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maxy · Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 13

hi,im maxy nice meetin' u guys Laughing

what do u think of long-distance love affair? me and my bf,we r far from eachother now,we r really in love but sometimes u know feel so lonely and scared that its impossible to be together and to see eachother... Crying or Very sad

Snake777 · Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 1:56 pm Post subject:

Hello Maxy !
Aww i love ur topic . 'cuz i'm like you , i have a bf that soooo far away from me too Sad

I do understand how u feel . I feel sooo lonely and i get depressed for sometimes .
All i can do everyday is just sitting infront of my computer to enjoy his pics , read our online diary , wait for him to be on and everything that makes me happy
Sometimes i feel bad 'cuz i'm afraid of girls who re around him , i do trust him and i know he loves me too . But you know girls right ?! I always make things get complex . I always feel weird and disappointed if i dont hear anything from him everyday .And I'm sad when i cant be there for him when he feels down
Guess what i did to him yesterday ?! I said he did not love me at all and now i regret ! I should have not told so .... i'm soooo depressed now , i;m afraid that he is mad at me now or he does not want to talk to me anymore Crying or Very sad

I have no idea for what is going on now , it was all my faults and now i feel sooooo bad !
Maxy , if you do love ur bf , then dont say anything stupid like me . Do trust in ur love and keep it strong . Maybe , everything on internet re just unreal but OUR LOVES for our boyfriends RE TRUE Smile

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But i want to tell you that u should not expect too much , we might get hurt . I dont know but it's life . Anywayz good luck with ur bf

maxy · Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 13

hi,thanx 4 ur message snake777 Laughing

wow we r totally same huh? Very Happy

i know,how u feel too. u know,wait 4 him to be online on weekends(i meant messanger),and sometimes read the e-mails or MSN's conversations what we talked. and im also worring about girls u know Very Happy

and once he got little mad at me,but well its okay now though.. also,hes in army now or his military service, sometimes he wrote me how he tired or miss me or friends,and all i can do is just try to make him feel better and because of hes in army it always via e-mail Crying or Very sad

and u said that uve told him that he doesnt love u and u regret it. well i havent said like that thing but my bf sometimes ask me like" do u still love me",u know. when i heard this words,im kinda shocked but on second thoughts i can feel his love in same time. dont think too much,snake, u guys r far from eachother,to have some doubts is natural and it means that u love him a lot i think.to ne nervous is natural,cuz we r not together all time. i do understand how ure feelin now.

i wish u guys HAPPY!! Wink

Snake777 · Posted: Mon Nov 07, 2005 11:14 pm Post subject:

Awwwwwwwwwww and thanx for the advice , Maxy .
I do have some nice quotes about distant relationship
"I may not get to see you as often as I like. I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night. But deep in my heart I truly know, you're the one that I love, and I can't let you go."
"Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart."

"I know when I leave, the distance will keep us apart. But distance, no matter how far, can't change these feelings in my heart."

^_^ is it nice ? i think it is i love it and my bf does like it too =]

supernakrian · Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 60

***I may not get to see you as often as I like. I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night. But deep in my heart I truly know, you're the one that I love, and I can't let you go.*****

WOW!! Snake
You are great!!
I love these you wrote Snake!
Especially"I can't let you go"
I really fell impressive of you now!
I never hear these verse before Wink

Snake777 · Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 9:09 pm Post subject:

Hehehe Nakrian ! I did not write it Very Happy

I stole it =] Hahaha i got it from internet , but do you think it's nice Wink

?!!!!!!!!
^__^ I had lots of love quotes and poems , but i dont remember where they re now ?! Aww Sad

supernakrian · Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 60

Snake!!!

But it's great Wink

I love it.Try to remember and send it to me in pm okay?
Thanks!!!

maxy · Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 13

hi snake:D
wooo,i love that quote Laughing

**I may not get to hold you in my arms all through the night. But deep in my heart I truly know, you're the one that I love, and I can't let you go.**

i love these lines.. yea,i cant let him go.. i have no idea if he left me,u know. and he doesnt sound he's alright, hes more quiet than usual so im worring about him... but i cant do anything for him,just write some mails... Crying or Very sad

oh,btw i love Alicia Keys's song...

some people want it all, but i dont want nothing at all
if it aint you baby, if i aint got you baby
some people want dimond rings,some just want everything
but everything means nothing if i aint got you baby

Snake777 · Posted: Thu Nov 10, 2005 9:18 pm Post subject:

