| I coughed up my Cass breakfast. |
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Cass Breakfast... |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 6:58 pm Post subject: Re: Dating |
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| Natalia wrote: |
| Cohiba wrote: |
To be frank, if a woman is overweight, then I am absolutely
not interested. I work very hard on staying in shape. I have
no attraction to people who "let themselves go". Sorry, but
that is a fact.
Not that every western women I have met is a wildebeest, but
there is also the weird defence mechanism that kicks in when
a western women comes to Korea and has all her illusions
shattered about being good looking. Korean women are HOT
and I think western women have to adapt to the new environment.
I think Korean women know how to attract men. They know how
to dress and how to act in order to produce the desired effects
from male suitors. They, Korean women, have not forgotten the
famous French saying: "Viva la difference". |
What a load of tripe. I take it you're fantastic catch (with such a classy avatar).
I don't think it's a 'weird defense mechanism' as much as the fact we come onto boards like this and the male posters take each and every opportunity to post how repulsive we are. The creeps who come to Korea to sleep with as many women as they can get their hands on aren't the type I would go for.
I couldn't care less what the male ESL teachers here do or don't think about me. It just pisses me off that you group women from so many parts of the world (America, Canada, Australia, the UK and so in) into one category. There's a hell of a lot more diversity in 'the West' than there is in Korea, and it's hardly fair. |
I've seen a western woman hit on Cohiba and him turn around and introduce her to another western guy in the bar, sit back at his table, and say 'better him than me'. Now THAT'S yellow fevor. |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:18 pm Post subject: |
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As all the American guys were twisting their necks to check out my K-girl in the US recently, I was twisting my neck checking out American girls...
Though this is a gross stereotype, (in my opinion) the bubble butt lean muscle legs of American (i.e. predominantly white or black) women (in the 7-10 range) and their natural handful cups (I only accept what was endowed from birth) are just as fine as the waifish, soft skinned, silky haired traits commonly associated with Asian women.
Look closely out there when you are out and about, and you will see many pudgy, pimple faced, turnip legged, nappy haired, unstylish Korean females, just as you will encounter masculine, hairy armed (and whatever else), greasy, overweight with oversized buttocked western women in your respective home countries.
If not, you either have seriously strong yellow blinders over your naive eyes, or your hometown is horrendously disproportioned in regard to the number of females, OR somewhere down the line in your socialization you were emotionally beat down by a western woman.
Western women are your sisters, (if you are western of course), and it seems foolish to blatantly put them down, considering that your offspring is most likely going to be western, or half western. In a way, you are insulting your mother, your female ancestry, your female relatives, your female friends back home, your daughter, and any other western female you associate with by saying that western women just don't match up.
Now, perhaps the ratio of attractive vs. unattractive western women in Korea is a bit skewed, but don't forget the western women back home that may be waiting for you.
Also, one man's trash is another man's treasure, and any and every woman will get her piece; be it by you, another man, or another woman.
For every ugly woman you look down on, there are at least three hotties that are going to openly reject you... |
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bignate

Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Location: Hell's Ditch
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:20 pm Post subject: Re: Dating |
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| Yu_Bum_suk wrote: |
I've seen a western woman hit on Cohiba and him turn around and introduce her to another western guy in the bar, sit back at his table, and say 'better him than me'. Now THAT'S yellow fevor. |
It is kind of sad if you ask me....  |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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Korean girlfriends on the other hand tend to go on an ego trip once they realise they naturally hold more power in the relationship than you do. Its lobsided heavily in their favor.This is what gets me here. They're perfectly comfortable in their own country. You, however as the clueless weygook struggle to do basic things because of the language/culture barrier. They have a massive advantage and boy do they exploit it.
They keep you in the dark, they slowly make you dependent on them, etc.
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...and that, my peer, is why they call you JUNIOR |
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bignate

Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Location: Hell's Ditch
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:26 pm Post subject: |
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| Junior wrote: |
Korean girlfriends on the other hand tend to go on an ego trip once they realise they naturally hold more power in the relationship than you do. Its lobsided heavily in their favor.This is what gets me here. They're perfectly comfortable in their own country. You, however as the clueless weygook struggle to do basic things because of the language/culture barrier. They have a massive advantage and boy do they exploit it.
They keep you in the dark, they slowly make you dependent on them, etc. |
Wait until you take them out of the country..........Christ they are lost......now you become the mother......and it is all your fault...  |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Going back to Canada for a month this summer will be really interesting. I've become so politically incorrect over the past two years. I'm actually quite pro-feminist when it comes to Korea itself, but PC white women are something I just cannot abide. It's probably a good thing after all that some of the most anti-feminist people I know are my female relatives. |
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seoulkitchen

