Dave's ESL Cafe's Student Discussion Forums

[toninho]

How important is it for you to marry someone from the same country? would this be important, especially when looking for lifetime partners? What are your views?

[dylan8765]

i think if a wan marries a woman who is from the some country,they will not have a language problem.so they can talk to each other easily.
then because they are from the some country, that they can understand each other easy and they also can fit into the new life early.
finially they can know more friends though the other.

[Heath]

Nowadays, many people like to meet fiends on the internet. Some of them even want to marry someone on the internet. In my opinion, it is of no use to meet someone on the internet and then get married because everyone you meet on the internet may not tell you the truth. Furthermore, I think it is important for me to marry someone from same country.
First, if I have a wife from the same country, we can understand with each other, and then we can talk to each other more easily. Finally, we can use less time to find someone to marry.
On the other hand, we may feel bored because we know everything with each other for a long time.
Getting married in the same country is important because we can solve many problems with the same culture.

[sam_kit]

It is very important for me to marry someone form the same country.
First of all, the most important thing is that we can understand each other because we have the same culture, the same customs, we have the same lifestyle, we eat the same food and we do the same tings at the festival.
And then, we can talk to each other easily, it is also important, If we can not get the meaning of the other one, it could be a big problem.
Finally, this is the fastest way to marry because we can meet each other easily.
On the other hand, it is boning that we marry some from the some country because we know every thing about each other; we can not get any interesting thing from each other.
In conclusion, I think it is very important for me to marry some from the same country.

[echo leong]

It is important for me to marry someone from the same country because of three points. First of all, we can understand each other. Second it is easy to talk with each other because we use the same language. Finally, we can know each other faster and easier why he/she to do something. On the other hand, it is boring because we know each other too much. If I marry someone from other country. It maybe make us feel interesting because we can talk our countries and culture with each other. At last, I think it is important and necessary to understand each other. So it is important for me to marry someone from the same country.

[rudolf]

It is important for me to marry someone from the same country.
First at all, we can understand each other easily because we have the same culture, same custom. She knows what I do and I know what she does.
Then, we can communication with each other because we are using the same language. Learning the same language is easily than learning other language.
Finally, it is faster to get marry. We are in the same country, in the same place, we can meet each other more than in other country, and we can improve our relationship without using the internet.
On the other hand, marrying someone from the same country may conflict and become boring. Although we are living in the same country, we may have different traditions. Same custom have different kind to do. It can make us to become boring .You know all about my country and culture and I know all about your too. If I get marry from other country we can know more about what different between my country and the other country.
In my opinions, get marry in my own country is my own country is better than in other country because we have same culture and language. So I think I will get marry from the same country.

[Wilson Leong]

It is important for me. Because of this. Frist of all you can communicate easily, and then you have the same hobby.
Finally, if you and your wife or husband live in the same country,
you can contact easily.
On the other hand, if you and your wife and husband have the
same culture that it may be boring, and then you can�t learn other language. At last, your wife or husband may be conflict easily with
your family.

[allen_chan]

First of all, you can understand each other. If your wife is from Macau, you can know her cultures .And it is easy to live together. And other, it has easy communication, because you have the same language. Finally, it is easy to get faster to meet people.
On the other hand, it is boring to get married someone from the same country. When you marry other country�s girl, I feel it is exciting because in Macau, it is too little people have marry other country�s girl.
In conclusion, the important thing is communication and culture�s problem. So I think I will marry someone from the same country.

[alvin12345]

I am a student in Macau. My family and I live in Macau. We are a traditional family and lifestyle. I want to marry with a Chinese�girl. Living in Macau, many people use Chinese language in communication. When my wife is Chinese, I can easy know what she is thinking. Because we have some culture, we can understand the other side. However, we have same culture. We have less the discussion something what are about own opinions. It may have a conflict in the live.
It is not important that people marry someone with the same country or anther country. When we love the other side, we will accept that the other side be everything.