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First date with a Korean girl this evening!
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r.



Joined: 06 May 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:27 pm    Post subject: First date with a Korean girl this evening! Reply with quote

Any tips/etiquette advice, etc. will be much appreciate. Thanks!
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captain planet



Joined: 18 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i would suggest scripting out your conversations beforehand. women hate spontenaeity and creativity.
of course, there's always buying her stuff.
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r.



Joined: 06 May 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

captain planet wrote:
i would suggest scripting out your conversations beforehand. women hate spontenaeity and creativity.
of course, there's always buying her stuff.


haha
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:32 pm    Post subject: Re: First date with a Korean girl this evening! Reply with quote

r. wrote:
Any tips/etiquette advice, etc. will be much appreciate. Thanks!



Much the same as with a Western girl. Don't commit any social crimes (like blowing your nose at the dinner table or talking too much about yourself, Laughing ) compliment her on her dress....yada yada.


You should be fine.
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The Hammer



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Ullungdo 37.5 N, 130.9 E, altitude : 223 m

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hope you enjoy mental pain. hahaha

Just kidding!

Have a great time!
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If it goes well,
Send her a text say you had a good time, got home ok, and wishing her sweet dreams about an hour after you say goodbye. K-guys that I've been with often do that, so she might be expecting it. But even if she isn't, she'll dig that.
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r.



Joined: 06 May 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
If it goes well,
Send her a text say you had a good time, got home ok, and wishing her sweet dreams about an hour after you say goodbye. K-guys that I've been with often do that, so she might be expecting it. But even if she isn't, she'll dig that.


good tip.
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eamo



Joined: 08 Mar 2003
Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

r. wrote:
crazylemongirl wrote:
If it goes well,
Send her a text say you had a good time, got home ok, and wishing her sweet dreams about an hour after you say goodbye. K-guys that I've been with often do that, so she might be expecting it. But even if she isn't, she'll dig that.


good tip.


Essential. Koreans always send a text or call to make sure someone got home okay. It's a real social must-do here.

The rest would be just that same as a western girl. Don't overdo the 'she's a Korean so I'll treat her differently' thing. Remember, she's dating a western guy. So she must be interested in western ways. Just do what you would on a date back home.
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cubanlord



Joined: 08 Jul 2005
Location: In Japan!

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 6:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have fun and good luck. We wish you the best. Just remember, be yourself and nothing more.

Anna & Ralph
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Axl Rose



Joined: 16 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Amazing!

We've had several threads recently about "girls" and not one single politically correct North American tw*t has asked why we refer to chicks as "girls"!

An improvement.
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Milwaukiedave



Joined: 02 Oct 2004
Location: Goseong

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't expect things to go very quickly. If you do you'll probably scare her off.

Just be polite and don't push too much.
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Riposte



Joined: 07 Feb 2006

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Make sure not to use a rubber, they think that's insulting.

Cool, eh?
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JZer



Joined: 13 Jan 2005
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
Make sure not to use a rubber, they think that's insulting.

Cool, eh?


Yeah, that is cool if you want to hear little feet in 10 months.
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JZer



Joined: 13 Jan 2005
Location: South Korea

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just remember that every Korean girl is different just like back home. Some will want to jump in the sack with you on the first date and some will want to wait. Remember that despite popular belief that Korean girls like sex too!
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T-dot



Joined: 16 May 2004
Location: bundang

PostPosted: Sat Jul 29, 2006 8:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

expect her to bring a few friends and maybe an oppa or 2.
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