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Qinella · Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib

Hey y'all I know this has been beat to death, but I have something I need some help with. There's this Korean girl I've been seeing for awhile, and she's Korean. So, we do normal things like norabong, or board game bong, stuff like that, and then end up at my apartment. But, from there, I"m really not sure where to take it. I mean... I know about Korean customs and all, and I really just don't want to make a wrong move and mess it up.

Tonight was the worst so far. We're in my deluxe 6-pyong, and we'd been sitting together all night drinking wine and dancing to some music I had playing (mostly slow dancing), when she suddenly takes off her shirt. I'm not talking just the shirt, but her bra, too.

At this point, I was like, woah... what the hell am I supposed to do now?

She reached for my pants as we were dancing together, and tried to undo my belt, but I backed off and went to the bathroom to splash some cold water on my face. When I came out of the bathroom, though, she'd already gotten dressed and had her purse in her hand. Said something about plans the next morning that she'd forgotten about.

So ... I'm sitting here now, still wondering what I did wrong. I mean, if it were a western girl, I would've known exactly what to do. But with K-girls, I just want to make sure I'm doing the right thing.

I already sent her 15 text messages, too, and got no response at all. Wth man. What's with Korean girls and mixed signals??

tanklor1 · Joined: 13 Jun 2006

Hmmm, yeah, I would have went with it. But that's just me.

Kyrei · Joined: 22 Jan 2003

tanklor1 · Joined: 13 Jun 2006

Did you excuse yourself first before going to the bathroom? I don't know much about women in general but she may have been hurt? I could be completely wrong though. After all I'm a guy and the amount of knowlegde that has been gathered on women over the centuries hasn't been much. But have no fear where ever there's a problem we got a man on it. Smile

Satori · Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Location: Above it all

I sincerely hope you are joking...

aphase · Joined: 27 Apr 2006

wow that post really made me laugh. If a western girl did that you would know what to do, but the fact she's korean made you confused why she would take her shirt off and reach for your pants?? Well, obviously she wanted to get a little more freaky, but you embarrased her when you ran off to the bathroom instead of making a move.
She probably thinks you didn't like what she did, and yeah, if she didn't answer your texts so far shes probably not going to answer because she's embarrased.
My advice is just move on to a new girl, and take it as a lesson learned.
Although you might think korean girls are conservative or whatever, a lot of them are pretty liberal.

kermo · Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 10:32 am Post subject:

cruisemonkey · Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 11:05 am Post subject:

You're either an idiot or an intelligent eunuch. Rolling Eyes

bnrockin · Joined: 27 Feb 2006

ok...if this is NOT a joke...then 15 text messages is kind of pathetic to put it bluntly (see the thread about persistance when asking out girls).

Delirium's Brother · Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 11:30 am Post subject:

mole · Joined: 06 Feb 2003 Location: Act III

No answer, but a related story.
I once took home a K-lady, and we were undressing. As soon as she saw my knob, she very
quickly dressed and left. My ego wants to believe she got scared at the size.
I asked later of mutual acquaintences, and they just laughed saying it was all a joke.
There may be a "tease factor" going on.

kermo · Posted: Tue Jul 25, 2006 12:09 pm Post subject:

mole · Joined: 06 Feb 2003 Location: Act III

own_king · Joined: 17 Apr 2004 Location: here

Newbie · Joined: 07 Feb 2003

WOw, I can't believe how many morons are taking you seriously!

Lighten up people, this is obviously a spoof of the "beaten-to-death-I-don't-understand-Korean-women" when they are quite obviously just like every other women in the world.