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stellara
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hi! if you are from Turkey,you can understand what a important issue for Turks.because Turkish culture tells;no sex before getting married!but I hate this keen prohibition!but however i think age of having sex shouldnt be as low as 15!!!!!!greets  |
haha! you mean, it should be lower than 15?  |
hmm  I think she meant it shouldn't be lower than 15.. that's right anyway!
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| Preventing is still a bad problem. But if girls understand how to do, I also think it's ok. |
whoa!  don't you think that it's a man's thing to prevent, too?! who should wear a condom?? no, i understand. but if the girl takes the anti-baby pil, and the boy wears a condom, it should be quite difficult to get pregnant, though...
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eda
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| Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 7:12 am Post subject: |
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heyy RedRose i got the point of your view.dont worry
i am writing this sentence again dear friends.this is what we wanna say :virtue should considered in only head, not in maidenhead..thats the point.
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phucauto
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| Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 7:47 am Post subject: |
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heyy RedRose i got the point of your view.dont worry
i am writing this sentence again dear friends.this is what we wanna say :virtue should considered in only head, not in maidenhead..thats the point. |
that's true! and your hubby believes in you!
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eda
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| Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 7:57 am Post subject: |
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heyy RedRose i got the point of your view.dont worry
i am writing this sentence again dear friends.this is what we wanna say :virtue should considered in only head, not in maidenhead..thats the point. |
that's true! and your hubby believes in you! |
 hahah thanks dear.nice to feel your support 
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buki
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| Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 10:13 am Post subject: |
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| nooo! I didnt say as you understand |
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admiral
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15? I would set the district at 18! If you look back, do you think that you yourself are capable for the possibility to have children?
I don't think that I was.
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eda
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| Posted: Tue Jan 03, 2006 11:32 am Post subject: |
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[quote="buki"]nooo! I didnt say as you understand [/quote]
okey okey dont worry .we understood what you wanted to mean 
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stellara
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 2:41 am Post subject: |
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no, I wasn't ready to get children then either. but having sex is not the same as having children! of course I'm against having children in that age, even 18 or 20 is too young in my opinion. but as long as nothing goes wrong it's okay to have sex at 15 i think..
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admiral
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To my opinion, sex at 15 is 
Sex and children are influencing each other. If you do this, then you also have to consider the possibilty of that.
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stellara
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:08 am Post subject: |
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the possibility, yes. But it's not given that you get pregnant if you have sex. you just have to be careful and watch out. if you prevent in a adequate way, then I don't see why young girls shouldn't have sex. as long as they are aware of what they are doing. because if they really really want to have sex at that age, i can't see a good way of keeping them from it. so it's better if you explain everything early, so they at least know what they are doing.
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Snake777
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 6:57 am Post subject: |
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@_@ 
God damn it , i cant believe that i missed many interesting things here !!!!!!! Lol
About this topic ... Viet Nam and China re same ~_~ i think so
Hmmnnn from what Redrose said , if u think u can believe ur bf and love him that much ... hmmmnn then it's fine to have sex b4 marriage . When i was little , i thought it was digusting haha since adults kept telling me how bad it was .And yeah , they re also sometimes called b1tch or *beep* or something . But now (i know i'm still a kid too ) I think it's normal since it happens everywhere . And i dont bother criticize girls who have sex b4 marriage anymore ( hmmmmnn maybe , maybe not ) ....Hahah but make sure that they have " safe sex "
But my own opinion , hmmnn i will save it for my future husband hahaha |
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RedRose
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 8:01 am Post subject: |
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But my own opinion , hmmnn i will save it for my future husband hahaha |
You are a good girl
I am not |
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admiral
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| Posted: Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:15 am Post subject: |
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RR, You are not a girl any more. 
Yes, when someone is young, then having sex is not good. You know why? Because the moral of people in Chinese or Viet Nam environment don't like girls having sex early.
But in Germany, the majority of girls have sex early. And the society likes it, because then the girls are independant, and that's what the policy here is advertising for.
It's all about, if you want to call it so, Nationalism.
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RedRose
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I am not a girl anymore, but I am a virgin
kidding, of course. nobody would believe I am a virgin! if I said I am a virgin, it sounds like Bush says: US is trying to help Iraq order her country and oil and economy. |
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stellara
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| Posted: Thu Jan 05, 2006 2:08 am Post subject: |
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boys also have sex early in germany, don't forget them. and I've never seen actual advertisement for independent girls or anything similar...
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| nobody would believe I am a virgin! if I said I am a virgin, it sounds like Bush says: US is trying to help Iraq order her country and oil and economy. |
good example!!
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