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RedRose
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Condoms also carry a 15% failure rate. That's quite high.
So I really think that not doing it is much more safer than anything else.
Everybody thinks that with condoms everything is ok, I doubt this idea. |
No guy would like to use condoms! at least I didn't find one. that's the point. |
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stellara
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| Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 7:44 am Post subject: |
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okay, but with me it's sex with condom or nothing at all  because I don't see why I should risk getting pregnant or a disease. I think a boy would decide pretty quick for sex and condom 
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admiral
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The 15% is a reason for me why I say no.
I don't have that much money for a girl now.
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Bob S.
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| Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 3:03 pm Post subject: |
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| okay, but with me it's sex with condom or nothing at all because I don't see why I should risk getting pregnant or a disease. I think a boy would decide pretty quick for sex and condom |
Rose (and any other girl reading this), I know Stellara is younger than you, but listen to her! She is absolutely right.
To quote a (very long) article "The Impact of Family Structure and Social Change"
"...boys and young men who refuse to use condoms are not worth becoming involved with, since such refusal is an indication of male immaturity, recklessness, and lack of consideration for a girl's health and well-being."
If he doesn't protect you, he doesn't care about you. It is that simple.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Wed Jan 11, 2006 9:38 pm Post subject: |
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| stellara wrote: |
| okay, but with me it's sex with condom or nothing at all because I don't see why I should risk getting pregnant or a disease. I think a boy would decide pretty quick for sex and condom |
Rose (and any other girl reading this), I know Stellara is younger than you, but listen to her! She is absolutely right.
To quote a (very long) article "The Impact of Family Structure and Social Change"
"...boys and young men who refuse to use condoms are not worth becoming involved with, since such refusal is an indication of male immaturity, recklessness, and lack of consideration for a girl's health and well-being."
If he doesn't protect you, he doesn't care about you. It is that simple. |
No, I don't have to ask my bf to use candoms!! because I have a better way of conception control than use condoms. |
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stellara
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yeah, there are many ways to prevent pregnancy, but that's not the only danger as you surely know! Because I don't have a real long-term boyfriend - like in a marriage or something like that, I can't know if my partner would be "secure" or not.. okay, I don't change my partner that often but I never know what happens... so--
greets 
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+Immune+
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there's a common practice of combining those two well-known methods in preventing pregnancy and diseases:
using condoms and being faithful to one partner at the same time
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admiral
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Simply do sex when you in the age of it and when you are sure about everything.
That's the best.
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RedRose
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| Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 5:09 am Post subject: |
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| +Immune+ wrote: |
there's a common practice of combining those two well-known methods in preventing pregnancy and diseases:
using condoms and being faithful to one partner at the same time |
I can do that too! I mean, I can be faithful to my lover at the SAME time. however, when I date a guy, I always find another guy more attractive  and I can't help that. |
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