Korean Job Discussion Forums

nicholas_chiasson · Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Location: Samcheok

-Now, many of the posters have indicated that korean women are traditional, difficult(as in NOT 'easy) and religous, being provincial in their outlook and required the patience of a martyr to date/marry.
-Now assuming that all these were a PLUS to you, where would you meet such women, as obviously they are the polar opposite of the itaewon bar girl? However there is the cavet that they must ALSO be open to the idea of bing seen with an enormous white guy. Do they exist?

Young FRANKenstein · Posted: Mon Oct 01, 2007 5:02 pm Post subject: Re: Assuming the exact opposite

CentralCali · Joined: 17 May 2007

I've met very nice Korean women while waiting at a bus stop, while attending church services, in museums, in libraries, in stores, at parks, and at community events.

I haven't met any at bars or clubs because I don't go to those places and I don't know where you would go to find a girl who's "easy" as I'm not interested in that kind of girl.

bassexpander · Joined: 13 Sep 2007 Location: Someplace you'd rather be.

You can meet them teaching adults.

I know I'll catch flack for that, but seriously.... it happens more than not. You want to get married? Go teach at a hagwon for adults, like YBM. Uni students are too young to waste time with, unless you hook up with a non-traditional student who is 26 or 28+.

You can also meet them at church, but of course, that won't guarantee you'll meet a nice person. Churches can also be full of very conservative types who have parents that wouldn't allow a foreigner in the family.

The best way to meet people in this country is by making friends of the opposite sex - they coworkers or whatever - establishing that you are just FRIENDS with that person (unless they are attractive to you), and then getting them to introduce you to their friends. I don't advise people to date co-workers. Been there, done that, lived in hell after.

You can use www.ublove.com to meet people, but i'll warn you that many of them are players.

RACETRAITOR · Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Location: Seoul, South Korea

The best way is by speaking Korean.

Ginormousaurus · Joined: 27 Jul 2006 Location: 700 Ft. Pulpit

nicholas_chiasson · Joined: 14 Jun 2007 Location: Samcheok

-I agree about learning Korean...but learning a language to meet women you might end up not wanting to meet....seems like a poor motivator(Not meaning poor reason; meaning I won't be motivated) Honestly I'd rather learn Korean so as to eat better.