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Guys: How does a woman keep you interested in her?
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winnie



Joined: 08 May 2005
Location: the forest

PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:26 pm    Post subject: Guys: How does a woman keep you interested in her? Reply with quote

Just wondering.....conducting some research.

Conversely, how does she make you uninterested?
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victim of love



Joined: 12 Sep 2005
Location: might as well be on mars because that's how far away i feel from you.

PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

she loves football, hockey and beer.

conversely, it's all about her...
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Newbie



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Independence is great.

Clingy, needy, "let's spend all our time together" girls are no good.
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jayjayjay



Joined: 27 Aug 2005

PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 10:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To make a woman happy: flowers, fine wine & dining, a listening ear, diamonds, commitment, support and security

To make a man happy: Show up naked, bring beer
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Sun Nov 20, 2005 11:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jayjayjay wrote:


To make a man happy: Show up naked, bring beer


That be true. Change the beer to pizza and I've done that.

Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'

Keep a guy happy is reasonably happy. Don't be clingy or relationshipy too fast (as girls often do) and put out on a regular basis.
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 1:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Newbie wrote:
Independence is great.

Clingy, needy, "let's spend all our time together" girls are no good.

That sums it up right there.
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stat



Joined: 22 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 3:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

how to keep me interested: speak freely and naturally about things she's interested in or randomly thinking of that day

how to get me uninterested: be nervous about what to say; say what they think i want to hear; be moody/sullen/grumpy (works as a short-term attention grabber only).

Ultimately, if she's not interesting, there's no way she's going to keep me interested. I used to get worried when I was a kid about whether or not I was 'funny' or 'interesting' but then I realised that whoever you are, some will find you interesting/funny while others never will.
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hack



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 4:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How a woman keeps me interested:

-She��s not past her expiry date (30-35 in most women)
-She is totally not interested in getting married or having children and she certainly is not a single mom.
-She uses at least 2 kinds of birth control and will never ask me to not use a condom.
-The bulge she is interested in is not the one in my wallet
-If I don��t call her for a few days she never asks why
-The only kind of call she gives me is a booty call
-She doesn��t ask me where I have been or what I have been doing since I saw her last. She knows it��s none of her business unless I want to tell her
-The only time the word god comes out of her mouth is in bed
-She is smoking hot, and works out all the time
-She always offers to pay at least �� of any bill we incur together and sometimes the whole bill and is not at all upset if I let her pay �� or all
-She loves going to Las Vegas and again, is fully prepared to pay her own way and knows she may not see me for a couple of days if I get on a roll.
-She drives a car that is worth at least $50k
-She owns, not rents
-She has an investment banker on her speed dial

If this sounds as though it is 1 sided , yeah it is and that��s what women love about this approach. They love a man to be in control. Trust me, this works, big time. And for any women who disagree, I��m willing to bet that you��re at least 1 of the following: fat, whiny, clingy, uninformed, poor, fugly, a single mom, religious or perhaps you bat for the other team.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My biggest pet peeve with any girl: timidness. If she's afraid to speak her mind, insecure about her body, worried about what people think, afraid to let loose, etc., I'm not interested at all.

The biggest turn-on is a girl that challenges me intellectually. The rest is negotiable.

I used to date a really hot girl who had rocks for brains and was clingy. I almost killed her after about two months.

Q.
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spidey112233



Joined: 21 Jul 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:


Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'

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earlobe and inner thighs??? what kind of a line is that??? Laughing Laughing
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winnie



Joined: 08 May 2005
Location: the forest

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:34 am    Post subject: Re: Guys: How does a woman keep you interested in her? Reply with quote

spidey112233 wrote:
winnie wrote:
Just wondering.....conducting some research.

Conversely, how does she make you uninterested?


i got two things to help you out on.

1. YOU DONT CONDUCT RESEARCH TO FIND OUT WHAT WOMEN ARE LIKE.

and

2. START BY LOSIN THAT AVATAR!!!! SHE'D PROBABLY THINK YOURE
GAY



Too much soju tonight???

I am asking GUYS.....to learn how a WOMAN can keep a MAN interested. So that should tip you off to the following:

A) I'm not trying to find out what women are like....I wanna know about guys....from the guys.

B) If I want to know this stuff....it's highly likely I'm female....and my avatar is just fine..........Thanks!
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plato's republic



Joined: 07 Dec 2004
Location: Ancient Greece

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 5:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

She's gotta put out on a regular basis, no questions asked. And none of this insecurity with her body, feelings etc...basically someone who has a fun to be with personality and a modicum of intellect. A nice set of melons wouldn't hurt either Laughing
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joe_doufu



Joined: 09 May 2005
Location: Elsewhere

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 6:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Guys want to feel "powerful" when they're with their women. I put that in quotes because it's not exactly right... what I mean is we want to dispel our insecurities and feel "strong" or something. The biggest turn-off for me has been after a relationship progressed to the point where the girlfriend thought it was okay to nitpick and criticize things I was insecure about... my weight, for instance, or the... um... positions that I liked that weren't so great for her.

I'm not saying that a girlfriend shouldn't try to mold her man into what she desires, but I think there are much more subtle and powerful ways to do so than directly criticizing him. There is always... good old-fashioned... reward and punishment...

Also, give lots of blowjobs. Can I say that on Daves?
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Bo Peabody



Joined: 25 Aug 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 12:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Bo Peabody



Joined: 25 Aug 2005

PostPosted: Mon Nov 21, 2005 12:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
Ohhh and every so often send them an email text saying something obsecure but sexy like 'my right earlobe is missing your left inner thigh.'

Keep a guy happy is reasonably happy. Don't be clingy or relationshipy too fast (as girls often do) and put out on a regular basis.


True!!!!!!

CLG why can't girls figure this out?!!! It's so..... simple.
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