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OneWayTraffic
Joined: 14 Mar 2005
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 4:50 am Post subject: Nannies and housekeepers in Korea; how much? |
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With the birth of our second child coming up in early 2007 we're thinking about hiring some help with the housework and baby rearing for at least the first few months. Does anyone have some experience with this and know how much the going rate is? Where can I go to find out more? |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 6:23 am Post subject: |
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Hi there,
We have an inn house keeper and we pay 50.000 Won a day, we have her 6 days a week. (+- 1.300.000 a month). She ofcourse gets housing and food, included.....
the difficulty is finding someone you can relate too, most Koreans who have inn keepers prefer Females from South East Asia.
The main reason we have her is so we can spend most of our time with our baby instead of cleaning everything .
We are both working so the time we save is worth it.
Good Luck |
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matthews_world
Joined: 15 Feb 2003
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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Wow, you are giving your nanny quite a deal, esp. with the free housing.
I've met a few who work with Korean parents a set 8-10 hour day schedule. They live in their own apartments and make less than 1.0. |
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SeniorEnglish

Joined: 18 Jun 2006
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:42 am Post subject: |
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I had a housekeeper offer to clean my house for 5,000/hr. Of course, being the thrifty person I am, I bartered down to 1,500/hr plus busfare. |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 3:52 am Post subject: |
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Contact your local YWCA.
4 hours cleaning is 20,000 won.
Babysitting, as they call it, is 35,000 a day or about 800,000 a month full time, 8-6.
Seoul is more expensive. |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Tue Aug 15, 2006 5:03 am Post subject: |
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matthews_world wrote: |
Wow, you are giving your nanny quite a deal, esp. with the free housing.
I've met a few who work with Korean parents a set 8-10 hour day schedule. They live in their own apartments and make less than 1.0. |
She is not really a nanny
She keeps the house clean and neat, since i do privates at home, i need a clean house all the time and i cant be *rsed.
My wife is doing a postdoc, so has no time for that either.
Ofcourse she also does cooking and shopping, and takes our son of our hands the few times we have to work at home.
But yes, she isn't badly paid, a bit more expensive then the going rate, but she stays 6 days a week in the house. |
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noguri

Joined: 28 Nov 2005 Location: korea
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 10:06 pm Post subject: what's in a nanny? |
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My wife and I discussed this issue somewhat in relation to Korea and the US. Our daughter was born in the U.S. but we hired a Korean ajuma to help us out for a few weeks.
She was called a DO MI AJUMA, which means a "helping ajuma"
The thing you should keep in mind is, do want the lady to mostly CLEAN the HOUSE, change DIAPERS or act as a governess for the child? Because what you pay depends on what you ask for, regardless of the country.
My wife said that a lot of Korean moms hire Josunjok immigrant women [Josun or Korean people from China]. But they complain that these women sit around and watch T.V. rather than actively occupying the child.
I think that any ajuma is fine, if you want someone who will cook and clean. But if you want someone who is going to play with your toddler so you can care for the new baby, you need a young and energetic person who is going to be more of a real nanny. If her job is to focus on the child and actively play with the child, you'll want to pay more than you would pay for a domi ajuma. |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 10:31 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with the above poster.
Make a clear distinction between a housekeeper and a nanny!
housekeepers are a bit cheaper and don't need an education, anyone can clean a house, some just do it better then others .
Nannies, especially if you care for your childs future, better have a similar cultural background and education level as yourself.
I have noticed that even though we don't let out child interact too much with our housekeeper, she still has some influence over his behaviour, and we try to reduce this effect, since it is not really positive.
Children are incredibily adaptable to their environment, so keep the Quality high. |
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CoolTeach

Joined: 19 Apr 2006 Location: Back in the USSR
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 5:50 am Post subject: |
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Wankers like you are why children are so f***ed up now days. You have a stranger raise your kids for ya and do the housework to. Why do you have children, if you can't care for them? Why don't you adopt instead of polluting the world with more spoiled, silver spoon in mouth offspring? |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 7:06 am Post subject: |
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CoolTeach wrote: |
*beep* like you are why children are so f***ed up now days. You have a stranger raise your kids for ya and do the housework to. Why do you have children, if you can't care for them? Why don't you adopt instead of polluting the world with more spoiled, silver spoon in mouth offspring? |
Are you refering to me?
Maybe you didn't read the post, but i said that we took a housekeeper so we could spend *MORE* time with our son.
We don't have to clean on sunday, more time with my son.
We don't have to cook, more time with my son.
I don't have to do dishes, more time with my son.
We never ever leave our son alone with the housekeeper.
or i guess you have something just stuck up your ass? |
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skindleshanks
Joined: 10 May 2004
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 9:13 am Post subject: |
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We just hired a housekeeper/nanny to work part time while we teach in the afternoons. Once we're finished, we have a relaxing dinner with our kids while she does a bit of cleaning. It has already saved loads of stress and improved our family life. We pay 5,000/hour. We also have her stay late one night a week so my wife and I can go out together--for the first time since we visited the grandparents in Canada last year.
The wage doesn't seem like much by Canadian standards, but it's a good wage here and makes clear financial sense for us. It's far better than carting the kids off to playschool for 4-5 hours a day.
We've tried the YWCA before with mixed success. We placed an ad in Kyocharo (an ad newspaper), and our phone was ringing for a week. |
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periwinkle
Joined: 08 Feb 2003
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:27 pm Post subject: |
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Just curious, but do your housekeepers and/or nannies keep a low profile, or do you treat them like one of the family? It must've taken some getting used to, having a stranger come into your house... |
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Juregen
Joined: 30 May 2006
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Posted: Fri Aug 18, 2006 12:44 am Post subject: |
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periwinkle wrote: |
Just curious, but do your housekeepers and/or nannies keep a low profile, or do you treat them like one of the family? It must've taken some getting used to, having a stranger come into your house... |
That will depend entirely up to you.
We prefer to keep certain periods to ourselves, (breakfast, Lunch, Dinner), as such she will not eat at the same table at the same time. It creates a better environment.
She keeps a low profile when we play with the kids etc...
So basicly we decided that any quality time we spend with our kid, our housekeeper should *not be present*.
For the rest we let her talk and interact.
But do try make a good agreement that certain periods are for your family ALONE. They will understand. |
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OneWayTraffic
Joined: 14 Mar 2005
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Posted: Sat Aug 19, 2006 6:14 am Post subject: |
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CoolTeach wrote: |
*beep* like you are why children are so f***ed up now days. You have a stranger raise your kids for ya and do the housework to. Why do you have children, if you can't care for them? Why don't you adopt instead of polluting the world with more spoiled, silver spoon in mouth offspring? |
Or maybe you are talking to me. Have you ever raised a child yourself? When our first daughter arrived my wife almost went crazy trying to do everything perfectly, the cleaning (our place was hot and dusty), the sleepless nights, the housework and the constant feedings and stress. I was sleeping 3-5 hours a night (broken into 2 or 3 pieces) and was working 10 hour days trying to pay the bills and save money. Taking steps to reduce this stress is only good for your child, your marriage and yourself.
This time we've decided to spend whatever it takes to keep our sanity.
For all those who've posted real advice here, thank you so much. |
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