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95% of Korean Men Have a Mistress ...
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panthermodern



Joined: 08 Feb 2003
Location: Taxronto

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Population:
48,289,037 (July 2003 est.)

Age structure:
0-14 years: 20.6% (male 5,256,451; female 4,703,853)
15-64 years: 71.5% (male 17,527,407; female 16,991,229)
65 years and over: 7.9% (male 1,512,157; female 2,297,940) (2003 est.)

Median age:
total: 33.2 years
male: 32.2 years
female: 34.2 years (2002)

Population growth rate:
0.66% (2003 est.)

Birth rate:
12.6 births/1,000 population (2003 est.)

Death rate:
6.03 deaths/1,000 population (2003 est.)

Net migration rate:
0 migrant(s)/1,000 population (2003 est.)

Sex ratio:
at birth: 1.1 male(s)/female
under 15 years: 1.12 male(s)/female
15-64 years: 1.03 male(s)/female
65 years and over: 0.66 male(s)/female
total population: 1.01 male(s)/female (2003 est.)

In the 15-64 year age group there are more men (1.03 males / females)
in Korea then women (according to the CIA). This makes a 95% rate even more unlikely, unless I as said they share.

Could not one argue that Korean women have harems of Korean men?
If a single Korean woman is mistressing 3 or 4 married Korean men I would hardly say that 95% of Korean men "have" a mistress, it would be more like 95% of Korean men have 25-33% of a mistress.

Who would want a third of a mistress? Especially at full mistress prices
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

dogbert wrote:
Corporal wrote:
I don't know, I just feel like starting a post that's titled "95% of male ESL teachers in Korea have dysfunctional schlongs" and see how well that'd go over.


The difference is, you'd immediately have 95% of male ESL teachers in Korea offering personally to prove you wrong. Twisted Evil


Err, that would make my husband jealous, that is if I could pull him away from his mistress long enough to notice... Wink
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dogbert



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: Killbox 90210

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

panthermodern wrote:
Could not one argue that Korean women have harems of Korean men?


I've wondered if this will be the result of the imbalanced sex ratio. Either that or a rapid de-stygmification of male homosexuality.
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dogbert



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal wrote:
dogbert wrote:
Corporal wrote:
I don't know, I just feel like starting a post that's titled "95% of male ESL teachers in Korea have dysfunctional schlongs" and see how well that'd go over.


The difference is, you'd immediately have 95% of male ESL teachers in Korea offering personally to prove you wrong. Twisted Evil


Err, that would make my husband jealous, that is if I could pull him away from his mistress long enough to notice... Wink


In your case, I have no doubt that your husband is one of the happy faithful 5%. Very Happy
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That was a nice thing to say, you sweet man. I feel that way myself. Very Happy
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Mr. Pink



Joined: 21 Oct 2003
Location: China

PostPosted: Tue Jan 27, 2004 11:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Corporal wrote:
dogbert wrote:
Corporal wrote:
I don't know, I just feel like starting a post that's titled "95% of male ESL teachers in Korea have dysfunctional schlongs" and see how well that'd go over.


The difference is, you'd immediately have 95% of male ESL teachers in Korea offering personally to prove you wrong. Twisted Evil


Err, that would make my husband jealous, that is if I could pull him away from his mistress long enough to notice... Wink


Corporal I am surprised you don't have a little plaything on the side.

I have heard of a couple tales of foreign woman married to Korean men that get a little "play" on the side cause their husbands are always working and "a woman's got needs".
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Corporal



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 12:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mr. Pink wrote:
Corporal wrote:
dogbert wrote:
Corporal wrote:
I don't know, I just feel like starting a post that's titled "95% of male ESL teachers in Korea have dysfunctional schlongs" and see how well that'd go over.


The difference is, you'd immediately have 95% of male ESL teachers in Korea offering personally to prove you wrong. Twisted Evil


Err, that would make my husband jealous, that is if I could pull him away from his mistress long enough to notice... Wink


Corporal I am surprised you don't have a little plaything on the side.

I have heard of a couple tales of foreign woman married to Korean men that get a little "play" on the side cause their husbands are always working and "a woman's got needs".


Well yes, I do have needs...but I go to work with my husband, and we can lock the doors and play together whenever we want to! I highly recommend this. Very Happy
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Homer
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 2:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ky-boy,

Even you has to know that that 95% figure is impossibly high.

I am quite sure many, many men in Korea have mistresses. But 95%...come now.

Like the T-beer said..perhaps he meant he has a mistress 95% of the time or even he has 95% of a mistress and is looking for that missing 5%.
Then again he could mean he wishes he had a mistress 95% of the time....its all so complex.

But, did you know that 99% of men can urinate standing up! Laughing
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ryleeys



Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: Columbia, MD

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 2:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I think my best friend in Korea is one of the women teachers I work with and if I were to discover her husband with a mistress I would beat the living crap out of him... nothing worse than being untrue to a woman. Of course, he's generally a nice guy, so all is well.

Though on a smaller scale, I find alot of things men do here to be disrespectful too... it annoys me when I will see a couple walking together, then the man will randomly walk of on his own ahead of the woman. I personally find that rude... along with I have never seen a Korean man hold a door for a lady, though that doesn't mean it doesn't happen... I guess it's just far too rare.
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Ilsanman



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 2:57 am    Post subject: yes Reply with quote

I also don't believe that number. How do they have time? When they're not working, they're drinking soju with their buddies.

More likely 95% of men have had a mistress at one point. I even find that hard to believe, but more believable than the statement that 95% of married men currently have a mistress.
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Manner of Speaking



Joined: 09 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 3:44 am    Post subject: Re: yes Reply with quote

Ilsanman wrote:
More likely 95% of men have had a mistress at one point. I even find that hard to believe, but more believable than the statement that 95% of married men currently have a mistress.


Or that 95% of married Korean men who CAN AFFORD to have a mistress have one. Maybe. But 95% of ALL married Korean men? That would mean that there's something like 80 million missing Korean women somewhere...
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 7:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Was that 95 a typo? Even 59 would be awful high! I'd guess closer to the 10-20 % range, which still seems like a lot of cheaters in my opinion.

But I have heard it's common in mcuh of Asia for a married to also have a girlfriend or visit prostitues regularly. Had a married boss in Taiwan who told me about his girfriend. Read in newspaper once in Thailand that it is pretty routine for many married men who can afford it to use a prostitute between once a week and once a month. And largely accepted as normal in the society. I wonder about Japan? Surely there has to be a lot of it going on there? Just an impression but those dudes do seem perverted!
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kiwiboy_nz_99



Joined: 05 Jul 2003
Location: ...Enlightenment...

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Homer, read my previous post again, I'll even high-light the important part to help you out.
Quote:
I also question the figure he estimates, but that's what he said. I think he estimated high to make himself feel better about what he does. I still think it's more common here than in our home countries, though I seriously doubt 95%.
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buddy bradley



Joined: 24 Aug 2003
Location: The Beyond

PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 8:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Any man that has to put up with the princess syndrome all day not only needs a mistress but deserves one, no doubt.
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Homer
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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2004 8:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You take my posts far too seriously sometimes kyboy... Laughing

thanks for the highlighting old man...it did wonders.

If you doubt the number so much...and if it comes from what someone said to you then why post about it at all?

Why not just say korean men seem to cheat more then western men.

That would be the start of a debate....
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