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Babayaga · Joined: 28 May 2005

In response to the topic" will ignoring a girl get her attention?"---does ignoring a guy work?

What actually works if you're interested in a guy who only seems to want to be friends with you?

It seems sometimes that not even looks and talents/education combined work. Rolling Eyes

Is it really all about SEX??!! Wink

And:why don't looks always work(slim/great hair) to get a guy sexually interested in you? Is there a type that guys prefer or a type that signals to them that they'll be great in bed??

Imbroglio · Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 3:40 pm Post subject:

joe_doufu · Joined: 09 May 2005 Location: Elsewhere

God, women are stupid.

Babayaga · Joined: 28 May 2005

What worked with you? Ignoring the guy or having sex with him? Uhmm,what is your gender?

mindmetoo · Joined: 02 Feb 2004

I believe it works like this. If you're a woman and you like a guy, you only have to give him the merest indication that he might have a snowballs chance in hell with you. The end. He'll do all the rest. I mean how many guys turn into love sick puppy dogs because you borrow a pencil and they think "OH BABY SHE WANTS ME!"

All in all, if a man is not attracted to you, he simply won't be. Men tend to be the great black and white thinkers. We invented the digital computer, after all. We generally categorize women into two categories: hotties or bush pigs. If you're in the bush pig category, short of breast implants, you're not getting out of that category. If you're in the hotty category, we'll hit on you and walk 8 miles in snow to buy you tampons. Initially.

However, male psychology also changes when he thinks he can have you. Suddenly he thinks "Oh if I can get her, maybe I can trade up? Get something better." Here in comes the reason why you should not be too easy. Men in relationships are like fruit trees. If they think they have all the time in the world for love to bloom, the relationship will never bear fruit. So you have to prune men back. Let them know they're job is to keep wooing you.

Babayaga · Joined: 28 May 2005

Why are women stupid?

bignate · Joined: 30 Apr 2003 Location: Hell's Ditch

peppermint · Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 5:01 pm Post subject:

BEing unavailable, particularly if you're dating a friend of the guy's seems to work.

JongnoGuru · Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: peeing on your doorstep

Swiss James · Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Location: Shanghai

I would never ever go out with someone who's been with a friend of mine. The thought of going where he's been is just grim.

peemil · Joined: 09 Feb 2003 Location: Koowoompa

This is why I don't understand women. Ignoring someone= He'll like me.

Just imagine you're in the supermarket. The woman at the counter ignores you. What do you feel? Love?

No. You want to take out a can of peaches and beat them over the head with it repeatedly.

peemil · Joined: 09 Feb 2003 Location: Koowoompa

Peppermint.

kermo · Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:40 pm Post subject:

kermo · Posted: Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:46 pm Post subject:

I'll let you know how this one works out; I've got this technique on the go at the moment.

I recently met a guy-- first glance made me weak in the knees, and he seemed eager to start up conversations all over the place. I realized that responding in kind would probably dampen things, so I've consciously dialled down my usual warmth and gregariousness (gregariosity?). I'm not hostile, but just a little shy. I see him most days, and I've noticed that he'll stop and wait to talk to me, and has given me a little nickname.

So far so good, I think.
However, Mindmetoo makes a good point: "However, male psychology also changes when he thinks he can have you. Suddenly he thinks "Oh if I can get her, maybe I can trade up? Get something better." " I have no idea what's supposed to come after this part.

Corporal · Joined: 25 Jan 2003