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Bringing my wife with me - will she survive or not?

 
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 10:44 pm    Post subject: Bringing my wife with me - will she survive or not? Reply with quote

I'm currently weighing up the pros and cons of the Middle East and Korea.

One of the factors that I have to consider is my wife and what to do with her.

She's Thai and has never lived in a cold climate before. She has visited my family in the UK a few times but never at winter time.

So climate wise it may be a bit much for her.

The biggest worry for me is what would she do out there. Is she going to end up trapped in a studio or one bedroomed apartment unable to communicate with people properly or will she be ok?

What is the Thai community like out there? Is there one for her to be apart of?

Has anybody else taken their wife/husband out to Korea? How did they get on if they weren't working.

We have discussed her staying here and visiting a couple of times a year instead. Are there any visa restirctions on other Asians can she stay for a month at a time.

Cheers
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 11:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Depends where you are going to be first of all. The Thai community has a heavy presence in Ansan, where a lot of factory workers are. If you can score a gig around there you will be close to a cultural support group and all the goodies you associate with the LOS, food and the like.

My missus is Indonesian and had never lived in a cold country either. There aren't many Indonesians where we live, however she dived into Korean language classes and her circle of friends tends to be both Korean and international. If you get to know your area well, the local government often has things on for the international community and it can be a good way to make friends.

That being said, things are tough here. Not sure where you are planning on in the ME, but if its Dubai it would be a damn sight easier getting into life there than here. Korea and Koreans can seem closed and distant at times. Attitudes can range from maddening to infuriating. Pick where you are going to go carefully, a year in the sticks could be hell. Anyhow, I hope this helps, all the best.
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poet13



Joined: 22 Jan 2006
Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.

PostPosted: Wed Dec 13, 2006 11:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would not take my asian wife to the middle east. I dont think she would be regarded as anything more than someones servant, and treated accordingly. My asian wife has spent about six months in korea. She loved it. The people in my town/city were overboard kind to her and my son.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 2:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's good to know.

I worked out in Korea 4 years ago and had to leave due to the usual BS from the boss ( retrospect I could have handled it better but what do you do when people are trying to steal your passport)

I lived in Manguri which isn't the most pleasant place to live. Sometimes somewhat hostile.

If there is a Thai populated area I will have a look for work around there.

Cheers

Q
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frankly speaking



Joined: 23 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 2:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

For the majority most of the immigrant factory workers are from the Phillipines or Moracco. There are some Thais here but not too many. As was stated they are of factory class and depending on what class your wife is from might not find anyone to talk to. Most Koreans will ask if she is Phillipino. Bring some warm clothes and she will adjust. If you can survive the hot season in Thailand she can survive a few months of winter in Korea.

If she learns some Korean she would get along a lot better. I think that you would be better off in a larger city like Busan. In a small town, she would have nothing to do but sit in a closet sized apartment and stare at the TB for 7 hours.

Most of the other Asian communities are very friendly and she will make friends even if there aren't many other Thais.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What about a visa for her?

How does that work?
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 2:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wait until March or - better - April to bring her here.

Then she will have a good six to eight months before the cold, it getting progressively cooler.

Dumping her into Korea in January or February is just not wise.
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mrsquirrel



Joined: 13 Dec 2006

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dumping me in Korea in January or Febuary is not wise either Very Happy
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ttompatz



Joined: 05 Sep 2005
Location: Kwangju, South Korea

PostPosted: Thu Dec 14, 2006 3:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mrsquirrel wrote:
What about a visa for her?

How does that work?


If you are legally married she can get an F3 (dependant family) visa with no difficulty.

If she is friendly and outgoing and can speak English moderately well she will be able to make lots of acquantainces in a larger center. Forget the factory towns because everyone will assume she is just a migrant worker. Get into an upscale neighboorhood like Gangnam, Yongtong or Bundang and she will be treated much better.

Get her a gym membership or she can go walking in one of the parks. If she is a gregarious person she will be just fine.

My wife adapted quite well here and goes out regularly.

IF you start here at the beginning of March she will not suffer too much from the cold and will have the whole spring/summer/fall to aclimatize.
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qwunk89



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i believe she can also get a spousal visa - although that might be the same as the one mentioned above dependent/spousal visa . . . . not sure
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frankly speaking



Joined: 23 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 3:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Also the visa for Korea is free for Thai citizens. She will need to have an interview though and you will need a letter from your employer stating that she is welcome to come.

The paperwork for Korea is much easier than the middle east
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jaganath69



Joined: 17 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Fri Dec 15, 2006 4:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

frankly speaking wrote:
Also the visa for Korea is free for Thai citizens. She will need to have an interview though and you will need a letter from your employer stating that she is welcome to come.

The paperwork for Korea is much easier than the middle east


That is for the tourist visa. The F3, dependent spousal visa, which my wife has, is pretty straight forward. I've done it twice now. All you need is a copy of your contract, your marriage certificate, pictures of her, your passport and visa. Fill in the forms at immigration here and they will give you the visa issuance number about 10 days later. From there, send it to her, or have her duck out of the country to get her F3. If you need to know any more, please don't hesitate to contact me here or via PM.
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