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joyfulgirl

Joined: 05 Jan 2006
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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| dad doesn't talk to me anymore. that's annoying. and heartbreaking. |
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SPINOZA
Joined: 10 Jun 2005 Location: $eoul
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 5:49 pm Post subject: |
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mY mother and I have fallen out too.
When she visited me in Seoul shortly before Xmas, we had an argument and she ended up going home earlier than planned (she'd worked in New Zealand for a year and was on her way back to England - one week Seoul stopover with me).
She stormed out and I thought she'd get a hotel in Itaewon or something and we'd make friends and move on, but an email said she'd got an early plane and was already back home.
We'll make friends eventually, but for now we're not speaking. And in doing so, my ability to communicate with fellow Westerners has reached absolute rock bottom. |
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i_teach_esl

Joined: 07 Sep 2006 Location: baebang, asan/cheonan
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 5:55 pm Post subject: |
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yeah, parents... when i moved out of my parents house, it wasn't by choice, it was b/c my mom kicked me out. she had already stopped speaking to me for about 2 months. when the moving truck came a week later, she only then broke her silence by laughing and singing songs.
LOVE YA, MOMMA!  |
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namja
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Location: yogiyo
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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Worse than that; "listen here son hell gonna freeze over before you marry a girl with tattoos, u got me?"
"But dad she's so hot!"
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Empress Jiyong
Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Location: The Old Motherland
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah I do have maybe a problem. I'm deathly allergic to the institution of marriage. |
No need for you to worry. I met a 33 year old gal on Sunday who works at one of the restaurants inside the Interconti Hotel, and she said customers ask her why she is not married and they ask her if she has some kind of mental problem. Jerks!!! |
God. Those people suck. My grandparents just want me to be happy I think. And for me to produce grandchildren for them. That's not happening. Sorry 할머니.
If I was her I wouldn't take someone calling me crazy for not wanting to get married. I'd make sure they never forget it's none of their business. I'd lose my job. But I would feel vindicated. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 10:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Yeah I do have maybe a problem. I'm deathly allergic to the institution of marriage. |
No need for you to worry. I met a 33 year old gal on Sunday who works at one of the restaurants inside the Interconti Hotel, and she said customers ask her why she is not married and they ask her if she has some kind of mental problem. Jerks!!! |
God. Those people suck. My grandparents just want me to be happy I think. And for me to produce grandchildren for them. That's not happening. Sorry 할머니.
If I was her I wouldn't take someone calling me crazy for not wanting to get married. I'd make sure they never forget it's none of their business. I'd lose my job. But I would feel vindicated. |
Me too, with my temper, I'd end up losing that job. I may just pour water on someone's head or throw a drink in their face! I have done that twice in Korea anyways, and I was not even working there. hahaha!!! You can usually find another job waiting tables. |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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| If I was her I wouldn't take someone calling me crazy for not wanting to get married. I'd make sure they never forget it's none of their business. I'd lose my job. But I would feel vindicated. |
May be that's why you are a teacher, and she is in the service industry. |
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Wrench
Joined: 07 Apr 2005
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 1:01 am Post subject: |
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I hate it when my parents ask me when I will get GF and or get married..
My responce as usual is NEVER. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Wed Jan 31, 2007 1:30 am Post subject: |
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What gets me is my mom gets crazy excited when I am going to visit, but then can't help reverting to "mommy". The last time she told me, in all seriousness, to make sure I put the toilet seat down, as I had apparently not done so on the third or fourth day. This was on a ONE week vacation. I mean, if you have regular guests to your house, are you going to tell them to remember to put the seat down? Of course, I made sure not to for the duration of the visit  |
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