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Paddycakes
Joined: 05 May 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:46 pm Post subject: Being racist to Koreans back home... |
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I'd like to know how many of you treat Koreans back in your home countries like inferiors...
When talking to Koreans in Canada, I always find myself lumping Koreans in with Pakastani's and Filipino's as if they're part of the same social class... I'll say things like: "Yeah, the Filipinos and the Pakastini's have a lot in common with the Koreans...".
I find myself doing this out of spite and a desire to put them down and remind them of who they really are as a group in the larger scheme of things...
I really had to bite my tongue today to stop myself from telling a fairly wealthy Korean women than in Canada her son should aspire to be nothing more than factory worker... because he's just a Korean.
If I had never lived in Korea for almost three years, I would never do this, but after living with the Koreans for almost three years, it's hard not to want to inject reality into their little fantasy worlds... |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, sometimes it just feels good being a racist moron. |
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casey's moon
Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Location: Daejeon
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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Wow, your post (the OP) is offensive in so many ways....
I thought you were married to a Korean and had half-Korean children, which would make your post even more bafflingly offensive. But maybe I've got you mixed up with someone else. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:53 pm Post subject: |
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It doesn't sound like you have a lot of use for Filipinos and Pakistanis, either. Are there any other ethnic groups low on your list? |
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Alyssa
Joined: 15 Jan 2006
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Posted: Mon Sep 11, 2006 11:56 pm Post subject: |
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I think I understand your point. In my experience, the Koreans back home had a huge inferiority complex. What caused this? I think it was the way people saw and treated them. There are always jokes about Asians doing laundry, being a "nerd", the stereotypes are set and cannot be changed easily. I also think that this is one reason the Korean Americans have to act so "loud" here. They seem to have something to prove, like "I was treated bad on your turf, now I am on my own turf"........whatever. The main thing is that Koreans get power when they stick together. The group mentality is all they have. They would LOVE to be part of the cool group. Look at what they have done with that football player, Hines Ward. I have seen 3 different ads with him wearing a KEB football jersey. They hated mixed kids, but if one MAKES IT BIG IN AMERICA, the Koreans will worship him or her. This shows their insecurities. Just look at the news as well. They seem to just brag about some Korean making it big at Yale, or some Korean winning a prize in Austria, or some Korean making a great discovery at UCLA, or some baseball player in the major leagues doing this or that. I think all of this comes from the way they are treated. |
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cheem
Joined: 18 Apr 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 12:13 am Post subject: |
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Oh my god. And people get annoyed at "apologists". |
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cdninkorea

Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 1:32 am Post subject: Re: Being racist to Koreans back home... |
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Paddycakes wrote: |
I'd like to know how many of you treat Koreans back in your home countries like inferiors...
When talking to Koreans in Canada, I always find myself lumping Koreans in with Pakastani's and Filipino's as if they're part of the same social class... I'll say things like: "Yeah, the Filipinos and the Pakastini's have a lot in common with the Koreans...".
I find myself doing this out of spite and a desire to put them down and remind them of who they really are as a group in the larger scheme of things...
I really had to bite my tongue today to stop myself from telling a fairly wealthy Korean women than in Canada her son should aspire to be nothing more than factory worker... because he's just a Korean.
If I had never lived in Korea for almost three years, I would never do this, but after living with the Koreans for almost three years, it's hard not to want to inject reality into their little fantasy worlds... |
I can't believe this needs saying, but you do realize the Korean people who treat you like an inferior in Korea are different people from the ones you treat as an inferior in your country, right? |
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gang ah jee

Joined: 14 Jan 2003 Location: city of paper
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 1:50 am Post subject: |
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I love globalisation and this new era of understanding that we have all entered. |
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jaganath69

Joined: 17 Jul 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 1:52 am Post subject: |
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I wouldn't dare be racist to them but I have to fight the urge to run up to them, say "anyeong hasseyo" and then run off giggling my tittie$ off when they reply. I also feel the need to ask if they can eat bland food, are familiar with a knife and fork or if they are aware of the glorious two seasons that bless my native state of Queensland. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 1:53 am Post subject: |
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One time a white guy laughed at me, so I hate all white people. One time a non-white person laughed at me, so I hate all people who aren't white too. I have everybody. |
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jaganath69

Joined: 17 Jul 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 1:56 am Post subject: |
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RACETRAITOR wrote: |
One time a white guy laughed at me, so I hate all white people. One time a non-white person laughed at me, so I hate all people who aren't white too. I have everybody. |
That's the 'House MD' defense... don't mistake my misanthropy for racism/sexism/homophobia. |
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numazawa

Joined: 20 Mar 2005 Location: The Concrete Barnyard
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 2:42 am Post subject: |
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jaganath69 wrote: |
I wouldn't dare be racist to them but I have to fight the urge to run up to them, say "anyeong hasseyo" and then run off giggling my tittie$ off when they reply. I also feel the need to ask if they can eat bland food, are familiar with a knife and fork or if they are aware of the glorious two seasons that bless my native state of Queensland. |
Thankfully, I'm no longer in Vancouver, where I used to suffer deep anxiety at the sight of Korean tourists riding near-empty buses, as I couldn't help imagining the awful sense of vertigo they must have felt while trapped in that yawning expanse of personal space. |
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Homer Guest
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 2:49 am Post subject: |
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I think that in this case..feeding the Troll led to some funny replies. |
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happeningthang

Joined: 26 Apr 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 3:35 am Post subject: Re: Being racist to Koreans back home... |
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Paddycakes wrote: |
I'd like to know how many of you treat Koreans back in your home countries like inferiors...
When talking to Koreans in Canada, I always find myself lumping Koreans in with Pakastani's and Filipino's as if they're part of the same social class... I'll say things like: "Yeah, the Filipinos and the Pakastini's have a lot in common with the Koreans...".
I find myself doing this out of spite and a desire to put them down and remind them of who they really are as a group in the larger scheme of things...
I really had to bite my tongue today to stop myself from telling a fairly wealthy Korean women than in Canada her son should aspire to be nothing more than factory worker... because he's just a Korean.
If I had never lived in Korea for almost three years, I would never do this, but after living with the Koreans for almost three years, it's hard not to want to inject reality into their little fantasy worlds... |
Sure...
I feel the same way about potato munching, big head, fuzz nuts.  |
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Alias

Joined: 24 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue Sep 12, 2006 3:37 am Post subject: |
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Aren't that many Koreans in the Maritimes so I doubt it will come up. Instead I'll just take out my frustrations on the Chinese community.  |
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