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jennyandson
Joined: 19 Oct 2006
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 Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:36 am Post subject: did you marry a korean? |
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| I did, 5 years ago...what a mistake...he swindled me from the begining..he went from nice guy to ahole, the worst part..we had a baby together...now I am back home and he trying to f off...nice. anyone else..? good or bad...oh and this guy was one of the "nice ones" so watchout...once they come to n. america...all bets off |
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rawiri
Joined: 01 Jun 2003
Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:41 am Post subject: |
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| Well that's sealed it...no way i'm marrying an ajosshi, maybe his sister but definitley not him. |
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RACETRAITOR
Joined: 24 Oct 2005
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:46 am Post subject: |
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| Thanks for the warning. I just married a Korean, and we've been having a great time together, but now I know better. I'll file for divorce immediately. |
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jennyandson
Joined: 19 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:50 am Post subject: just saying |
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| what happened to me...and I know it is because of our different cultures...we were not together that long..and it could not work because of all the obstacles...language, culture, age, family etc...so. not a warning..just a comment..and a reminder...in korea it's not a romance while travelling... |
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rawiri
Joined: 01 Jun 2003
Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 12:59 am Post subject: |
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| So procreating probably wasn't the best idea then huh? |
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jennyandson
Joined: 19 Oct 2006
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 1:02 am Post subject: no |
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| it was...in the end. cause i have an amazing child who i wouldn't live without..the only upside with this man |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 2:58 am Post subject: Re: just saying |
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| jennyandson wrote: |
| what happened to me...and I know it is because of our different cultures...we were not together that long..and it could not work because of all the obstacles...language, culture, age, family etc...so. not a warning..just a comment..and a reminder...in korea it's not a romance while travelling... |
IMHO, I don't think language and culture are that big of a deal. Lying, cheating, and addictions are real problems...unless he is addicted to me and that addiction is A OK. |
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Corporal
Joined: 25 Jan 2003
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:46 am Post subject: |
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| RACETRAITOR wrote: |
| Thanks for the warning. I just married a Korean, and we've been having a great time together, but now I know better. I'll file for divorce immediately. |
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Hollywoodaction
Joined: 02 Jul 2004
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 6:21 am Post subject: |
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| RACETRAITOR wrote: |
| Thanks for the warning. I just married a Korean, and we've been having a great time together, but now I know better. I'll file for divorce immediately. |
It won't cost you a dime. Since you're a photographer, I bet you were able to convince her to take some "art" pictures that will pop up during the divorce. |
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matthews_world
Joined: 15 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 4:10 pm Post subject: |
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I'm sure a lot of girls here wanna know how the sex was.  |
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Big_Bird
Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 5:14 pm Post subject: |
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mrd
Joined: 02 Nov 2006
Location: fluorescent-filled paradise
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 7:21 pm Post subject: |
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The fact that things didn't work out is not because he's Korean. Maybe you should've thought twice about marrying someone you couldn't really communicate with.
You say it's not a warning? When you tell people to "Watch out", that's usually construed as a warning.
"Once they come to N. America"? Again...it probably doesn't have anything to do with the big bad Korean guy going to N. America but more to do with the fact that it wasn't a good marriage in the first place.
Now don't make your baby suffer because of your mistakes. |
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Captain Corea
Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe he left you because of your lack of periods? |
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nautilus
Joined: 26 Nov 2005
Location: Je jump, Tu jump, oui jump!
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| Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 6:04 am Post subject: |
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| Maybe he left you because of your lack of periods? |
yeah. He was only after grammar tuition the whole time |
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MissSeoul
Joined: 25 Oct 2006
Location: Somewhere in America
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| Posted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 7:06 pm Post subject: Re: did you marry a korean? |
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| jennyandson wrote: |
| I did, 5 years ago...what a mistake...he swindled me from the begining..he went from nice guy to ahole, the worst part..we had a baby together...now I am back home and he trying to f off...nice. anyone else..? good or bad...oh and this guy was one of the "nice ones" so watchout...once they come to n. america...all bets off |
I am the one ALWAYS AGAINST of marriage between Korean men and Western women, it doesn't matter it's in Korea or in States.
Sometimes it works when they are in Korea, but most of time it doesn't work when they are in States.
Believe me !!
The relationship between asian men with western women don't last long, it doesn't matter he is Korean, Chinese or Japanese, it just doesn't work.
You want to marry to Asian men ?
Marry to one who lived a long time in western society, that may OK, otherwise it doesn't work, I saw too many cases. |
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