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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:05 pm Post subject: RIP Eric |
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One of my cousins in Holland died of a stroke. I found out today. Eric was only 46 yrs old.
He'd been feeling very unwell the last month--seeing a neurologist for blinding headaches in the mornings. The docs couldn't figure out what was wrong. Taking pain meds that didn't seem to help. Couldn't work. Was scheduled to have an MRI done on the 22nd.
He was otherwise always a happy, healthy guy.
I can only wonder if the docs would have caught an imminent bleed if he'd had the MRI sooner.
Our family is in shock. His father is devastated. Burying your child goes against the natural order of things.
Today we appreciated our lives more than usual. |
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bovinerebel
Joined: 27 Feb 2008
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:08 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry to hear that man. Always sh!tty when folks go before their time. |
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Stormy

Joined: 10 Jan 2008 Location: Here & there
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:24 pm Post subject: |
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My sympathies, he was so young for a stroke!  |
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blurgalurgalurga
Joined: 18 Oct 2007
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry to hear that. Condolences to you and your family. |
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Rteacher

Joined: 23 May 2005 Location: Western MA, USA
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 11:25 pm Post subject: |
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I'm sorry for the loss felt by those related to him, but there is no need to lament - he's probably in a better place and relieved to be out of a body that caused intense suffering.
I lost a cousin who was about the same age as me a couple years ago, and my father passed away a couple months later.
It's sad for us, but hopefully they're much happier. |
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mountainous

Joined: 04 Sep 2007 Location: Los Angeles
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Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 11:27 pm Post subject: |
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I'm very sorry, canuckistan, my prayers tonight include you and your family... |
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SHANE02

Joined: 04 Jun 2003
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 2:39 am Post subject: Re: RIP Eric |
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canuckistan wrote: |
One of my cousins in Holland died of a stroke. I found out today. Eric was only 46 yrs old.
He'd been feeling very unwell the last month--seeing a neurologist for blinding headaches in the mornings. The docs couldn't figure out what was wrong. Taking pain meds that didn't seem to help. Couldn't work. Was scheduled to have an MRI done on the 22nd.
He was otherwise always a happy, healthy guy.
I can only wonder if the docs would have caught an imminent bleed if he'd had the MRI sooner.
Our family is in shock. His father is devastated. Burying your child goes against the natural order of things.
Today we appreciated our lives more than usual. |
My sympathies.
The same thing happened to my mom at 50. Huge migraines for years, and one day....an aneurysm/stroke. I don't trust doctors really after this. I had been pushing for an MRI for mom for 2 years.
the specialist at the hospital told me one in five people will have a stroke or aneurysm in their life.  |
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chriswylson
Joined: 20 Feb 2007
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 2:53 am Post subject: |
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Sorry to hear that, but what is the purpose of posting about that on ESL cafe for strangers to read? |
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crusher_of_heads
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 5:28 am Post subject: |
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chriswylson wrote: |
Sorry to hear that, but what is the purpose of posting about that on ESL cafe for strangers to read? |
It would appear you have a Y=0 learning curve in social graces.
Sorry to hear the bad news, c. |
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canuckistan Mod Team


Joined: 17 Jun 2003 Location: Training future GS competitors.....
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 6:58 am Post subject: |
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chriswylson wrote: |
Sorry to hear that, but what is the purpose of posting about that on ESL cafe for strangers to read? |
Aside from the obvious boorishness of your post concerning my cousin's untimely death herein lies a cautionary tale.
The sudden onset of prolonged, blinding headaches should be checked out *ASAP* with an MRI. It could save a life. |
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big_blue_21

Joined: 02 Nov 2005
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 9:34 am Post subject: |
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dittos . . . sorry about that . . . |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 11:01 am Post subject: |
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C. that's terrible. My best friend lost her father the same way a few years back. My thoughts are with you and your family |
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