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[ATP]

Dear teachers:

I have a question about that what's the differences between complement and praise? Do they have negative meaning? What situations do they can be used? Thanks.

Best wishes,
ATP

[dragn]

Hi ATP,

First: learn to spell this word. It's compliment, not complement. (I usually ignore people's spelling mistakes; but since it's the word you're asking about, I can't very well let it go. It's an easy mistake to make.)

If you compliment someone, you say something polite (usually directly to them) that indicates that you like their appearance, appreciate one of their good qualities, approve of something they've done, etc.

If you praise someone, you express approval of their qualities or accomplishments. It doesn't need to be spoken directly to them; in fact, it doesn't need to be spoken at all. It could be something you write about someone.

As you can see, the meanings are rather similar, and there is some overlap in their usage. Oh, and both are completely positive. I can't think of one single instance where either of these words can convey a negative meaning.

Anytime you say something nice about someone's appearance, use the word compliment:

That's a lovely dress.
Have you lost some weight?
That suit looks great...where did you get it?

If you tell someone directly that they did a good job or that you admire or approve of something they did or some quality they possess, you could probably use either the word praise or compliment:

Hey John, you did a great job on that report.
Tommy, you did the right thing in returning that wallet you found. I'm proud of you!
Your last paper really showed a lot of improvement. Good job!

If someone says or writes something about someone that expresses approval of their achievements or qualities, use the word praise, especially if it's something grand or heroic:

This editorial praises the way the president handled the crisis.
The mayor praised the veteran police officer for his bravery in apprehending the armed robber.
Critics praised the group's newest CD, which has sold over a million copies.

I hope this gives you some basic ideas about these two words.

Greg

[ATP]

Dear teacher:

Thank you for your correct and reply, I would pay more attention to my spelling!

Best Wishes,
ATP