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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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 Posted: Sun Oct 09, 2005 6:36 am Post subject: What kind of parents would you be? |
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I guess that on the board, there are some members who are parents already, and most members are not parents yet. however, later or earlier, you will become a parent. what kind of parents would you be? strict one? generous one? middle one?
Basically, I am a strict mother. If my daughter forgets to do her homework, I would blame on her, sometimes I even condemn her out loud. however, I took some memers' advices, never beat my daughter.
Anyway, I believe that each parent loves his/her baby, whether you are strict or well-tempered.
again, what kind of parents would you be? |
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admiral
Joined: 17 Sep 2005
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Ok, I am a theorist.
However, I want my future child, if I would have one,  I will want him/her to be brave. I mean, he/she shouldn't fear of anything, anybody, because that's the most important.
He/she should be able to do everything on his/her own. And he/she should not lie, I mean pretending that the work hurts him/her very much, to let me help him/her.
 oh, I notice... (please don't take it that serious, I only want to say that my child shouldn't be afraid of his classmates, etc.)
Quotation from Adolf Hitler, "My battle":
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| ...My paedagogy is hard. The weak must be hammered away. A youth will grow in my castles, at which the world will be frightened. A (ok, not violent or savage, but) fearless youth do I want. Youth should be this all, pain must it sustain. Nothing weak should be at them. The free, glorious predator should flash out of their eyes, strong and beautiful... |
Then he says that he doesn't want any intellectual education, but this is wrong. Knowledge is the most imporant, however, then it goes on:
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| ...controlling must they learn. They should learn how to defeat the fear (ok not especially the fear of death, but fear generally) even in the most difficult challenges... |
Don't take it as a kind of example, please, I fear from being kicked out of the forum... |
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RedRose
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| Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 3:20 am Post subject: |
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| Don't take it as a kind of example, please, I fear from being kicked out of the forum... |
Don't worry about that. if you get kicked out, you can re-register with another nick like Super_admiral  |
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dragon2008
Joined: 27 Sep 2005
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| Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 6:38 am Post subject: |
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I will be father around the end of october or beginning of the november .
These days, my wife and I usually talk about how to bring up our baby.
We basicaly reach agreement on it that I should be a kind father and my wife should be a strict mother because my character is so gentle that I couldn't be strict with our baby.
I am so excited, I will be father.
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admiral
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| Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 6:55 am Post subject: |
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| congratulations! |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004
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| Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 7:16 am Post subject: |
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| dragon2008 wrote: |
| I will be father around the end of october or beginning of the november . |
really?? woow! congratulations! the future dad!!
I bet you are imagining that how your baby would look like, like mom? or like dad? or like both? anyway, I can understand your recent feeling well. I am sure you would make a gentle dad |
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