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[Xerxes]

Can I revive this one?

When do, ahem, women peak...in interest in the deed, so to speak?

I'm getting some in rushes now days and I'm having a hard time keeping up, as it, ahem, were. I'm just wondering how many years lean, how many chubby to go? Ya know?

[seoulsista]

I'm sorry. Could you clarify your question please?

[Canadian Club]

I think he's wondering at what age do women have the highest sex drive?????????

I think it's 30 or 35...

[Privateer]

Why can women never just give a straight answer to a straight question, damnit?

[tiger fancini]

Why is it that some women will call their boyfriends when they have absolutely nothing to say?!?!?!?

This has happened to me a number of times, a girlfriend has called me up and after the usual "hi's" and "how are you's" I'm met with silence. At this point I usually say "so, whats up?" and am met with "oh, nothing". Then more silence. So then I will get a little more direct and say something like "ummm, so why did you call?" And then I'm told "oh I just fancied a chat" and then more silence. What I interpret this to mean is that "I want you to chat to me, but instead of waiting for you to call me, I'm calling you and demanding that you talk to me now!

[seoulsista]

Xerxes, I thought that was what your question was. I also have heard that the 30-35 demographic is majorly horny but my instincts tell me things really get going in the early 40's.

Tiger Fancini, this is my take. Without more specific information I can only speculate but my guess is she is looking for confirmation of the relationship. She's feeling insecure about the relationship for whatever reason. She doesn't know where things stand. Is she the only one you are seeing? Are you in love with her or is it just casual? She's calling you to get some closure on these issues. She wants you to establish the status of the relationship. Ideally, the call would go something like this:

You: Hey what's up?
Her: Nothing
You: What's wrong? (This is what you are supposed to ask)
Her: I don't know.
You: What do you mean you don't know. Please tell me what's wrong.
Her: Why didn't you (enter unmet expectation here)?
You: Oh, I don't know. Because I am jerk. I'm sorry. Let me make it up to you. Can we see eachother (enter date and time here).
Her: Ok

This is my interpretation.

[Satori]

[JongnoGuru]

Maybe I'm weird, but I actually like it when girls call me up just to hear my mellifluous, sexy voice. Guarantee you, there's no inquisition from me. ('Why are you calling? Is there something wrong? What's wrong?' <-- things I've never said)

[gang ah jee]