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sentient_squirrel



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 9:00 am    Post subject: Meeting people of the opposite sex Reply with quote

Where do you meet people of the opposite sex for good times?

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Alyssa



Joined: 15 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 9:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi! Wow, I read your post and felt so sorry for you. It reminded me of the way I felt when I saw the 40 year old virgin movie. I have an idea...................................................why don't you start collecting star wars action figures! That way you can keep your mind occupied with wild things without having to actually do them. Wink (very pathetic post)
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sentient_squirrel



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 9:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmmm... " one easily offended feminist." Rolling Eyes
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brento1138



Joined: 17 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 9:39 am    Post subject: Re: Meeting people of the opposite sex Reply with quote

You mentioned you only have Korean friends. While this is a great start, you should make foreigner friends. The cool Korean girls I knew would hang out with foreigner groups... these are the types of girls you want to meet.

Seriously, Korea's the easiest place in the world to meet girls. I'm not even going to wish you luck, as you'll have it automatically.
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djsmnc



Joined: 20 Jan 2003
Location: Dave's ESL Cafe

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 10:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This has the potential of turning into a long thread.

I agree with Alyssa about the OP being quite lame, and I don't think she sounded like a feminist at all. You sound like a real geek who has a deeper issue than what can be seen on the surface (that you are interested in meeting an easy girl) because you actually have to go online and ask how to meet them.

Look for seedy clubs. Wear stylish clothes. Don't act desperate. Find the sluttiest and drunkest looking girls and introduce yourself. Maybe you'll get lucky. Maybe you'll drag your feet and think more about what you're doing wrong as you sheepishly walk home.

After a few more months, come back here and let me give you an assessment. From there on we can decide if you need to just stick with hookers and porn, or try your luck in another country!

Good luck!Wink
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safeblad



Joined: 17 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 11:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

djsmnc wrote:


Look for seedy clubs. Wear stylish clothes. Don't act desperate. Find the sluttiest and drunkest looking girls and introduce yourself.



HAH! thats so harsh Very Happy
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 11:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

safeblad wrote:
djsmnc wrote:


Look for seedy clubs. Wear stylish clothes. Don't act desperate. Find the sluttiest and drunkest looking girls and introduce yourself.



HAH! thats so harsh Very Happy



Isn't that exactly what the OP was looking for? Free, easy sex?

sentient_squirrel wrote:
I'm really keen to meet some Korean girls who are interested in meeting white boys and hanging out. Goddamit, you know what I'm saying! The type you don't have to wait for 5 or 6 dates and two months before you can consumate the non-relationship.


He sounds like a decent chap. Someone help him out already.

Rolling Eyes
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polarbearbrad



Joined: 06 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 1:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Advice for meeting ANYONE.

Learn the language.

Do things outside the school (caligraphy, taekwondo, volunteer opportunities).

Meet all kinds of people be they Korean or other.

When you do that maybe you will find something better.

Just a thought.

Oh and one more thing, like this post, take the advice you get here with a grain of salt it is not 100 per cent reliable and as you have seen not always nice.

Good luck in finding happiness, however you define it.
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jmbran11



Joined: 19 Jan 2006
Location: U.S.

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 2:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sentient_squirrel wrote:
Hmmm... " one easily offended feminist." Rolling Eyes

Wink No, just another reader tired of seeing endless posts from white boys asking how to score with a Korean chic without actually having to get to know her.
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inkoreaforgood



Joined: 15 Dec 2003
Location: Inchon

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 3:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jmbran11 wrote:
sentient_squirrel wrote:
Hmmm... " one easily offended feminist." Rolling Eyes

Wink No, just another reader tired of seeing endless posts from white boys asking how to score with a Korean chic without actually having to get to know her.


The funny thing is the answer is soooo easy!

Just marry her.... Twisted Evil
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laogaiguk



Joined: 06 Dec 2005
Location: somewhere in Korea

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 3:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jmbran11 wrote:
sentient_squirrel wrote:
Hmmm... " one easily offended feminist." Rolling Eyes

Wink No, just another reader tired of seeing endless posts from white boys asking how to score with a Korean chic without actually having to get to know her.


What's wrong with that? If both are just up for it, it doesn't matter. Just because you think people should get to know each other before means nothing. If that is all he is looking for, finds a like-minded girl and is honest about that, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

Personally, I am tired of seeing women trying to impose their views of sex upon men. Wink Why should we always have to play by your rules? It has been proven that men think about sex every 52 seconds, while once a day for women. The area for sexual reproduction is double the size in men.

Now if the guy is playing with girls who expect more, blast him all you want. But if both are fine with just sex (or one night stand), there is no problem.
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 3:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alright, here's the skinny. You go to Itaewon station and find the Burger King. You walk towards the Starbucks. When you get to the next light, turn right and walk just a little ways up the hill. You'll see a Russian club and some place called "XO" on your left and an open-air bar on the right. You want to turn left at the intersection and keep walking up the hill. Now, you'll find that lots of chicks are trying to get you to come over and have a drink with them, but just keep on walking. You'll pass Old Town Seoul and Polly's Kettle. These are total dives that you 100% never want to go to. Keep walking until you come to the fork in the road. Turn right here and look for a place on the right called "Flower Bar."

Fantastic place to meet the ladies if I do say so myself. Tell the woman behind the bar that Rolf sent ya and she'll set you up! Wink

Please don't actually do this.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 4:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah hrm. I guess if you're looking for a one nighter, follow the other posters advice about a pub in Hongdae or Itaewon and find a really drunk girl. Isn't that the way to do it back home too? If you missed out on that trick back at home, why do you think you'll suddenly be a major pick up artist here? Do you think Korean women are any easier than women back in your home nation?
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Doogie



Joined: 19 Jan 2006
Location: Hwaseong City

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I guess it depends what you're looking for. The only thing about your criteria is that you might actually pass up the chance of meeting someone really great. It's not necessarily a bad thing if the girl wants to wait a while before jumping into bed. Putting in a few months isn't going to kill you.
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Sun Aug 06, 2006 7:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

laogaiguk wrote:

Personally, I am tired of seeing women trying to impose their views of sex upon men. Wink Why should we always have to play by your rules? It has been proven that men think about sex every 52 seconds, while once a day for women. The area for sexual reproduction is double the size in men.


Once a day? A DAY?
Now I feel like a freak.

What's an "area for sexual reproduction?" I thought I knew, but now I'm going to have to get out my measuring tape.

And to answer your question about playing by our rules... you've certainly got options, but if you're planning on having sex with a) another person, b) who is female, c) not demanding money in exchange and d) is supposed to be willing... it follows that you're going to have to cooperate a little.
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