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student vs teacher: your most rebellious ever
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Julius



Joined: 27 Jul 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 8:25 am    Post subject: student vs teacher: your most rebellious ever Reply with quote

In my opening month of classes as a newbie, I inherited a rather overweight and objectionable young 13 yr old who thought his heroic resistance to foreign occupation, singing the "pukking USA" song as he left class, would earn the respect of Tangun.

His sullen refusal to undertake my commands and casual disruption while I spoke earned an instant bawling out. But Fatboy, as I then christened him, dug his heels in. Some of his classmates adopted the moniker to ridicule him, as I'd planned. However he outweighed them all combined, and soon squashed any dissent. My next ploy of enforcing a detention after class actually ate into my own precious break time, so I discontinued it. The bosses advice to "be nicer to him" I rejected and opted for the smashie and nicey treatment: rewarding his slightest sign of positivity with copious praise, and coming down hard on his every misdemeanour. A standoff ensued.

The grand finale arrived when he brought in a selection of tucker one day and started his banquet while ignoring my initially gentle encouragement to study. After scattering every last bag of chips on the floor I exploded in rage and tore his empty exercise book to pieces, before throwing his book bag and all contents across the class. I then refused to teach him ever again.

The lesson was never replaced and I got more (paid) free time, so I suppose it was a victory.
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robot



Joined: 07 Mar 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 9:44 am    Post subject: Re: student vs teacher: your most rebellious ever Reply with quote

Julius wrote:
After scattering every last bag of chips on the floor I exploded in rage and tore his empty exercise book to pieces, before throwing his book bag and all contents across the class. I then refused to teach him ever again.


Shocked

gotta always think of the underlying reasons for students' poor behavior. since this was an overweight kid, low self esteem maybe? getting the kids to call him fatboy, as you said you planned, and shredding his books in front of his peers likely just scarred him more for life.

kids can be difficult sometimes, but just remember what it was like at that age. and the last thing any teacher should ever do is turn things into a pointless power struggle.

ROBT.
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Yusef



Joined: 30 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 10:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm with robot

i know it can be super frusterating
and impossible to deal with
but i think you handled this situation pretty poorly

no matter how demonic some of these little brats can seem
the ARE just kids
and there are reasons for their behavior

oh well at least its over with

the first few months are prbably be the toughest
just getting a feel for running the classroom
more and more you'll figure out how to discipline but still keep it together
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I_Am_Wrong



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: whatever

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 10:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

AWESOME!

show him how "adult" you are by calling him "fatboy." Good work teacher! You're a tribute to human kind!


I bet "fatboy" had a good laugh after class about mee-chin waygookin teacha....
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alabamaman



Joined: 25 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 12:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP, you dumped a good bag of chips on the floor you could have eaten. Rolling Eyes
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rawiri



Joined: 01 Jun 2003
Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 3:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Maybe the korean netizens are right. Too many backpackers acting like kids trying to teach kids.
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semphoon



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: Where Nowon is

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 3:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It sounds like you were quite angry.

I think it would have been better to just send him out if class (although I don't do that because bad students DONT WANT to be in class so you are just rewarding them). If you sent him out, he wouldn't take up your time and get you stressed out. And you wouldnt have messed up your classroom.
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koala5



Joined: 21 Aug 2006

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 5:35 pm    Post subject: let us Reply with quote

Yes let us pick on the poor fat Korean kid, that is a really smart way of teaching him, especially when the lovely country of America has one of one of the fattest kids in the world rations per head of population. Good to see a teacher can take control of the situation. Typical lazy ass teacher.

This is one of the reason's education sucks here. They are educated to be retards like most students in America

keep up the good work
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Kimchieluver



Joined: 02 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 5:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hahahahaha
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SuperHero



Joined: 10 Dec 2003
Location: Superhero Hideout

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 6:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hope you quit teaching. You are a disgrace. Inciting the other kids in the class to call the kid fatboy is grounds for firing you in my opinion. I suggest you go back to whatever you did before coming to Korea.
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Teufelswacht



Joined: 06 Sep 2004
Location: Land Of The Not Quite Right

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:02 pm    Post subject: Re: let us Reply with quote

koala5 wrote:


They are educated to be retards like most students in America



It is awful the OP picked on a poor Korean student. It is much better to follow the high road you have chosen and call most students in America retards. How mature of you.

Oh, and I don't agree with the OP's actions. I understand the frustration but do not agree with the response.
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Hollywoodaction



Joined: 02 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You need to start acting like a responsible adult. What kind of example did you think you were setting by throwing a tantrum in front of kids?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:28 pm    Post subject: Re: let us Reply with quote

koala5 wrote:
Yes let us pick on the poor fat Korean kid, that is a really smart way of teaching him, especially when the lovely country of America has one of one of the fattest kids in the world rations per head of population.

I nominate this Most Unintelligible Sentence of the Week.

For an ESL/EFL instructors web site, there sure are a surprising number of people who are able to construct nebulous sentences that would require a 3-day acid trip to decipher.
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Hollywoodaction



Joined: 02 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:34 pm    Post subject: Re: let us Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
koala5 wrote:
Yes let us pick on the poor fat Korean kid, that is a really smart way of teaching him, especially when the lovely country of America has one of one of the fattest kids in the world rations per head of population.

I nominate this Most Unintelligible Sentence of the Week.

For an ESL/EFL instructors web site, there sure are a surprising number of people who are able to construct nebulous sentences that would require a 3-day acid trip to decipher.


Bah, it was only a matter of time before a K-netizen figured out how to become a member.
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Hollywoodaction



Joined: 02 Jul 2004

PostPosted: Fri Sep 08, 2006 7:37 pm    Post subject: Re: let us Reply with quote

koala5 wrote:
Yes let us pick on the poor fat Korean kid, that is a really smart way of teaching him, especially when the lovely country of America has one of one of the fattest kids in the world rations per head of population. Good to see a teacher can take control of the situation. Typical lazy ass teacher.

This is one of the reason's education sucks here. They are educated to be retards like most students in America

keep up the good work


I wouldn't accuse other people of being uneducated if I were you.
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