Joined: 28 Dec 2004 Location: Hub of Asia, my ass!
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:45 pm Post subject: What about western women dating western women..... |
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| jinju wrote: |
| Qinella wrote: |
Seeing a few wild jungles on Korean women sorta turned me off, to be honest. You get my drift?
I disagree with the theory that people are people. |
Are some people not people? If so, what are they? bats? |
I am one of Those Who Are Not People.
Although we walk the earth and our feet never touch the ground, we are not bats. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:58 pm Post subject: |
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this girl i'm with now.. man.. I'm sending her retarded poetry in Korean on the cell phone.. how much more bent can I get? |
Wow sending poetry already? Hope you don't weird her out dude |
Fear not, for I am no noob.
There's no standard set of guidelines that can apply to this woman. All the rules are out the window. It's the most comfortable, natural relationship I've ever been in.
My latest (and thus far, only) cell phone poem was this: 너에관한생각할때하늘이열고천사들이아름다운노래불지. Maybe you can see the humor, too.  |
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Axl Rose

Joined: 16 Feb 2006
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:11 pm Post subject: |
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the first GF i had in korea was a white Canadian. She had the most wrteched, whiny voice and an ass the size of Jupiter! But, she was a nice girl and a good friend and also not bad looking at all face-wise. I liked her. the problem was, she thought, assumed perhaps, that I was more romantically interested than I was. She became burdensome, what with long and melodramatic emails and also sleeping at my house too much (without even asking first) and taking me for granted.
But, she remained a friend, someone I had a lot in common with.
Then one night, I was swilling beers and talking about Korean girls with 3 male friends in a hoff. one of her friends overheard and told her all the things I'd said (nothing major, just that there are loads of hot chicks in Seoul, more than I'd ever seen in one place).
Because of her reaction to that, we fell out very acrimoniously (I let her have it big time!) and to this day she will not enter a room I am in. She's an absolute twit. Me...I've moved on, had numerous flings since and now have a more serious relationship with a Korean girl. She's still trolling the dating sites, getting blown off by guys and getting nowhere basically. I must confess, it delights me to see her (and her ilk) suffer. |
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tiger fancini

Joined: 21 Mar 2006 Location: Testicles for Eyes
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:33 pm Post subject: |
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Girls I love you.. I love all y'all
Hehehe, hehehe, f'real
[Biz] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls, I do adore
[Jay] Yo put your number on this paper cause I would love to date ya
Holla at ya when I come off tour, yeah
[Jay-Z]
I got this Spanish chica, she don't like me to roam
So she call me cabron plus marricon
Said she likes to cook rice so she likes me home
I'm like, "Un momento" - mami, slow up your tempo
I got this black chick, she don't know how to act
Always talkin out her neck, makin her fingers snap
She like, "Listen Jigga Man, I don't care if you rap
You better - R-E-S-P-E-C-T me"
I got this French chick that love to french kiss
She thinks she's Bo Derek, wear her hair in a twist
My, cherie amor, t?est belle
Merci, you fine as *beep* but you givin me hell
I got this indian squaw the day that I met her
Asked her what tribe she with, red dot or feather
She said all you need to know is I'm not a ho
And to get with me you better be Chief Lots-a-Dough
Now that's Spanish chick, French chick, indian and black
That's fried chicken, curry chicken, damn I'm gettin fat
Arroz con pollo, french fries and crepe
An appetitite for destruction but I scrape the plate
I love
[Tip] Girls, girls, girls, girls (uh-huh)
Girls, I do adore
[Jay] Yo put your number on this paper cause I would love to date ya
Holla at ya when I come off tour
[Tip] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls all over the globe
[Jay] I come scoop you in that Coupe, sittin on deuce-zeroes
Fix your hair in the mirror, let's roll - c'mon
[Jay-Z]
I got this young chick, she so immature
She like, "Why you don't buy me Reeboks no more?"
Like to show out in public, throw tantrums on the floor
Gotta toss a couple dollars, just to shut up her holla
Got a project chick, that plays her part
And if it goes down y'all that's my heart
Baby girl so thorough she been with me from the start
Hid my drugs from the NARCs, hid my guns by the parts
I got this model chick that don't cook or clean
But she dress her ass off and her walk is mean
Only thing wrong with ma she's always on the scene
God damn she's fine but she parties all the time
I get frequent flier mileage from my stewardess chick
She look right in that tight blue dress, she's thick
She gives me extra pillows and seat back love
So I had to introduce her to the Mile High Club
Now that's young chick, stewardess, project and model
That means I fly rough early, plus I know Tahoe
That means I'm new school, pop pills and stay in beef
But I never have a problem with my first class seat
I love
[Rick] Girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls, I do adore
[Jay] Yo put your number on this paper cause I would love to date ya
Holla at ya when I come off tour
[Rick] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls all over the globe
[Jay] I come scoop you in that Coupe, sittin on deuce-zeroes
Fix your hair in the mirror, let's roll
[Jay-Z]
I got this paranoid chick, she's scared to come to the house
A hypochondriac who says ouch before I whip it out
Got a chick from Peru, that sniff Peru
She got a cousin at customs that get shit through
Got this weedhead chick, she always catch me doin shit
Crazy girl wanna leave me but she always forgets
Got this Chinese chick, had to leave her quick'
Cause she kept bootleggin my shit - man
I got this African chick with Eddie Murphy on her skull
She like, "Jigga Man, why you treat me like animal?"
I'm like excuse me Ms. Fufu, but when I met your ass
you was dead broke and naked, and now you want half
I got this ho that after twelve million sold
Mami's a narcolyptic, always sleepin on Hov'
Gotta tie the back of her head like Deuce Bigalow
I got so many girls across the globe..
[Biz] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls, I do adore
[Jay] Yo put your number on this paper cause I would love to date ya
Holla at ya when I come off tour
[Tip] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls all over the globe
[Jay] I come scoop you in that Coupe, sittin on deuce-zeroes
Fix your hair in the mirror, let's roll
[Rick] I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls, I do adore
[Jay] Yo put your number on this paper cause I would love to date ya
Holla at ya when I come off tour
[Jay]
I love girls, girls, girls, girls
Girls, girls.. |
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itaewonguy

Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:42 pm Post subject: |
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there are plenty of HOT western girls out there!
unfortunately 99% of them are not in Korea hahahaha |
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Hyeon Een

Joined: 24 Jun 2005
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Mashimaro wrote: |
| Qinella wrote: |
this girl i'm with now.. man.. I'm sending her retarded poetry in Korean on the cell phone.. how much more bent can I get? |
Wow sending poetry already? Hope you don't weird her out dude |
Is it possible to weird out a Korean girl by being overly keen? Its pretty acceptable to ask people to marry you on a first date here. It'd be a strange Korean girl who said "You send me too many text messages" haha |
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flakfizer

Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Location: scaling the Cliffs of Insanity with a frayed rope.
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 10:42 pm Post subject: |
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| I think the western women here are just as attractive as the Koreans, perhaps more so. The problem is that it can seem different due purely to numbers. You get on the subway, you see 50 women-all Korean. Chances are, there are at least a couple attractive ones. You see a western woman (and you notice each one you see because they stand out a bit here in homogeneity land) and you think, "hmm, not very attractive." But after you've run into 50 western women (which may take you weeks or months), you will surely see some attractive ones. Seeing an attractive wester woman is rarer than seeing an attractive Korean woman simply because seeing any western woman is fairly rare. In terms of percentages, I think the western women here more than hold their own. |
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periwinkle
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 11:44 pm Post subject: |
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| itaewonguy wrote: |
there are plenty of HOT western girls out there!
unfortunately 99% of them are not in Korea hahahaha |
I thought there were lots of models (mostly eastern European women) in Itaewon, Itaewonguy.
As for Cohiba, how often do you see a rack like that (in your avatar) on a Korean girl? Erm... Actually, how often do you see a rack like that on any girl? Damn, her back must hurt....
I have a weird story: I was hired by the director at my first hagwon as a "present" for the Canadian supervisor. The guy had a hard time getting a girlfriend, apparently, and the director wanted to "reward" him (I've wrote about this director before- he was always "rewarding" the male employees). We did get to be really good friends, though. Unfortunately, he had one of the biggest beer bellies you've ever seen, and I just couldn't get into him (he had lots of unprotected sex with this prossie out by Incheon harbor, too, and I was afraid at what he had- most likely- caught). I forgot what my story was in reference to....
*Edit* Oh yeah- 'cuz Magicwolfman said:
I am still shocked at the title.. Do western guys really still date western girls??
(still my favorite troll... ) |
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