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What's Your Empathy Quotient?
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What's Your Empathy Quotient?
Low (0 - 32)
55%
 55%  [ 15 ]
Average (32 - 52)
29%
 29%  [ 8 ]
Above Average (53 - 63)
7%
 7%  [ 2 ]
Very High (64 - 80)
7%
 7%  [ 2 ]
Total Votes : 27

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recessiontime



Joined: 21 Jun 2010
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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 2:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Louis VI wrote:
recessiontime wrote:
60

this is correlated with high intelligence am I right?

Nah. With na�vet�.


If you had any EQ at all you'd realise how hurtful you can be... Sad
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FMPJ



Joined: 03 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

73
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Triban



Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station

PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 4:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I usually do not have appropriate responses to others emotions...at least that's what my girlfriend tells me.

I don't want to be a zero-negative mommy Sad
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joelove



Joined: 12 May 2011

PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 5:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

FMPJ wrote:
73


Wow. So, what am I thinking?
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FMPJ



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have no idea--I haven't taken the clairvoyance test yet, but I expect I won't be any better than average Smile
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rainism



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

26 empathy. 40 systemizing.

some of the questions are queer and inapplicable.
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litebear



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 1:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

35 for me, seems about right. I'd say I was slightly below average
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rainism



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 6:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

given I'm convinced most people are idiots, serious concern for their thoughts, much less feelings doesn't particularly interest me, though I'll never go out to intentionally humiliate, embarrass or otherwise make uncomfortable any particular person, unless I feel they've done or said something to deserve it.

so 26 is probably surprisingly "high" for me Very Happy
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joelove



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 5:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rainism wrote:
given I'm convinced most people are idiots


I'm convinced that most people are convinced of this as well
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FMPJ



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 6:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps, but I'd argue the smart ones would include themselves in that majority.
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Draz



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 10:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

DorkothyParker wrote:
The stuff about zero positives is very interesting. I have always been very keen on keeping up appearances and trying to figure out the correct emotional responses to new situations. Though, I don't have Aspergers, I do find myself consciously thinking "This person wants X response. I will give them X response so they feel satisfied and happy." I think this leads to me over-reacting at times. LOL


This kind of behavior is often the result of growing up with a zero negative parent. (Or parents.)

I got 49.
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rainism



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 10, 2011 11:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

joelove wrote:
rainism wrote:
given I'm convinced most people are idiots


I'm convinced that most people are convinced of this as well



Laughing

indeed!

yet there are some quantitative measure that will tell you whether you're one of the "most people" or not Wink
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Zyzyfer



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 12:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rainism wrote:
some of the questions are queer and inapplicable.


The plague of all those dumb teen surveys that used to be huge - maybe they still are?

-----

Your best friend calls you up and reveals that he knows his girlfriend is cheating on him, but he doesn't know who the other guy is and asks you if you know anything. Do you:

(A) Deny knowing anything
(B) Tell him you think you saw her kissing the school jock at the football game
(C) Offer to come over and play XBox and talk about it later
(D) Tell him you're shagging her right now

Dumb teens then proceed to sit around and whine about how they've never experienced this, the answers don't suit them, blah blah blah. Then they whimper about getting Optimus Prime as the answer to the "What Transformer are you?" quiz when answering D should clearly mean they're Grimlock.

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A lot of the questions really have to be generalized a bit more to make any sense. I don't like these tests because it often seems like it's more how you subjectively perceive yourself as you think of a few sparse interactions that might help answer the question, rather than an objective observation of your personality.

My 45 EQ made me harumph a bit, but I almost never strongly agreed or disagreed with anything, seems about right I suppose.
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FMPJ



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 4:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rainism wrote:
yet there are some quantitative measure that will tell you whether you're one of the "most people" or not Wink


Yes, and as a lifelong educator and SAT/AP prep teacher, I am convinced that those measures are profoundly flawed (if not altogether useless) . Very Happy
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rainism



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 11, 2011 6:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

FMPJ wrote:
rainism wrote:
yet there are some quantitative measure that will tell you whether you're one of the "most people" or not Wink


Yes, and as a lifelong educator and SAT/AP prep teacher, I am convinced that those measures are profoundly flawed (if not altogether useless) . Very Happy


perhaps, but there are others.. more "real time", life based.

one example would be: if you were buying or borrowing against your house from 2005 onward like most other lemmings and did you really think house prices would continue rising.
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