~ To Nakrian ~
Awww .... I'll try to send it to you tomorrow or maybe tonight . Sorrie i dont have much time now 'cuz i have to do something and get ready for skool again which starts in 40 mins Very Happy

~To Maxy~
Awwww my bf does not talk to me much either Sad

.. yup and i know how u re feeling now . Just hope they will be fine soon so we dont feel bad like this anymore Sad

Great 'cuz we have same situation =] so we can know the feeling of each other easily . Aww that song .... sounds nice , i dont listen to Alicia Keys much but i love that lyric !
Hey Maxy and where re you from ?!

supernakrian · Joined: 31 Oct 2005 Posts: 60

OOOOOOOOOOH!!
Take it easy girl!!
You'll be alright!! Wink

Maybe he just busy and tired Wink

So that why he doesn't talk to you much Wink

I'm sure when you guys feeling better they 'll contact you all.
Do not worry!!! Cool

Snake777 · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 5:58 am Post subject:

Awww thanx Nakrian , soooooooooooo nice of you guy !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Hehee i sent you those quotes and hope you like it . But it's all distance love quotes ... Hummnn re u sure that u want it ? Lol i still have more but i have to find it . I wrote it somewhere in my notebooks and i cant really remember now Very Happy

maxy · Joined: 01 Nov 2005 Posts: 13

*snake* oh ur bf too? u know i do understand that he is so tired but, it doesnt sound like just being tired,u know like more deep inside stress or something.. and it could be very concern with our mind and mental right? so thats why im kinda worrying about him... but also i do know that hes srtong,taugh guys Laughing

oh and im from japan:] what about u? and u should check alicia keys!!XD

*supernakrian* thanx for ur advice, it made me feel better.u know ure guy so,maybe u can imagine how guys think and tell me Very Happy

im wondering, what is long distance love affair for guys:D one of my friend said that its mpre difficult for guys than for girls,cuz they have sexual frustrations Laughing

and i did have this kind of matter with my bf so... Very Happy

Snake777 · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 6:24 am Post subject:

~ To Maxy ~
Do you know what i'm really worrying ?! I'm just afraid that he feels tired of our relationship Sad

I dont know , he always says no . But who knows ?! But i just got his offline message !!!!!!! Yayyyyyyy soooo awesome Wink

I'm going to talk to him again on this Sunday , it made me happy alot ^__^
Hummn i think guys sometimes re krazie . Sometimes , they always keep talking but sometimes they re sooo quiet with a cold looking -_- and i really hate it . I always want to see my bf to be happy and talk to me as much as he can lol . We cant see each other soooo all the sweet words from him or me is the only way to show our loves to each other . Do you think so ?! And i hope ur bf will be alright . Ahhhh , dont worrie too much . 'cuz it makes you feel down . Think about the bright side =]
Awww you re from Japan ?! It's sooo awesome . Hummn i wonder if u can teach me lil bit Jap . I'm studying it myself but it's still soo poor haha , i'm not good at all and i cant really remember things well
Gambatte and Ja mata Wink

admiral · Joined: 17 Sep 2005 Posts: 546

Long-distance love affairs are, to my mind, stupid, unreal, childish.
Yeah, we don't know anything about each other and only words. We don't know whether she tells you the truth or not, don't know how she looks like (a photo doesn't say anything), don't know how she is like, don't know what will happen when coming together in the real life... We know nothing.
And because it seems to be very up to date to write poems: Very Happy

And after this illusion has gone away,
after reality proved that dreams can't stay,
feets were returning on the paths of that day,
when foolish dreams leaded the wrong way.

Thanks much for the reasons,
I have seen through the seasons.

At least to know that dreams will be gone,
and cause on the way there is still bright sun,
should have continued which hasen't been done,
the way had been stopped walking, when dreams had been fun.

So, maxy, my really serious advice to you (I know that you won't follow) is to kick away your internet love and to look back whether you had had a "broken" way in your past because you thought that internet love will be better than the one in the reality.
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I love inside you everyone else. I love the whole world because of you. I also love myself inside you"

Snake777 · Posted: Fri Nov 11, 2005 1:57 pm Post subject:

Hey Admiral ! Maxy does have love in real life , not on internet . Her bf is just far away from her and he is in the army now hahhaa
Oh well , and you re right in somehow about the internet love . But what can i do 'cuz i'm sooo in love with him ?! And our love is not really an internet love . At least i know what i should know about him .And i think it's enough , people have the secrets that cant tell and so does he . But I know he does not tell lies to me Smile

I do trust him
And that poem... hummn i dont really get it lol , sorrie i'm sort of slow Very Happy