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itaewonguy

Joined: 25 Mar 2003
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 7:56 am Post subject: |
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yeah like the director of the school wasnt a regular down in TEXAS
come on!! a kroean male talking about how wrong prostitution is!!
hahahaha even the cops I beat knew the girls all to well!!!
what a load of bull!!!
koreans talking about how wrong sex is!! WHATEVER!!!!!
hahahahahaa thats a laugh!!!! |
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Keepongoing
Joined: 13 Feb 2003 Location: Korea
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 2:35 pm Post subject: ha |
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I think it is like John Kerry said "It is like Tony Soprano giving a talk on law and order.
I think the issue with the school is that this is very much a "Don't ask - Don't tell" society.
Yes, my students told me that many establishments have already gone out of business because of the recent crackdown. They had read this in the paper.
I was in Gecko's last night and it had more women in there than I have ever seen. They kept coming in in pairs, my guess is that some are working undercover. All of Itaewan was swarming with police and MP's last night |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 3:12 pm Post subject: |
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Words from two of the most eloquent posters around.
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| Yeah, dumbass. |
For thinking prostitution lessens loneliness.
And for engaging in such risky behaviour. |
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coolsage
Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Location: The overcast afternoon of the soul
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 4:03 pm Post subject: |
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| One can speculate that perhaps he wasn't the most attractive or charming piece of work in his neighborhood. It's safe to assume that he wasn't subtle about his intentions. Korean guys pull it off, so to speak, every day and night, but this guy obviously had a different ptofile. The hypocrisy of the sanctity of the Korean marriage is verified when the statistics show that 70% of Korean married men have extra-marital sex. So the waygook was simply doing what the locals are doing; but he was busted. Clearly, he wasn't discreet. |
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The King of Kwangju

Joined: 10 Feb 2003 Location: New York City
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 4:12 pm Post subject: |
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You've only got part of the story here.
A massage parlour in Taejon was raided and they got the "guestbook." One repeat appointment was to the university dorm. When this hit the papers, parents were screaming for blood, asking how a uni could allow a dorm-living student to order massages. What kind of school were they running?
This put the pressure on the uni to find the guilty student, and when it came out that it wasn't a student at all, rather the American ESL teacher, there's wasn't much they could do besides fire him.
I read it in the papers. |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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| According to a friend, who'd know about such matters, this guy's fatal mistake was bringing the girl back to his place. Even if you live on your own, and pay your own rent, it's "common sense not to bring them home- where they could steal your stuff, or harass you later. That's what yeogwans are for!" (his words not mine) |
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Wangja

Joined: 17 May 2004 Location: Seoul, Yongsan
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 5:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Whatever you may think about the rights and wrongs of this or the hypocrisy of society, whether Korean or other, his contract probably includes a clause about criminal behaviour resulting in dismissal without rights. However prevalent it may be it is against the law. |
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FUBAR
Joined: 21 Oct 2003 Location: The Y.C.
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Whatever you may think about the rights and wrongs of this or the hypocrisy of society, whether Korean or other, his contract probably includes a clause about criminal behaviour resulting in dismissal without rights. However prevalent it may be it is against the law. |
Some contracts also have a Morality clause, not to cause damage to the reputation of the university. I know... I know.... but, saving face is huge in this country. I am guessing that a Korean prof would have to resign as well, if the situation escalated this far. |
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Zed

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Shakedown Street
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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| coolsage wrote: |
| One can speculate that perhaps he wasn't the most attractive or charming piece of work in his neighborhood. It's safe to assume that he wasn't subtle about his intentions. Korean guys pull it off, so to speak, every day and night, but this guy obviously had a different ptofile. The hypocrisy of the sanctity of the Korean marriage is verified when the statistics show that 70% of Korean married men have extra-marital sex. So the waygook was simply doing what the locals are doing; but he was busted. Clearly, he wasn't discreet. |
When in Rome don't do as the Romans? |
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MixtecaMike

Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Location: 3rd Largest Train Station in Korea
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 7:41 pm Post subject: |
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| The King of Kwangju wrote: |
One repeat appointment was to the university dorm. When this hit the papers, parents were screaming for blood, asking how a uni could allow a dorm-living student to order massages. ...
I read it in the papers. |
This is a lot different to "English teacher fired for using prostitute."
I bet you'd be fired from most any job anywhere for dragging your place of employment into the papers with this kind of publicity. Sounds fair enough to me. |
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just because

Joined: 01 Aug 2003 Location: Changwon - 4964
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Posted: Fri Oct 15, 2004 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Was she fired as well???? |
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Len8
Joined: 12 Feb 2003 Location: Kyungju
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 7:20 am Post subject: |
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| Thanks for the extra info King of Kwangju. The paper I read obviously didn't publish all the details. |
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crazykiwi

Joined: 07 Jun 2003 Location: new zealand via daejeon
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 10:31 am Post subject: |
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hey all, for starters, i know the guy and the situation. lets get the facts straight. he wasnt married as one poster suggested, he wasnt "a repeat" offender, just dumb enough to use a credit card for payment which was what they traced, and the other was that he was caught in the raid which was done after it was made illigal, though the actual act was commited BEFORE the law was passed. all in all, he didnt do anything illegal, he is a stand up guy so leave the judgements of his charachter to yourselves please and also who cares what he did, many a man has done it before and will continue to do so. i think it was harsh that he got asked to leave knowing so many of his korean counterparts could almost have certainly done exactly what he did. anyway, hope this clears a bit up for some, laterz
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 11:18 am Post subject: |
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| crazykiwi wrote: |
| ...dumb enough to use a credit card for payment which was what they traced |
He used a credit card?? And brought her onto campus??
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| ...he didnt do anything illegal |
What? You too? Did you think prostitution was legal in Korea? It may have been a common practice among locals, but surely you and he knew it was still illegal. Even the Lonely Planet tourist guidebook states that prostitution is illegal here and that the red light districts are for locals only.
Dumb and dumber.
He might be a nice guy but what he did was plain dumb. He should be kicking himself rather than getting angry at Koreans.
On campus with a credit card. Geez. Talk about loss of face! |
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kiwiboy_nz_99

Joined: 05 Jul 2003 Location: ...Enlightenment...
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Posted: Sat Oct 16, 2004 7:17 pm Post subject: |
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Some contracts also have a Morality clause, not to cause damage to the reputation of the university. I know... I know.... but, saving face is huge in this country. I am guessing that a Korean prof would have to resign as well, if the situation escalated this far.
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If he dragged the uni into the papers, probably yes.
I was once fired from a uni, or more like "not asked back for a second contract", because I was seen talking to a group of female students for an "unusually long period of time" after class (10 minutes) and some uptight little secretary "reported" it. While I have it on good authority from a long timer at the uni that the top mathematics professor was boning three students and his secretary, and presumably his wife too when he could find the energy. |
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